# Rich, lonely nerd is offered the chance to have a kept woman. Should he take it?

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**Created:** [March 25, 2013, 6:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rich-lonely-nerd-is-offered-the-chance-to-have-a-kept-woman-should-he-take-it/653940 "2013-03-25T18:53:01Z")\
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**Author:** ![Senegoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/senegoid/32/6606_2.png) [@Senegoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Senegoid)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2013, 6:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rich-lonely-nerd-is-offered-the-chance-to-have-a-kept-woman-should-he-take-it/653940/40 "2013-03-26T06:04:51Z")

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Lots of posters above, including [del]OP[/del] **Skald the Rhymer** are questioning what emotional damage may result if, for example, she dumps him after a short while.

But for someone nerdy like that, he has to make his cost/benefit prediction analysis as best he can with the available data he has. If he turns this down, will be be even worse off for being alone, love-starved, and sex-starved for the rest of his life? How otherwise-hopeless is the guy?

He could well end up like that old guy that **Loach** knows!

> [@Almost 30, never had a relationship. Any advice?](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/almost-30-never-had-a-relationship-any-advice/638807/10):
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> One of my acquaintances who has become old, bitter and alone complains constantly about the evils of women and why they won’t date a nice guy like him. Believe me it is obvious to all his friends.

> [@Almost 30, never had a relationship. Any advice?](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/almost-30-never-had-a-relationship-any-advice/638807/15):
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> You do remind me of a younger version of someone I know. You don’t want to turn into him.

ETA: Oh, BTW, as for this:

> [@Skald\_the\_Rhymer](#):
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> A random call girl wouldn’t have been able to talk about number theory.

A certain commercial provider I did business with some years ago (who I wouldn’t at all describe as a “random call girl” however) was conversant with me about COBOL. Whoda thunk?

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