You still haven’t explained who turned Lot’s wife into salt. But more specifically to this assertion, if I understand you correctly, it is only by cherry picking that one could look to the bible as evidence of a “psychopathic delinquent” god.
I don’t think there is much spin to interpreting God’s instructions to Joshua as anything other than genocidal. I also have a hard time understanding what good things would balance out genocide.
This probably goes to the argument that the Gods of the Old Testament are described in a variety of ways by multiple authors and editors, and that’s fine. Whether the question is about the God or the Gods of the OT remains irrelevant. The Bible is still held out as the Good Book, reflective of desirable moral and ethical qualities after which we should model ourselves.
I don’t think it improves the argument against the premise of the OP to amend the prescription to say: “It is good to act in petty, spiteful, vindictive, mysogynistic, homicidal, genocidal, inconsistent, good, kind, generous and forgiving ways.”