# Rimming poll

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [November 25, 2002, 2:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661 "2002-11-25T14:23:58Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![cuauhtemoc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ecb155/32.png) [@cuauhtemoc](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cuauhtemoc)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 2:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/1 "2002-11-25T14:23:58Z")

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Let me state for the record that I am NOT trying to test the limits of IMHO nor am I trying to piss anyone off (**[Khadaji](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=146031)**), I just feel that somebody ought to start this thread for the sake of completeness.

Men? Women?

Have you ever?

Did you like it?

If you’ve never done it, would you?

I’ll start: I’m a man, and no I’ve never rimmed or been rimmed. I was seeing a woman earlier this year who expressed an interest in being rimmed, but the relationship fizzled out before it became an issue. Personally, I’m rather put off by the idea of putting my tongue in someone’s butt. How 'bout you?

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**Author:** ![tiny\_ham](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a183cd/32.png) [@tiny\_ham](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tiny_ham)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 3:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/2 "2002-11-25T15:37:59Z")

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everyone else is a wuss. 😃

I’ve done it. Both give and receive. LOVE IT.

Sex is messy and sticky and weird if you’re doing it right. I love every PART of my husband’s body, so it doesn’t gross me out. That’s just my opinion of course.

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**Author:** ![Y.T](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/a698b9/32.png) [@Y.T](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Y.T)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 3:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/3 "2002-11-25T15:40:34Z")

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I think thats one of the places where i place a limit, both giving and recieving.

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**Author:** ![Mockingbird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c68b51/32.png) [@Mockingbird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mockingbird)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 4:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/4 "2002-11-25T16:56:15Z")

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Given. Recieved. Loved it.

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**Author:** ![plnnr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7ea924/32.png) [@plnnr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/plnnr)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 5:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/5 "2002-11-25T17:03:05Z")

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Ditto

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**Author:** ![Arden\_Ranger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b487fb/32.png) [@Arden\_Ranger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arden_Ranger)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 5:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/6 "2002-11-25T17:15:21Z")

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What they said

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**Author:** ![tiny\_ham](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a183cd/32.png) [@tiny\_ham](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tiny_ham)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 5:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/7 "2002-11-25T17:16:55Z")

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sounds like we got a party on our hands.

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**Author:** ![roadrunner70](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e19b73/32.png) [@roadrunner70](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/roadrunner70)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 5:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/8 "2002-11-25T17:23:47Z")

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I’m in.

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**Author:** ![lieu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c2a13f/32.png) [@lieu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lieu)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 5:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/9 "2002-11-25T17:39:08Z")

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Is it like eating calamari?

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**Author:** ![cuauhtemoc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ecb155/32.png) [@cuauhtemoc](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cuauhtemoc)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 6:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/10 "2002-11-25T18:29:01Z")

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So **Y.T** and I are the only prudes? I guess most of the people who find anuses (anii?) gross already made their disgust known in the anal sex thread. I’m sh_t-phobic, what can I say? Well, not exactly phobic, I just think that the sight, smell, or (god forbid) TASTE of sh_t would kill the mood for me faster than her father busting through the door with a shotgun. Before I could toss a woman’s salad, I would have to be reasonably confident that I would not come in contact with sh\*t.

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**Author:** ![Happy\_Lendervedder](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/happy_lendervedder/32/8488_2.png) [@Happy\_Lendervedder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Happy_Lendervedder)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 6:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/11 "2002-11-25T18:40:28Z")

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> [@](#):
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> _Originally posted by cuauhtemoc \*  
> \*\*So **Y.T** and I are the only prudes? I guess most of the people who find anuses (anii?) gross already made their disgust known in the anal sex thread. I’m sh_t-phobic, what can I say? Well, not exactly phobic, I just think that the sight, smell, or (god forbid) TASTE of sh_t would kill the mood for me faster than her father busting through the door with a shotgun. Before I could toss a woman’s salad, I would have to be reasonably confident that I would not come in contact with sh_t. \*\*

Couldn’t have said it better myself.

Happy

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**Author:** ![dorkusmalorkusmafia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dorkusmalorkusmafia/32/7266_2.png) [@dorkusmalorkusmafia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dorkusmalorkusmafia)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 6:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/12 "2002-11-25T18:48:03Z")

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Given and received. Love it but only do it right out of the shower.

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**Author:** ![tiny\_ham](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a183cd/32.png) [@tiny\_ham](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tiny_ham)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 6:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/13 "2002-11-25T18:48:15Z")

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a. if you really want to get down and dirty about it, a great many people use enemas as a sort of foreplay before anal play. That way you’re sure to clean everything out, and your partner has that exciting feeling of fullness that you can control and make her hold until YOU say she can release it.

b. that, of course, is an extreme.

c. if you have regular bowel movements and are a generally clean person, there really shouldn’t be poop knockin’ at the anal door at all times. It’s usually a few inches in.

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**Author:** ![flyboy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/4da419/32.png) [@flyboy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/flyboy)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 10:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/14 "2002-11-25T22:29:50Z")

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> [@](#):
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> _Originally posted by cuauhtemoc \*  
> \*\*I just think that the sight, smell, or (god forbid) TASTE of sh_t would kill the mood for me faster than her father busting through the door with a shotgun. Before I could toss a woman’s salad, I would have to be reasonably confident that I would not come in contact with sh\*t. \*\*

To add on to what **jarbaby** said, if your partner is clean, you won’t really taste anything bad. At least, I didn’t. And I didn’t smell anything bad, either. It was a very intimate and erotic experience, and I’d do it again with the right woman.

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**Author:** ![Ooner](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/c67d28/32.png) [@Ooner](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ooner)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 10:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/15 "2002-11-25T22:47:34Z")

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Received on a couple of occasions. Not amazing or anything, but fairly interesting in a good way.

Wouldn’t even consider giving unless the area was thoroughly cleaned, in and out. The slightest smell would probably kill any fun I might be having. Even all clean, I would take a lot of convincing. Definitely NOT into it.

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**Author:** ![kevja](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/aeb1de/32.png) [@kevja](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kevja)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2002, 10:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/16 "2002-11-25T22:51:09Z")

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giving and receiving.

oh yes, hell yes.

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**Author:** ![Blackeyes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f6c823/32.png) [@Blackeyes](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Blackeyes)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 4:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/17 "2002-11-26T04:34:36Z")

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:eek:

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**Author:** ![gobear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/8dc957/32.png) [@gobear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gobear)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 4:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/18 "2002-11-26T04:37:11Z")

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When you are both fresh and clean, rimming is an incredibly erotic and intimate experience. I love giving and receiving.

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**Author:** ![lovelyluka](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f475e1/32.png) [@lovelyluka](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lovelyluka)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 4:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/19 "2002-11-26T04:46:46Z")

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gosh. i thought we were of the more adventurous type. turns out we are in the minority, as least as far as butt licking goes 😉

so, nope, never putting my tongue there, and have no desire to have anyone put their tongue there either.

do you think we should?

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**Author:** ![yosemite](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/3ab097/32.png) [@yosemite](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/yosemite)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2002, 4:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/rimming-poll/138661/20 "2002-11-26T04:50:01Z")

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Nope. Just like I said on the anal sex thread, I have dealt with assholes and shit in my job—lots of wiping of asses and seeing variations of shit that you don’t even want to _know_ about. :eek:

At least partially because of that, I find nothing erotic about the anus, and feel that it is an EXIT only on my body. YMMV (and it obviously does with some of you!).

I am sure there are other people who deal with shit and butt-wiping but would still enjoy these erotic butthole activities, but I’ll never be one of them.

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