# Risky question:Would u date a white woman with a half black child?

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [February 6, 2013, 8:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513 "2013-02-06T20:01:17Z")\
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**Author:** ![juck](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/90db22/32.png) [@juck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/juck)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 8:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/1 "2013-02-06T20:01:17Z")

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As a white man of course. It seems I come across this question in the dating world a lot these days. I sometimes meet these women who prefer black men for most part but wanna date me lol. I always hear"my ex beat me up and is no father". I feel like these women are red flagged instantly to me. I wanna know others opinions on this subject.

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**Author:** ![Duckster](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/duckster/32/1244_2.png) [@Duckster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Duckster)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 8:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/2 "2013-02-06T20:05:35Z")

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Reported for forum change.

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**Author:** ![juck](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/90db22/32.png) [@juck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/juck)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 8:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/3 "2013-02-06T20:07:25Z")

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huh?

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**Author:** ![Grrr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grrr/32/146_2.png) [@Grrr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grrr)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 8:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/4 "2013-02-06T20:09:16Z")

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Yes, I would date a white woman with a black child.

No, I would not date any woman that is just looking for a free meal ticket or a ‘baby’s daddy’. Which is what I think you are trying to imply.

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**Author:** ![Rick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/9f8e36/32.png) [@Rick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rick)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 8:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/5 "2013-02-06T20:11:21Z")

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It depends on the lady. If I got the impression that she was crazier than a shit house rat, no. But if she was normal, why not.  
Of course I’m not in the dating pool, so take that as you will.

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**Author:** ![John\_Mace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_mace/32/185_2.png) [@John\_Mace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Mace)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 8:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/6 "2013-02-06T20:12:02Z")

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> [@juck](#):
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> huh?

This forum is for questions with factual answers, like: Who is buried in Grant’s tomb? You want IMHO.

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**Author:** ![Machine\_Elf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/82dd89/32.png) [@Machine\_Elf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Machine_Elf)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 8:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/7 "2013-02-06T20:20:38Z")

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> [@juck](#):
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> huh?

You have posted this in the General Questions forum, the place for questions with factual answers. Duckster’s “Reported” response indicates that he has alerted the moderators so that they might move this thread to a forum better suited to its subject matter - in this case, most likely the In My Humble Opinion (IMHO) forum, where opinion-laden responses are sought.

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**Author:** ![solosam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9d8465/32.png) [@solosam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/solosam)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 8:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/8 "2013-02-06T20:35:47Z")

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> “my ex beat me up and is no father”

This would be of much greater concern than the color of the baby, which I consider irrelevant.

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**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 8:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/9 "2013-02-06T20:58:46Z")

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> [@solosam](#):
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> This would be of much greater concern than the color of the baby, which I consider irrelevant.

Seriously? You’d want to take on the burden of raising a half black child? That’s crazy. I for one would not want to raise one of [these](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Let_That_Be_Your_Last_Battlefield). The kid would be teased endlessly.

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**Author:** ![DrCube](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a3d4f5/32.png) [@DrCube](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrCube)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 9:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/10 "2013-02-06T21:04:17Z")

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I would hope it’s the top half. Otherwise, what’s she doing with a pair of baby legs?

Yes, I would date a woman with a child. The skin color and racial makeup of the mom and the child are not relevant at all.

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**Author:** ![Snarky\_Kong](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a183cd/32.png) [@Snarky\_Kong](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Snarky_Kong)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 9:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/11 "2013-02-06T21:04:22Z")

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Fuck no.

Of course I wouldn’t date a woman with a white child, an asian child, or any other child.

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**Author:** ![Tapioca\_Dextrin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Tapioca\_Dextrin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tapioca_Dextrin)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 9:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/12 "2013-02-06T21:10:15Z")

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Some of my best friends are half black children.

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**Author:** ![Procrustus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/procrustus/32/2994_2.png) [@Procrustus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Procrustus)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 9:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/13 "2013-02-06T21:12:43Z")

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> [@Tapioca\_Dextrin](#):
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> Some of my best friends are half black children.

One grew up to be POTUS.

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**Author:** ![lost4life](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c4cdca/32.png) [@lost4life](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lost4life)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 9:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/14 "2013-02-06T21:27:44Z")

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> [@juck](#):
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> Risky question:Would u date a white woman with a half black child?

It depends what color the other half is. I’ve got a color scheme going at my place and shit’s gotta match. Black goes with most anything though.

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**Author:** ![DocCathode](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/doccathode/32/18773_2.png) [@DocCathode](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DocCathode)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 9:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/15 "2013-02-06T21:29:06Z")

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> [@Tapioca\_Dextrin](#):
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> Some of my best friends are half black children.

Sure they are! You know who else had half black minor friends? Hitler that’s who! :mad:  
Back To The OP

Well, we know she puts out and puts up with abuse. But how fast and how much? These important questions remain.

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**Author:** ![Wheelz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wheelz/32/5718_2.png) [@Wheelz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wheelz)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 9:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/16 "2013-02-06T21:31:29Z")

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> Risky question:Would u date a white woman with a half black child?

I dated a woman with two of ‘em, back when I was dating.  
Dating a woman with kids was challenging and I wasn’t up for it, so it didn’t last. But it had nothing whatsoever to do with the kids’ racial background.

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**Author:** ![cochrane](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cochrane/32/10441_2.png) [@cochrane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cochrane)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 9:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/17 "2013-02-06T21:36:00Z")

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> [@Drunky\_Smurf](#):
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> Seriously? You’d want to take on the burden of raising a half black child? That’s crazy. I for one would not want to raise one of [these](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Let_That_Be_Your_Last_Battlefield). The kid would be teased endlessly.

He might even become a costumed criminal who telegraphs his intended crimes by using riddles. 😃

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**Author:** ![md2000](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/73ab20/32.png) [@md2000](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/md2000)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 9:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/18 "2013-02-06T21:40:58Z")

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> [@cochrane](#):
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> He might even become a costumed criminal who telegraphs his intended crimes by using riddles. 😃

The Riddler is black??? I thought he was green! 😛

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**Author:** ![gracer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/8e7dd6/32.png) [@gracer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gracer)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 9:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/19 "2013-02-06T21:48:23Z")

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The question is: would you risk a white half-woman to blacken a child? And if not, then would you half-question a black woman’s risky child?

Because if you would, then I think that’s racist.

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**Author:** ![FrankJBN](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/f0a364/32.png) [@FrankJBN](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FrankJBN)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2013, 9:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/risky-question-would-u-date-a-white-woman-with-a-half-black-child/649513/20 "2013-02-06T21:51:56Z")

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maybe dating means something different now, but what does the child have to do with it? dating is not ‘pre-engaged’ as they used to say. Drop her off after at home or at the sitter’s - makes no difference.

Certainly age has something to do with it. By the time you are in your mid-30s, most of the women you date will have a kid.

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