# RO: Man slaughters women because he can't get a girlfriend **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [August 5, 2009, 5:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435 "2009-08-05T17:12:19Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 5
**Author:** ![Hentor\_the\_Barbarian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/8edcca/32.png) [@Hentor\_the\_Barbarian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hentor_the_Barbarian)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 3:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/81 "2009-08-06T15:26:13Z")
> [@Mr.Moto](#): > > Well, I’m a true Pittsburgher, and I haven’t (yet). So this is a likely logical fallacy akin to making assertions about rapists in Aberdeen. Day ain’t over yet. > [@](#): > > BTW - we Mon Valley types always viewed those kids from USC as insufferable cake eaters, and the ones from Bethel Park little better. Luckily I’m more charitable in my views today. 😃 I almost put in a qualifier about _where_ we lived in Upper St. Clair to avoid that perception. Believe me, our cake eating was very sufferable. On the other hand, I was just trying to recall what I could about Ringgold football championships, then I remembered that it’s only a AAA program. Is there a patronizing head patting smilie? ---
**Author:** ![pbbth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f9ae1b/32.png) [@pbbth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pbbth)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 3:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/82 "2009-08-06T15:28:40Z")
> [@Rune](#): > > But I wonder why the man couldn’t get a woman. Because it is true what he wrote, he wasn’t bad looking. He had a stable job. A place to live. Earned well. At the worst he could have hitched up with a Philippine mail order bride. Please tell me this is a whoosh. Not being the elephant man and making enough money to move out of your parent’s basement is not enough to find someone to love you. There are a number of men who have posted here about how they are so nice and they have a job and a car and _why won’t women date them_ but they don’t seem to get that not being repulsive isn’t enough to find a date. You have to have more to offer a woman than the fact that she could do a lot worse, just like women have to have more to offer than a nice ass and not being a succubus. I promise that you can’t hide teh crazy for very long and the second any sane woman starts being accused of fucking certain men because she owes it to the history of the black race or that you spell America with a “k” and that you are seriously considering shooting up a fitness center she will run far, far away. It is kind of like how sane men would run far, far away if after 3 dates they showed up at a woman’s house and she was trying on bridal gowns or had a collection of Ken dolls with knife wounds to the general crotchal area. ---
**Author:** ![Shirley\_Ujest](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/45deac/32.png) [@Shirley\_Ujest](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shirley_Ujest)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 3:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/83 "2009-08-06T15:42:51Z")
> [@Binarydrone](#): > > Pssh. Spoken like a true man. Why don’t you shut the fuck up and go oppress someone? I want this on a t-shirt! ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 3:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/84 "2009-08-06T15:55:17Z")
> [@woodstockbirdybird](#): > > I don’t think it has to do with “hurting men’s feelings” so much as it does the downright stupidity of the claims in the OP. Ascribing the motives of an insane mind to all members of a society/gender/political party/etc. is philosophically lazy no matter what the subject. The fact that she brought up stereotypes to make her case made it even more worthy of ridicule. Yes, that combined with the number of threads lately about how to “fix” men might put us a little bit on the defensive. ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Moto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9de0a6/32.png) [@Mr.Moto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr.Moto)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 4:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/85 "2009-08-06T16:14:45Z")
> [@Hentor\_the\_Barbarian](#): > > On the other hand, I was just trying to recall what I could about Ringgold football championships, then I remembered that it’s only a AAA program. Is there a patronizing head patting smilie? While it is true that the football program has seem better days, it is also true that my high school has two Hall of Famers among its alumni. There are probably not many high schools in the country that can say this. ---
**Author:** ![Pazu](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pazu/32/15522_2.png) [@Pazu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pazu)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 4:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/86 "2009-08-06T16:24:54Z")
> [@athelas](#): > > The entire blog has been copied and saved [here](http://www.halfsigma.com/2009/08/george-sodinis-diary-page.html), and your conclusion ( **granted, probably facetious** ) is challened by this bit: (bolding mine) …and **athelas** takes a one-point lead over **Orbifold** in the Comprehension Challenge. The crowd goes wild. ---
**Author:** ![Jenaroph](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e8c25b/32.png) [@Jenaroph](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jenaroph)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 4:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/87 "2009-08-06T16:26:47Z")
[QUOTE=crazy guy’s blog] Good luck to Obama! He will be successful. The liberal media LOVES him. **Amerika** has chosen The Black Man. [/quote] :eek: anyone seen \*\*SmashTheState \*\*today? 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Jackmannii](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackmannii/32/311_2.png) [@Jackmannii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jackmannii)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 4:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/88 "2009-08-06T16:29:42Z")
> [@pbbth](#): > > …women have to have more to offer than a nice ass and not being a succubus. I’ll pass on having this on a T-shirt. ---
**Author:** ![The\_Understander](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3da27b/32.png) [@The\_Understander](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Understander)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 4:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/89 "2009-08-06T16:34:49Z")
> [@Covered\_In\_Bees](#): > > **Enfant Terrible** : I got my bases [covered](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=519447). The bees are an amazing utility tool. Distraction, intimidation, defense, offense. All of those and more in a million black and yellow packages. You send your dogs. [I can take 'em](http://www.reporternews.com/news/2007/jul/04/heavy-rain-bringing-out-the-bees/). > > Ninjas never lose. Blast. I suppose I’ll have to send some sex-starved, self-esteemless psychotic woman to shoot you with a twelve-gauge, you incorrigible pussy-teaser ™ you. ---
**Author:** ![Nzinga\_Seated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b5ac83/32.png) [@Nzinga\_Seated](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nzinga_Seated)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 4:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/90 "2009-08-06T16:44:49Z")
> [@Argent\_Towers](#): > > Just out of curiosity do any of the people using the term “mail order bride” actually know anyone who has married a “mail order bride?” Because I have never encountered anyone who has. Just how common is this practice? I don’t know how common it is, but I once worked on a program in a call center in which 3 of the 4 men had ‘mail order brides’ in the truest sense of the term. To be fair, though, I think one guy did it first, and then the others jumped on the bandwagon. ---
**Author:** ![saoirse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/5daacb/32.png) [@saoirse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/saoirse)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 5:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/91 "2009-08-06T17:25:26Z")
> [@Orbifold](#): > > George Sodini may have killed three women in a selfish, pre-meditated killing spree, but at least he didn’t _hurt men’s feelings_ with an internet post. I think we know who the _real_ monster is here, **Claire** , hmm? I wasn’t defending men. I was defending testosterone, which makes men want to play basketball and pick up girls and carry them. It may also make women want to play basketball as well. If you compared the roughneck who saved a woman’s life, and the computer-nerd shooter, who would you say had more testosterone? ---
**Author:** ![Pazu](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pazu/32/15522_2.png) [@Pazu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pazu)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 5:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/92 "2009-08-06T17:33:32Z")
> [@Jenaroph](#): > > :eek: anyone seen \*\*SmashTheState \*\*today? Glad I’m not the only one who thought that. ---
**Author:** ![Hentor\_the\_Barbarian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/8edcca/32.png) [@Hentor\_the\_Barbarian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hentor_the_Barbarian)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 5:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/93 "2009-08-06T17:48:08Z")
> [@Mr.Moto](#): > > While it is true that the football program has seem better days, it is also true that my high school has two Hall of Famers among its alumni. There are probably not many high schools in the country that can say this. Okay, Joe Montana I know. Who else from Ringgold is in Canton? ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Moto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9de0a6/32.png) [@Mr.Moto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr.Moto)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 6:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/94 "2009-08-06T18:06:00Z")
> [@Hentor\_the\_Barbarian](#): > > Okay, Joe Montana I know. Who else from Ringgold is in Canton? Nobody. But Stan Musial is in Cooperstown. ---
**Author:** ![bup](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6bbea6/32.png) [@bup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bup)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 6:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/95 "2009-08-06T18:20:56Z")
One of these years, I want a news story where some crazy woman goes into someplace where there’s a bunch of men and she just starts firing. Of course, she probably wouldn’t hit anything, but the gesture would be nice. ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Moto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9de0a6/32.png) [@Mr.Moto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr.Moto)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 6:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/96 "2009-08-06T18:30:34Z")
> [@bup](#): > > One of these years, I want a news story where some crazy woman goes into someplace where there’s a bunch of men and she just starts firing. [Do schoolchildren count?](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brenda_Ann_Spencer) ---
**Author:** ![The\_Tao\_s\_Revenge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/73ab20/32.png) [@The\_Tao\_s\_Revenge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Tao_s_Revenge)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 6:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/97 "2009-08-06T18:38:49Z")
> [@athelas](#): > > Too bad that instead of turning violent, he didn’t try to enact an affirmative action program or nondiscrimination legislation to swing things his way;) Don’t stop now! It’s just getting good! Please continue with this metaphor of how nondiscrimination laws are like a madman gunning women down. ---
**Author:** ![ArizonaTeach](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/45deac/32.png) [@ArizonaTeach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ArizonaTeach)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 7:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/98 "2009-08-06T19:53:52Z")
> [@Mr.Moto](#): > > [Do schoolchildren count?](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brenda_Ann_Spencer) [Damn this Estrogen Poisoning!](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Laurie_Dann) ---
**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 9:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/99 "2009-08-06T21:23:11Z")
> [@pbbth](#): > > Please tell me this is a whoosh. Not being the elephant man and making enough money to move out of your parent’s basement is not enough to find someone to love you. There are a number of men who have posted here about how they are so nice and they have a job and a car and _why won’t women date them_ but they don’t seem to get that not being repulsive isn’t enough to find a date. You have to have more to offer a woman than the fact that she could do a lot worse, just like women have to have more to offer than a nice ass and not being a succubus. This may explain why, despite being reasonably attractive and having a good job, my habit of walking up to women in bars and shrieking, “LOVE ME!” at them has not yet netted any successes. ---
**Author:** ![descamisado](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e480ec/32.png) [@descamisado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/descamisado)\ **Post date:** [August 7, 2009, 1:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435/100 "2009-08-07T01:28:41Z")
> [@](#): > > November 5, 2008: Amerika has chosen The Black Man. Good! In light of this I got ideas outside of Obama’s plans for the economy and such. Here it is: Every black man should get a young white girl hoe to hone up on. Kinda a reverse indentured servitude thing. Long ago, many a older white male landowner had a young Negro wench girl for his desires. Bout’ time tables are turned on that shit. Besides, dem young white hoez dig da bruthrs! LOL. More so than they dig the white dudes! Every daddy know when he sends his little girl to college, she be bangin a bruthr real good. I saw it. “Not my little girl”, daddy says! (Yeah right!!) Black dudes have thier choice of best white hoez. You do the math, there are enough young white so all the brothers can each have one for 3 or 6 months or so. > [@](#): > > December 3, 2008: Hey, where de white women at? > [@](#): > > January 18, 2009: Hey, where de white women at!? > [@](#): > > March 10, 2009: Hey, where de white women at!?!? > [@](#): > > May 4, 2009: Hey, where de white women at!?!?!? > [@](#): > > July 29, 2009: Hey, where de white women at!?!?!?!? I’m so going to hell. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435.md?page=4) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ro-man-slaughters-women-because-he-cant-get-a-girlfriend/505435.md?page=6)