Steven Wright: …and then she said she was turned on by Jewish cowboys. She asked me my name and I said ‘Bucky Goldstein’.
OK, I’ll try to explain my point better. The guy is initially charged with violent rape and indecent assault. Would he be charged with these crimes if the victim alleged that he lied to seduce her? If so the cops are being overzealous, as lying to obtain sex is not violent rape. If she said that he violently raped her and that is why he was initially charged that way, she was lying.
In either event, I understand that plea bargains happen all the time, I have just never heard of an assault case being bargained down to fraud, which is what people here are comparing the incident to. However, I am obviously not a lawyer and may just not be understanding something.
Wait a Jewish girl and a Muslim man had sex…EWWWWWWW!!
(j/k)
In order to properly address these questions, we would have to know a whole lot of facts not in evidence - at least, not in evidence to us.
Again, this objection is similar to others made above.
This thread seems to have the following overall trajectory:
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OMG this is so racist. It’s aparthied in action.
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[analysis as to why it is logically difficult to distinguish this case for any other if there exists such a crime as “rape by fraud”]
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Well, that may be so, but if you assume [all these facts we don’t know - like that no Jew would ever be charged if their positions are reversed, or that similar laws in America have “never” been interpreted in the same way, or that the unknown facts surrounding the plea bargain demonstrate that the cops/“victim” were overzealous/liars and motivated by racism] then it is still horribly racist!
Well, yeah, I suppose if one assumes the cops or judge acted in a racist manner I suppose this is an example of the cops and judge acting in a racist manner.
My only point is that the intitial impression was incorrect - that the facts as we know them do not disclose any racism on the part of the court, or the cops, or of this law. Which is not of course to say that they are not racist. They may well be. Only that this particular set of facts is not a very good indication of it.
That said, I still do not think it is a good law. Rape by fraud ought, in my opinion, to be restricted to very narrow cases, to avoid injustice.
I have not called anyone a racist. The guy was not initially charged with rape by fraud, but with violent rape. I am hoping we can all agree that pretending to be a doctor or surgeon or magical healing rabbi is not violent rape. I fail to see how the police would arrest someone for violent rape going on the story that some fellow pretended to be someone he wasn’t to get someone to sleep with him. That’s the part that looks bad.
I’m not saying you did; I was using your post as a spring-board to comment on the course of the argument in this thread generally.
As to the “violent rape” thing - he said/she said situations are difficult enough to parse; in this case, we simply have no idea what she said to the cops.
The conviction was a plea bargain. He admitted to it is how we know it, apparently.
And it isn’t too hard for a Palestinian to “pass” as a Jew if they want to. Jews come in all shapes and colors from Black to lily white and many other shades.
I don’t get your lying. I can understand saying its none of their business, but lying? Why? Yes, lying on your forms at the DMV would be a problem.
Fraud is not protected speech.
As opposed to real rabbis, who can actually “cure” people?
I think you’re also straining very hard (and unsuccessfully) to cast these two incidents as completely different, and failing to obscure the fact that in one case an apparently Jewish male was prosecuted in Israel for rape by fraud, and in the other a Palestinian male was prosecuted under the same law. The degree of culpability is certainly not the same, but the behavior was viewed as criminal for similar reasons.
Besides, didn’t the Palestinian faker provide the same “service” as the fake rabbi? :dubious:
I’m sort of hung up on this. How is it fraud? Let me ask you this. If a guy tells a woman that he has a 9 inch penis to get her to go to bed with him and she finds out the next morning that he has a 5 inch penis, is that fraud? Should he go to jail? What about in Disney’s Aladdin? Should the motherfucker be executed or imprisoned because he lied that he was a Prince instead of a pauper so he could have sex with Jasmine? Men lie and exaggerate all of the time to get pussy - it’s so common that the phenomenon is nearly a proverb. This should be a lesson to the woman that you should take anything a man says with a grain of salt.
- Honesty, who is flying on a carpet
Yes, but he didn’t purport to offer any other service, did he?
a) I think the young lady may find out about the exaggeration before coitus transpires.
b) In Disney’s Aladdin she knew he was not a Prince before they had sex.
But your point is still appreciated: you are asking whether or not the law is a good law or if it ends up potentially criminalizing common behaviors, even if it is intended to include only significant fraudulent ones. And that is a reasonable discussion to have. But it is not one that has any bearing on whether or not the law, its application, or Israeli society at large, is demonstrated to be discriminatory on the basis of this incident. (Please note, I do believe that there is some institutionalized discrimination in Israel, much akin to levels of institutional discrimination that other minority populations are subjected to in other countries, maybe a bit worse than some or even quite a few. This particular case however is not evidence of it.)
Still lying to get your way is not “freedom of speech” - if as a young man I claimed I was Native American in order to get a scholarship that was only available to members of that group, that would be fraud. Why would a similar lie told to get some sex be any less of a fraud? Is education that much more valuable than sex? To a young man?
Yes we accept that many men will attempt fraud for sex, and assume that it usually fails, and we often exempt it as something boys do. But that does not make it any less fraudulent does it?
It appears the person who should have learned a lesson was the man who lied to get sex.
This article (pdf) is pertinent.
FWIW.
I think there’s an expectation that the law is a lot more granular than it really is, and that causes confusion. In reality, people do things all the time that are technically prosecutable as one offense or another; they just aren’t prosecuted.
So, for instance, Honesty, the reason it can be called fraud to lie to somebody in order to get sex is that, loosely speaking, fraud only means lying to somebody to get something out of them. So why wouldn’t it be? The law doesn’t say “but not if it’s something obvious like ‘I’ve got a huge wang’” or otherwise require that it be particularly egregious. Ordinarily, that kind of discretion is exercised by some combination of the victim, the police, the DA, and the courts. If all of them feel like taking it seriously, there’s nothing preventing a perfectly by the book conviction for it, which shocks people because it doesn’t match their expectations, only their expectations are naturally based on the practical enforcement of the law, and not the letter. It’s the same with rape – “but that’s OBVIOUSLY not rape!” The thing is, rape has a definition, and the things that fit it do fit it.
I don’t mean to say that the question “why would this be prosecuted” isn’t a good one; just that the question “how is this (crime X)” is generally pretty easy to answer.
Right cuz you’ve never tried to justify Israel’s acts by comparing them to what an arab nation might do under a similar circumstance.
So now you’re going to bring up stuff I said (and then shifted positon on after debate) in OTHER threads?
Do you think taking a post out of context is going to make your argument more credible? Dude, you have about as much credibility on this board when it comes to Israel as Der Trihs has when it comes to religion. Its not that you don’t know your shit, its that your lack of objectivity is fucking legendary.
You mean you criticized Israel when you said that you disagreed with Israel’s blockade of coriander to Gaza? Those guys you mention who criticize Israel but are not bigots… They’re not critics of Israel… they’re apologists dude, they may be honest apologists but they are not Israel critics. Heck I’ve said good things about Israel, it doesn’t make me an Israel apologist.
The woman involved accused the Palestinian of violently raping her…the prosecutors brought him up on those charges…the cops realized that evidence indicated that it wasn’t violent rape and the woman might not have been telling the truth. Have I got this right so far?
Then when presented with an alternate story by the woman and the Palestinian guy’s version of what happened, the court decided that the guy was obviously lying and the woman’s second story must be the truth and the Palestinian guy goes to jail for 2 years for a charge that legal experts say is “used sparingly and even then in cases involving protracted deceit and a promise of marriage.” because he claimed to be a Jewish bachelor looking for a serious relationship to trick the woman into having sex with him.
Especially considering that the police had reason to believe the woman was lying about the whole violent rape thing.
From the article:
a charge that legal experts say is “used sparingly and even then in cases involving protracted deceit and a promise of marriage.”
So in what situations have they used this law to send Jewish men to jail and did they rely on the word of a woman that lied to them the first time around?
Blackmail is a form of coercion isn’t it? Consent obtained through coercion isn’t really consent is it?
I agree, the law is facially neutral and was not conceived as a form of racism but on Monday it was applied in a racist manner.
Well you’re sane the problem is that Israel seems to be run by folks like Magellan and Finn Again.
Not even after considering the sequence of events and the other cases when this law was actually applied?
I don’t think it is enforced in a racist manner on a regular basis but I think it may have been in this case.
I’ve thought about it a little bit and I agree that there is a lot on the surface that seems racist but might not be racist upon further reflection. For example, we might all think that the woman was racist but that doesn’t make the verdict racist. But when you add in the fact that the court is relying on the woman’s version of events and rejecting the man’s version of events AFTER the woman had lied to police about violent rape, the if you add to that the fact that this charge is used infrequently and in more severer circumstances, it starts to look racist again.
I agree, a person can be as racist as they want about who they sleep with and if the courts had consistently been sending people to jail for lies of this caliber then its still stupid but its not racist. But when this charge had been reserved for protracted fraud that included promises of marriage and then applies it to a one night stand it kinda makes you go hmmmm.
I agree, I don’t think the law is racist.
I wasn’t thinking solely of this incident when I compared the situation to apartheid. Not all of apartheid was facially discriminatory laws, it was more than that and I saw this as another example of that sort of thing.
Small coterie? More like half the board. You carpet bomb almost everyone that criticizes Israel.
For example. Smoking pot was illegal in California when I was in college. The enforcement seemed to be a bit… uneven. How many white college students do you think spent time in California jails for smoking pot? How many poor black guys?
Plus the fact that DNA has revealed Jews and Palestinians are of the same population, not similar or close but the same population:
The shared genetic heritage of Jews and Palestinians
Which doesn’t make all this weird at all… It was weird before, with DNA it’s way beyond weird.
Well he’s posted several times in this thread since I asked - including replies to posts posted after I asked. I guess FinnAgain isn’t going to get back to me and let me know exactly what my “blatant” lies were about.
Does anyone else know? Because I’m utterly stumped.
I guess in the long run it is a good thing. Do I really want another “discussion” with him where he ignores anything I say regarding Palestinians, accuses me of lying, bigotry and being part of an anti-Israel movement, and finishes with the inevitable semantic discussions as his actual points make less and less sense?
Probably not. It is almost the weekend after all and that hot, young Belarusian I’ve been seeing is cooking dinner for me at her place tonight.
It’d be interesting to see that come into play in a statutory rape case where a minor girl lied about her age in order to seduce an adult man. Both parties could technically be guilty of raping each other.
If you read FinnAgain as a parody of extreme Israeli defenders, he is still completely OTT.