I’ll give a shiny, new quarter to the first moderator to fix my coding error.
For anyone who may be reading this thread who didn’t read the first one. The Duty of Child Support flows from the CHILD, not from the PREGNANCY. Once the child is born, that child has a right to receive support from his/her biological parents or others who have explicitly taken on that responsibility(as in the case of adoption). Once the child is born it is no longer a private concern of another party. This is a new, and helpless, citizen of our society.
Until such time, and after abortion cut-off timeframes(first trimester in my area at least), how to deal with the pregnancy is indeed the perogative of the woman as a consequence of her having a right to seek personal medical services in private with only the doctor-patient relationship involved. If the woman does not choose to terminate the pregnancy then it proceeds as is natural and both parties share in the responsibility for pre-natal care, birth and delivery, and post-natal care.
I think it bears repeating, so I’m re-posting a section of one of my previous comments on this topic. It is very similar to *Kimstu’s prior post, but I originally made mine almost a year ago
Enjoy,
Steven
It should be noted that some jurisdictions, such as the state of Mississippi, allow collection of support monies for expenses related to prenatal, delivery, and postnatal care and other pregnancy-related expenses.
Enjoy,
Steven
Well, I guess if citing the law doesn’t count as “proof”, I haven’t.
This belies a misunderstanding of the purpose and history of the Equal Protection clause. All laws treat different classes of people differently. All of them. Tax laws treat different professions differently. Laws against homicide treat murderers differently than non-murderers. The Equal Protection clause guarantees that the govenrment can’t treat different classes of people differently in an arbitrary manner and for no legitiamate reason, and a long series of cases sets out guidelines for what can and what can’t be done.
It’s not an analogy; those are Equal Protection issues. I and every federal judge who ever sat on the bench fail to see how a law passed by the state is not a state action. That’s the very essensce of a state action. Arguing that it isn’t is like arguing that night is day.
You provide no legal authority for your assertions, which is crucial to making a legal argument. Your failure to include any is fatal to your argument. Accepting that you’re assertions are true for the sake of argument still doesn’t account for the fact that state statute trumps the common law concerning contracts, and constitutional amendments trump them both. If the common law violates the Constitution it gets struck down. Why didn’t the State of Texas make your argument in Gomez? Why didn’t the dissenting justices? It’s because there’s no legal authority whatsoever to back it up.
Cite me some legal authority that states that this is a meaningful distinction. By that logic miscegenation laws don’t violate the Equal Protection clause because whites and blacks existed prior to and independant of state laws.
That’s fine as far as opinions go, but it still doesn’t address the fact that Roe and Gomez are unrelated cases dealing with different ares of the law, and no conspiracy whatsoever existed concerning the the timing of the decisions.
When I stated that the dissenting justices didn’t reach the merits of the case but instead said that they would have dismissed on jurisdictional greounds, you said:
:smack: No, it’s not. You’re arguing on the merits. The two dissenting justices wrote three short paragraphs explaining that since the Texas statute was not the subject of actual litigation they would have dismissed the case as unripe and not yet within their jurisdiction. They didn’t reach the merits and they didn’t make your argument.
There’s not even so much as a magic bullet to suggest that the court changed the docket. If there is a conspiracy among the majority justices, why aren’t the majority justices the same in both cases ? Why did none of the dissenters mention the supposed conspiracy? It’s not just me saying that there’s no conflict, it’s every legal authority in America. If there’s a conflict, why has no lawyer made that argument to any court in the last thirty years?
Once a child is born, the law doesn’t care how it got there. Both parents have a statutory duty of support to the child, not just the mother, not just the father, both parents. There is no privacy issue.
How is it not?
(Considering some of the responses here, I should say that I am not arguing what the law is. I’ll leave that for the lawyers. I’m merely arguing what I believe is the proper moral stance.)
Kimstu, your first two items make perfect sense to me. What does not make sense is how a fetus, which is the sole “property” (forgive me that term, but I don’t know a better one offhand) of the mother, suddenly becomes the responsibility of another person. It just seems odd that something is entirely under Person A’s jurisdiction / responsibility, and then, regardless of any action taken or not taken by Person B, and depending only upon actions taken or not taken by Person A, that thing becomes Person B’s responsibility as well.
So you, or somebody, is saying that one court found a woman guilty of rape\sexual assault and another court awarded her child support from her victim? That doesn’t make sense. Is there any cite for this?
The responsibility arises from an action jointly taken by Persons A and B involving the insertion of Tab C into Slot D.
Because you are focusing on the temporary power the female has over the child during pregnancy. The fact is that the act of sex (which results in fertalized egg[s]) confirs responsibilities on the male. The fact that the female has more power over that child during pregnancy does not change those responsibilities. Several things can happen which will make the male’s responsibilities moot. Accidents, miscarriages, or abortions, for instance. But none of these things go back in time to remove the male’s responsibilities. For example, I think that morally the male has a responsibility to comfort the female when any of these things occurs.
Temporary custody of the fetus grants power to the female. It does not remove any of the responsibilities inherent in fatherhood.
To address directly your property idea, you have to remember, that the property is not created from whole cloth during pregnancy. Imagine, for instance a business where 2 partners start it. If one is called away for some reason and grants complete power of attorney to the other while he is away, he cannot complain (much) when he returns and finds that he is on the hook to share some new debts.
Citing the law, when it is the law that is in question, is nothing less than a self-serving statement.
When citing the law in Roe v Wade, one cites pious legalese of a “right of privacy”, when the case is absent a genuine privacy issue.
Yes, laws against homicide treat murderers differently than non-murderers, and married couples are treated different by the rules of divorce, than those who are not married. And this is where the origins of child-support are found, in divorce.
So, as one who does not commit murder should not be subject to the laws of murder, an unmarried person should not be subject to the laws of divorce.
Sure I do. To require an individual, not bound by contract, to be financially responsible for a private concern of a second party, violates the essence of the “rule of law”.
That is not true. If the mother wishes, she can refuse to name the biological father and raise “her” child alone. Or she can relinquish her child through a state sanctioned “Safe Haven” program.
It’s like I have said over and over. The only time that a child’s so-called “right” to support from it’s biological father is recognized, is when the birth mother wants financial assistance with the “choice” that she unilaterally make.
To require a person to be responsible for the “choice” of a second party, is another violation of the “rule of law”. It is a choice, isn’t it?
Conveniently ignoring that I cited numerous cases that back up the decision in Gomez as being in line with precedent, as well as explained the standard for Equal Protection analysis and why an Equal Protection decision cannot conflict a Due Process decision.
If a statute imposes an obligation of child support on all biological parents regardless of marital status, child support can’t be said to come from the “laws of divorce”. Again, you have no legal authority for the assertion that the obligation of child support comes from the “marriage contract”, or why that law is not subject to change by statute or constitutional amendment.
Are you citing to yourself? Unless you’re the author of a legal treatise on the subject, that doesn’t fly. Cite to relevant legal authority that backs up your assertion, please. Otherwise it’s just a baseless assertion.
For the millionth time, that is not the law, and a woman cannot unilaterally legally terminate a father’s parental rights. She cannot give the child up for adoption without his permission if he asserts his rights over the child. She cannot terminate his rights by abandoning the child. She cannot prevent the father from seeing the child or trying to get custody of the child. If she does not want the child and wants to give it up for adoption, the father may take custody and get child support from her. She cannot raise the child alone with the father completely out of the child’s life if the father wants to assert his parental rights over the child.
Incorrect.
Forty two states have “safe haven” laws allowing a person to drop off a newborn infant at a specified location, some of them completely anonymously, such as Washington, Pennsylvania, California, Arizona, Nevada, Utah, Idaho, Montana, New Mexico, Kansas, South Dakota, Oklahoma, Minnesota, Missouri, Arkansas, Iowa, Wisconsin, Illinois, Kentucky, Tennessee, Mississippi, Alabama, Florida, South Carolina, North Carolina, West Virginia, Maryland, Ohio, New York, and Rhode Island.
All of these states list, via the web, that they are ‘Safe Haven’ states and specifically state either “No questions asked.” or “You do not have to give your name.”
Very possible for a woman or girl to give away a baby without even the knowledge of the father.
Map and links to laws available at http://www.safeplacefornewborns.org
pravnik said:“For the millionth time, that is not the law”
Which does not change the fact that both parents have responsibilities towards the child. Especially when you take into account that either parent (or a third party for that matter) could take advantage of such laws.
This is not true either. The only time that the right to support from either parent is recognized is when they volunteer to do so or are compelled to do so by the other parent. Males have responsibilities and rights associated with parenthood. So do females. Mostly those are the same rights and responsibilities. They differ slightly in the very early stages of development. The differences are due almost exclusively to the biological facts of said development. There is NO legal quandry at all.
Its equal. I agree with that too, women, don’t have se unless you want a baby you may have to raise alone.
Oh but it does make into bullshit the claim that the mother cannot unilaterally give the kid up without the father’s consent or even without his knowledge. The claim that the only time she has the ability to take unilateral control is during pregnancy and not after the baby is born is a blatant falsehood. In any one of the thirty states on that list she can walk up to a hospital, fire station or police station anywhere from 3 to 30 days after the birth of the baby and hand it over without any legal requirement to give any information at all - including her name. She never has to tell the father where she dropped the kid off, and the hospital, fire station or police station certainly can’t notify him unless they know his name (which she can’t legally be compelled to give).
So, she most certainly does have the ability to usurp the father’s right to custody by using the ‘Save Haven’ laws.
Possibly, but since the father has the same right, so to speak, there is no inherent unfairness.
I find it difficult to believe that if a father suspected his child had been delievered to a safe haven that he could not ask the state about it. I find it hard to believe that if such a father submitted to a few genetic tests his child could not be located. If I recall correctly, an extremely few children are abandoned in such a way.
Regardless, even if we were to posit a new law which allowed abortions into the 3rd year of life, we would not have a situation where it was arguable that father should be allowed to simply walk away from children they helped create. The fact of the matter is that regardless of when you cut off the option of abortion, the father most certainly did of his own free will (rape cases not withstanding) contribute to the creation of that child. He has, by that contribution, some responsibility.
Certainly we can argue whether it should be 25% of his income, or 35% or 75%. But the proposal that his responsibilities should be 0 is simply silly.
You and I most definitely disagree with that.
The person who unilaterally decides to keep the child should be the one solely responsible for the financial burden of it.
catsix, would you be so kind as to provide some legal authority for the extraordinary proposition that a father’s legal rights to a child are terminated when a woman drops the kid off at one of those “safe havens”? Thanks ever so much.
Did you visit the link?
In thirty of the states there is no way to legally compel the person dropping off the infant to give a name, meaning it would be impossible to track down the father of the child at all. Most of them also stated in their FAQs that there’s a maximum of thirty days for anyone to contest the turning over of the infant, regardless of the fact that the person dropping the infant off is guaranteed privacy and told explicitly by the FAQ that they do not have to give their name or any identifying information.
Not all of the states list the actual statutes, but a couple of them do, and I found nothing in the statutes that required the person dropping off the infant to give their name, or the name of the biological parents.
Clearly we disagree. But note that you have to use the word “keep”. The mother does not go off into the woods and produce the child without any voluntary input from the father. She only has temporary unilateral control over the child. You feel that this temporary situation somehow negates the father’s responsibilities. I have yet to see any argument which makes this sound reasonable.
No offense. It is just that the argument seems silly to me.
Consider again, my business analogy. If two partners start a business and one of them is called away, the second partner has sole control of the business while the first is away. They may have talked about and agreed on what should be done. But while the first partner is away, everyone will listen and do what the second partner wants. If she decides to sell off the most valuable assets, the first partner may not have any legal recourse to get them back when he returns. If she decides to borrow more money than they can pay back, he may be stuck with his share of the debt.
Of course, businesses can be set up on a contractual basis as “limited” partnerships (I know Limited Partnerships have a distinct legal meaning, I’m simply talking about contractual limitations not normal to the common understanding of a partnership). That is, they could agree in writing beforehand that neither partner can borrow more than a certain amount. In which case, the first partner might have good legal recourse.
However, the principle still holds. Unless you can establish a partnership which limits the power of the second partner, you do not have the right to back out of the partnership later. Just like she does not have the right to force you out if here decisions result in a huge windfall. In the case of children, limiting the females power would mean finding a way to have children other than gestation inside the female’s body. Do that, and I will agree that neither partner should be allowed a unilateral power over the fetus. Untill then, however,…
You can use whatever word you want in there. I think that if a person chooses to raise a child knowing that no one else wishes to share in that experience, then the financial responsibility for the child falls only on the person who chose to rasie it.
Anything else is a double standard.