# Sad, depressing songs

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415>\
**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [April 17, 2003, 9:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415 "2003-04-17T21:54:16Z")\
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**Author:** ![Civil\_Defense](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ccd318/32.png) [@Civil\_Defense](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Civil_Defense)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2003, 9:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/1 "2003-04-17T21:54:16Z")

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I’m in one of those moods where I need to listen to a bunch of songs, cry really badly, and get over it.

What are your suggestions for really sad, emotional songs that will probably make me cry?

Preferably about losing a loved one (either in death or love).

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**Author:** ![bluecanary](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bluecanary/32/3614_2.png) [@bluecanary](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bluecanary)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2003, 9:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/2 "2003-04-17T21:58:44Z")

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Everybody Hurts - R.E.M  
Seasons In The Sun - Terry Jacks

Coutdown to move to Cafe’ Society

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**Author:** ![Payne\_N.Diaz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b77776/32.png) [@Payne\_N.Diaz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Payne_N.Diaz)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2003, 10:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/3 "2003-04-17T22:02:12Z")

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Didn’t we just do this thread?

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**Author:** ![Kal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9de053/32.png) [@Kal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kal)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2003, 10:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/4 "2003-04-17T22:32:09Z")

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My father’s chair - Rick Springfield.

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**Author:** ![djxiii](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/6f9a4e/32.png) [@djxiii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/djxiii)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2003, 10:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/5 "2003-04-17T22:35:54Z")

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_This Ruined Puzzle_ - Dashboard Confessional  
_My Immortal_ - Evanescence  
_Globes and Maps_ - Something Corporate  
_Meet Me Halfway There_ - Student Rick

all have powerful, triste lyrics and have been known to make me cry when I am the least bit down.

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**Author:** ![Payne\_N.Diaz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b77776/32.png) [@Payne\_N.Diaz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Payne_N.Diaz)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2003, 10:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/6 "2003-04-17T22:39:00Z")

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OK, OK. _I Learned That From You,_ Sara Evans.

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**Author:** ![Margo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d26b3c/32.png) [@Margo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Margo)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2003, 10:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/7 "2003-04-17T22:48:59Z")

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I Will Remember You and Angel-Sarah McLachlin  
Misguided Angel-Cowboy Junkies  
Feel so Different-Sinead O’Connor  
Your Ghost-Kristen Hersh  
Mr. Somewhere, With Tomorrow, and You and Your Sister-This Mortal Coil  
A Perfect Indian-Sinead  
One-U2  
Color Blind, Time and Time Again-Counting Crows  
This Woman’s Work-Kate Bush  
1000 Oceans-Tori Amos  
Don’t Need A Reason-Beth Orton

Those are some of my favorites, Margo

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**Author:** ![Margo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d26b3c/32.png) [@Margo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Margo)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2003, 10:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/8 "2003-04-17T22:55:26Z")

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And some that I put on a cd for a friend who lost her baby, the lyrics make me cry every time.

To Where You Are-Josh Groban  
One More Day, I believe-Diamond Rio  
Fly-Celine Dion (cringe all you want, that is a beautiful song)

Margo

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**Author:** ![flight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/bbce88/32.png) [@flight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/flight)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2003, 11:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/9 "2003-04-17T23:17:49Z")

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Nothing Compares to You - Sinead O’Connor  
Anything by the Righteous Brothers  
Blue Valentines - Tom Waits  
Muriel - Tom Waits  
Bad Liver and a Broken Heart - Tom Waits  
Every Time we say Goodbye - Nina Simone  
I Get along without you very Well (Except Sometimes) - Nina Simone  
I Loves You Porgy - Nina Simone  
Ne Me Quitte Pas - Nina Simone  
Turn Me On - Nina Simone  
Only Time - Enya  
Maybe - Alison Krauss  
There Is No Arizona - Jamie O’Neal  
Photographs & Memories - Jim Croce  
Another Lonely Day - Kasey Chambers  
Don’t Go - Kasey Chambers  
Not Pretty Enough - Kasey Chambers  
Wish You Were Here - Pink Floyd  
Hallelujah - Rufus Wainwright

Care to guess who has had a bad breakup? Remeber, these are best is small doses. More than a day or so and you could overmedicate on them. Good luck

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**Author:** ![Doomtrain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/0ea827/32.png) [@Doomtrain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Doomtrain)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2003, 11:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/10 "2003-04-17T23:48:08Z")

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Hurt–Nine Inch Nails  
The entire Disintegration album by The Cure  
Portishead. Any Portishead. Though don’t listen to too much at once.  
Brick–Ben Folds Five  
Narcolepsy–Ben Folds Five  
Smoke–Ben Folds Five  
Black No. 1–Type O Negative  
Disarm–Smashing Pumpkins

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**Author:** ![shrew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7ab992/32.png) [@shrew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shrew)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2003, 11:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/11 "2003-04-17T23:52:26Z")

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Last Goodbye - Jeff Buckley  
Everybody Hurts - R.E.M.  
Hold On - Sarah McLachlan

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**Author:** ![shrew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7ab992/32.png) [@shrew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shrew)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2003, 11:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/12 "2003-04-17T23:55:25Z")

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And just to throw an odd one,

_Hard Candy Christmas_ as sung by either Dolly Parton or the entire ensemble cast of _The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas_.

It really truly seriously does make me cry. And as painful as it sounds to some of you, _I Will Always Love You_, but only when done by Dolly. Whitney can kiss my arse.

Hm, and as far as death songs are concerned, how about _He Stopped Loving Her Today_ by George Jones?

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**Author:** ![Seldon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/958977/32.png) [@Seldon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Seldon)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2003, 12:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/13 "2003-04-18T00:06:27Z")

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Desperado-The Eagles

Ring of Fire-Any of the artists that have sang this one will get to me. Not really a sad, depressing song, but it reminds me of some sad, depressing events.

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**Author:** ![DeVena](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/dec6dc/32.png) [@DeVena](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DeVena)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2003, 12:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/14 "2003-04-18T00:07:47Z")

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_Mountains win again_ - Blues Traveler  
_Poems, Prayers, and Promises_ - John Denver  
_Goodnight, my angel_ - Billy Joel

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**Author:** ![Loneraven](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c0e974/32.png) [@Loneraven](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Loneraven)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2003, 12:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/15 "2003-04-18T00:08:10Z")

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> \*Originally posted by djxiii \*  
> \*\*_Globes and Maps_ - Something Corporate  
> \*\*

Whoo! Another Something Corporate fan. I’ll add “Walking By” to the list, by the same band.  
Also… this thread goes in **Cafe Society** , ne?

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**Author:** ![shy\_guy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a6a055/32.png) [@shy\_guy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shy_guy)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2003, 12:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/16 "2003-04-18T00:12:09Z")

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_Black_ - Pearl Jam  
_Yellow Ledbetter_ - Pearl Jam (don’t remember what it’s about, but the music does the trick)

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**Author:** ![The\_Man\_With\_The\_Golden\_Gun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/dc4da7/32.png) [@The\_Man\_With\_The\_Golden\_Gun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Man_With_The_Golden_Gun)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2003, 12:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/17 "2003-04-18T00:15:20Z")

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The Day the World Went Away - NIN  
Freiflug - Megaherz  
Total Eclipse of the Heart - Bonnie Tyler  
In The End - Linkin Park  
4 U - Korn  
Alter Mann - Rammstein  
Losing my Religion - REM  
Sound of Silence - Simon & Garfunkel  
Amnesia - Skinny Puppy  
Clown - Switchblade Symphony

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2003, 12:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/18 "2003-04-18T00:27:49Z")

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And off we go to Cafe Society.

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**Author:** ![Zanthor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/e19b73/32.png) [@Zanthor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zanthor)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2003, 12:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/19 "2003-04-18T00:31:28Z")

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cant believe no-one has mentioned Leonard Cohen.  
a master of depression, music to cut your wrists by at worst, to really get down, wallow in profound bleak pain, sadness, at best.  
any of his stuff will do. - to name a few. -

- hey, thats no way to say goodbye
- so long marianne.
- suzanne
- bird on a wire
- chelsea hotel
- famous blue raincoat
- first we take manhatten  
and heaps more  
enjoy ( sic )

Zanthor

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**Author:** ![Lobsang](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lobsang/32/4067_2.png) [@Lobsang](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lobsang)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2003, 12:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sad-depressing-songs/169415/20 "2003-04-18T00:40:01Z")

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Bright Eyes (or whatever it’s called) used to make me cry when it played on Watership down,  
I _was_ about 8 at the time (although thinking about it still causes me to well up)

Just watching lassie (even when nothing sad was happening) made me cry too.

wahhhhhh!!!

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