# Saddest song of all time?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756>\
**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [November 23, 2003, 12:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756 "2003-11-23T00:32:52Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Largo62](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/45deac/32.png) [@Largo62](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Largo62)\
**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 8:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/21 "2003-11-23T08:13:28Z")

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Another vote here for _Honey_ by Bobby Goldsboro. _Softly, As I Leave You_ (I don’t remember the artist at the moment) always made me blue. _Is That All There Is_ by Peggy Lee was downright depressing.  
Haven’t heard any of them in a long time, and don’t hope to.

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**Author:** ![Chavardz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/91b2a8/32.png) [@Chavardz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chavardz)\
**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 8:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/22 "2003-11-23T08:28:36Z")

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Anything by Portishead.

Noby loves me is a good example

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**Author:** ![Gmork](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/f19dbf/32.png) [@Gmork](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gmork)\
**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 8:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/23 "2003-11-23T08:41:48Z")

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**The Whitlams - ‘You Gotta Love This City’** - suicide in Sydney Harbour on Olympic Opening Night.

**The Whitlams - 'Cries Too Hard’**

**The Whitlams - 'The Curse Stops Here**

**Don McLean - Vincent**

**Art Garfunkel - Bright Eyes** - I think I like this mostly because of my obsession and frequent watching and re-watching of ‘Watership Down’ when I was small.

Have to second Gloomy Sunday. And perhaps Billie Holiday’s ‘Strange Fruit’ - though it IS sad, maybe it should be under the ‘Eerie’ category.  
And ‘And The Band Played Waltzing Matilda’  
I know the OP was looking for our individual one ‘sadDEST song’ - but I’ll just, you know, nominate these and proclaim myself indecisive.

Does anyone else take a look at threads like this and then just **have** to go and find copies of everything mentioned?

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**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 8:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/24 "2003-11-23T08:53:28Z")

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“All of My Love” by Led Zeppelin, which is supposedly about the death of Robert Plant’s son.

And just about anything by Joy Division.

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**Author:** ![Paul\_in\_Qatar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ccd318/32.png) [@Paul\_in\_Qatar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Paul_in_Qatar)\
**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 1:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/25 "2003-11-23T13:30:06Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Ranchoth \*  
> \*\*"  
> “He Stopped Loving Her Today” by George Jones \*\*

Seconded. Oddly it is one my favorites.

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**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 1:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/26 "2003-11-23T13:39:36Z")

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> And just about anything by Joy Division.

I find JD’s lyrics depressing, not particularly sad. Not saying that you don’t find them sad, however.

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**Author:** ![alexandra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e68b1a/32.png) [@alexandra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/alexandra)\
**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 3:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/27 "2003-11-23T15:09:44Z")

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Probably something by the Smiths.  
Maybe “Last Night I Dreamt…” which has the most excellent beginning or “I Know It’s Over”.

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**Author:** ![Husker\_Dude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/d6d6ee/32.png) [@Husker\_Dude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Husker_Dude)\
**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 5:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/28 "2003-11-23T17:02:49Z")

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**The Mountain Goats - No Children**  
This incredibly bitter song is the center piece on John Darnielle’s concept album **Tallahassee** , which narrates the lives of a troubled couple who’s decided to drink themselves to death somewhere out in the countryside. With dark, yet brilliant lyrical gems like: “I hope that our few remaining friends/ give up on trying to save us/ I hope we come up with a failsafe plot/ to piss off the dumb few that forgave us,” and “I hope it stays dark forever/ I hope the worst isn’t over/ and I hope you blink before I do/ yeah I hope I never get sober.”

**Minutemen - History Lesson pt. II**  
A nostalgic song from the sprawling **Double Nickels on the Dime** , where D. Boon looks back at the humble beginnings of Minutemen, which he started with his best friend Mike Watt, when they were teenagers: “our band could be your life/ real names be proof/ me and Mike Watt/ we played for years.” What makes this song so sad is the fact that D. Boon died in a car crash a year after the album was released. The final line: “me and Mike Watt, playing guitar,” breaks my heart every time.

**The Replacements - Here Comes A Regular**  
This song reminds me of fall, and all of my old loser drinking buddies who I’ve turned my back on lately: “and sometimes I just ain’t in the mood/ to take my place in back with the loudmouths/ you’re like a picture on a fridge that’s never stocked with food/ I used to live at home, now I stay in the house.” **Tim** is the most depressing album I own, but I still play it often.

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**Author:** ![eli\_the\_fanatic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ccd318/32.png) [@eli\_the\_fanatic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/eli_the_fanatic)\
**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 5:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/29 "2003-11-23T17:15:09Z")

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Do you live in the Twin Cities, Husker Dude?

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**Author:** ![Husker\_Dude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/d6d6ee/32.png) [@Husker\_Dude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Husker_Dude)\
**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 5:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/30 "2003-11-23T17:26:34Z")

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Nope, I live in Norway. But I have family there, which I’m actually planning on visiting sometimes next year.

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**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 5:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/31 "2003-11-23T17:30:03Z")

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**Gollum’s Song** , from the LOTR:TTT soundtrack. [Lyrics here](http://www.visionsfromthepalantiri.com/music/gollumssong.html)

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**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 5:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/32 "2003-11-23T17:30:55Z")

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Oh, right. That Norwegian family in Minnesota. I know them! 😉

I live in Minneapolis, so I noticed your tastes for local music (Replacements, Husker Du).

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**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 5:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/33 "2003-11-23T17:34:40Z")

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**I Don’t Like Mondays** by The Boomtown Rats

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**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 5:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/34 "2003-11-23T17:54:13Z")

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seasons in the sun - terry jacks get my vote

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**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 6:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/35 "2003-11-23T18:29:25Z")

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**I Can’t Make You Love Me** by Bonnie Raitt

**Send in the Clowns** always made me sad.

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**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 6:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/36 "2003-11-23T18:43:21Z")

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“Send in the Clowns” is a good choice. Another good one about divorce is Gordon Lightfoot’s “If You Could Read My Mind.”

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**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 6:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/37 "2003-11-23T18:47:32Z")

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Another Boomtown Rats one: Diamond Smiles - I remember lying on the floor listening to this over and over again when I was about 8 years old. You can read the [lyrics here](http://www.geocities.com/~sdsundstrom/diamond.htm)

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**Author:** ![Chavardz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/91b2a8/32.png) [@Chavardz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chavardz)\
**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 7:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/38 "2003-11-23T19:37:42Z")

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Gary Jules - Mad world (donnie darko soundtrack)  
Jeff Buckley - Hallelujah  
Righteous Brothers - Unchained Melody  
R.E.M. - Everybody Hurts  
U2 - If god would send his angels  
Lou Reed - Perfect Day  
The Wallflowers - I started a joke (or the bee gee’s original version)  
Foo Fighters - Everlong  
Isreal Kamamawiwo’ole - Somewhere over the rainbow/it’s a beautiful world

That’s what’s on my sad songs playlist anyway

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**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 7:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/39 "2003-11-23T19:40:03Z")

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Yesterday,when I was young-Roy Clark  
[http://www.lyricsdepot.com/roy-clark/yesterday-when-i-was-young.html](http://www.lyricsdepot.com/roy-clark/yesterday-when-i-was-young.html)

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**Post date:** [November 23, 2003, 8:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saddest-song-of-all-time/214756/40 "2003-11-23T20:22:33Z")

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How could we have gotten this far and not mentioned the Ultimate Sad Song?

**Puff the Magic Dragon.**

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