# Sailor, a moment please

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156
**Category:** The BBQ Pit
**Created:** [April 9, 2004, 11:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156 "2004-04-09T11:31:12Z")
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### Author: ![Kiger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Kiger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kiger)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 11:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/1 "2004-04-09T11:31:12Z")

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> [@sailor](#):
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> I am much more upset by the images of human suffering coming out of Iraq these days. When I see images of men, women and children being killed due to the greed and arrogange of some people half way around the world I am not surprised that the natural reaction of many bystanders is that they would love to see the agressors defeated and humiliated just like we want to see the guy who kicked the dog is taught a lesson. It is human nature.

This has been bothering me all night. So **Sailor** , are you hoping for another twin towers type ass-kicking or what? How about a bunch more dead American soldiers? Since we all know Bush isn’t going to get what’s coming to him for starting this stupid war in the first place, I can’t imagine what you hope will happen. Just who is it that you are advocating kicking?  
I feel this President has hijacked this country and I am powerless to stop it. Other then voting out the bastard this November I don’t know what else I can do.  
But I’m a target. I live and work minutes from Washington, DC and I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop. When it happens, will you say I got what was coming to me?  
I usually respect what you say, but this is the second time I’ve seen you make statements that could be construed as hoping for violence against Americans. I hope that I am mistaken.

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### Author: ![yojimbo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/yojimbo/32/232_2.png) [@yojimbo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/yojimbo)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 11:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/2 "2004-04-09T11:37:32Z")

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> [@Kiger](#):
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> I usually respect what you say, but this is the second time I’ve seen you make statements that **could** be construed as hoping for violence against Americans. I hope that I am mistaken.

_my bolding_

read **sailor’s** post again. He is saying that he can see why some Iraqi would be pissed off. I can understand why some Americans were really really angry after 9/11 to the extent that some (even on this board) called for huge retaliatory actions even to the level of nuclear actions. I can understand this anger without _hoping_ that it happens.

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### Author: ![calm\_kiwi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9fc348/32.png) [@calm\_kiwi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/calm_kiwi)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 11:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/3 "2004-04-09T11:44:45Z")

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> [@Kiger](#):
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> This has been bothering me all night. So **Sailor** , are you hoping for another twin towers type ass-kicking or what? How about a bunch more dead American soldiers? Since we all know Bush isn’t going to get what’s coming to him for starting this stupid war in the first place, I can’t imagine what you hope will happen. Just who is it that you are advocating kicking?  
> I feel this President has hijacked this country and I am powerless to stop it. Other then voting out the bastard this November I don’t know what else I can do.  
> But I’m a target. I live and work minutes from Washington, DC and I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop. When it happens, will you say I got what was coming to me?  
> I usually respect what you say, but this is the second time I’ve seen you make statements that could be construed as hoping for violence against Americans. I hope that I am mistaken.

I wouldn’t want to presume to speak for sailor but I don’t think he was hoping for violence anywhere.

I think he was just saying the current situation is likely to end up with more violence because some Iraqis are only getting angrier and more frustrated. More Americans (and others) are dying as a direct result.

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### Author: ![Boo\_Boo\_Foo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e274bd/32.png) [@Boo\_Boo\_Foo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Boo_Boo_Foo)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 12:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/4 "2004-04-09T12:35:31Z")

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If there is but one sure thing about war, it’s this… it always has, without fail, shitloads upon shitloads of unpredicted consequences.

And in particular, the Iraq/Syria/Kurdistan/Lebanon quadrant is as volatile as they come. I’m pretty safe in saying, especially after Sailor’s incredible efforts recently after the Madrid bombings, that he is one person who is all too aware of this inalieable truth.

To accuse Sailor of wishing for certain consequences out of war is wrong. He’s not that kind of guy. However, he’s smart enough to know all about the unintended and unpredicted consequences. You can’t get angry at him for that.

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### Author: ![clairobscur](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/839c29/32.png) [@clairobscur](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/clairobscur)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 12:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/5 "2004-04-09T12:35:58Z")

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> [@Kiger](#):
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> I usually respect what you say, but this is the second time I’ve seen you make statements that could be construed as hoping for violence against Americans. I hope that I am mistaken.

I’m sorry, but I can’t read that in the quote you posted. “I understand why my neighbor A is so pissed about my neighbor B that he could want to beat the crap out of him” doesn’t mean “I hope neighbor A will beat the crap out of neighbor B”.

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### Author: ![sailor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a587f6/32.png) [@sailor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sailor)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 12:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/6 "2004-04-09T12:37:58Z")

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> [@Kiger](#):
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> This has been bothering me all night. So **Sailor** , are you hoping for another twin towers type ass-kicking or what? How about a bunch more dead American soldiers?

How on earth do you get that from my post? How on earth? Please explain it. How on bloody earth.

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> I usually respect what you say, but this is the second time I’ve seen you make statements that could be construed as hoping for violence against Americans. I hope that I am mistaken.

And you did not think of asking for clarification in the original thread? You felt the need to open a new thread in the pit to ask me a question?

Please explain exactly what words of mine you interpret that way and by waht reasoning. Because I cannot fathom it.

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### Author: ![Desmostylus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/c57346/32.png) [@Desmostylus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Desmostylus)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 12:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/7 "2004-04-09T12:47:08Z")

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> [@Kiger](#):
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> But I’m a target. I live and work minutes from Washington, DC and I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop. When it happens, will you say I got what was coming to me?

I’m pretty sure that’s where **sailor** lives, too.

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### Author: ![Mehitabel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8797f3/32.png) [@Mehitabel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mehitabel)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 12:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/8 "2004-04-09T12:51:21Z")

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Well, he does seem to pop up in any thread dealing with Iraq, however tangentially, and interjects his view that the Coalition’s accidental casualties are never an accident. It’s very predictable and at this point I just screen him out.

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### Author: ![sailor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a587f6/32.png) [@sailor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sailor)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 12:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/9 "2004-04-09T12:57:33Z")

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> [@Desmostylus](#):
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> I’m pretty sure that’s where **sailor** lives, too.

I lived in DC for about 15 years but I sold my house there and right now I am in Spain although I still have my boat in Annapolis and expect to return within the next month or two. For the past 18 years I have spent most of my time in DC but traveled often to Europe and Asia.

I seem to bring bad luck because I was in DC on 9/11, in Madrid on 3/11 and in Guangdong, China when the chicken flu broke out there. I expect Interpol might become suspicious of me any day. 🙂

I love DC, there’s no place like it. And I love the Chesapeake. Beautiful place and wonderful sailing. (Well, there would be wonderful sailing if there was any wind but that’s another rant.)

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### Author: ![sailor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a587f6/32.png) [@sailor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sailor)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 1:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/10 "2004-04-09T13:02:03Z")

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> [@Mehitabel](#):
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> Well, he does seem to pop up in any thread dealing with Iraq, however tangentially, and interjects his view that the Coalition’s accidental casualties are never an accident. It’s very predictable and at this point I just screen him out.

That is a lie. A big lie. A lie that anyone who reads my posts will immediately see. Please provide some cites where I interject my view that “the Coalition’s accidental casualties are never an accident”. Please.

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### Author: ![Kiger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Kiger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kiger)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 2:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/11 "2004-04-09T14:02:06Z")

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> [@sailor](#):
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> How on earth do you get that from my post? How on earth? Please explain it. How on bloody earth. And you did not think of asking for clarification in the original thread? You felt the need to open a new thread in the pit to ask me a question?
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> Please explain exactly what words of mine you interpret that way and by waht reasoning. Because I cannot fathom it.

I think it’s pretty easy to reach that conclusion from your quote. I said easy, I didn’t say it was right which is why I asked for clarification. You’d like to see America be “defeated and humiliated” because it is the aggressor. I assume what you really mean is that you’d like to see Bush get his ass kicked. Unfortunately, he’s put us all in the position of taking his beating for him. When the shit finally hits the fan so to speak, I doubt he’ll be the one getting hit by the spray.  
I opened a new thread because the dog kicking one had already been hijacked enough. I thought that was common policy around here.

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### Author: ![BubbaDog](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bubbadog/32/333_2.png) [@BubbaDog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BubbaDog)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 2:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/12 "2004-04-09T14:06:09Z")

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> [@Mehitabel](#):
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> Well, he does seem to pop up in any thread dealing with Iraq,

**Sailor** , Most definately **Mehitabel** has this statement wrong. You show up on threads that have [nothing to do with Iraq](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=249756) and try to **change** them into discussions over your pet peeve.

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### Author: ![Squink](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b5e925/32.png) [@Squink](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Squink)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 2:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/13 "2004-04-09T14:25:11Z")

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> [@sailor](#):
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> I am much more upset by the images of human suffering coming out of Iraq these days. When I see images of men, women and children being killed due to the greed and arrogange of some people half way around the world I am not surprised that the natural reaction of many bystanders is that they would love to see the agressors defeated and humiliated just like we want to see the guy who kicked the dog is taught a lesson. **It is human nature**.

And so is getting all bent out of shape when anyone dares point this out.

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### Author: ![sailor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a587f6/32.png) [@sailor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sailor)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 2:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/14 "2004-04-09T14:38:05Z")

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> [@BubbaDog](#):
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> **Sailor** , Most definately **Mehitabel** has this statement wrong. You show up on threads that have [nothing to do with Iraq](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=249756) and try to **change** them into discussions over your pet peeve.

Except that I had made my point, which everyone but you understood, and I left it at that. But I guess you want me back there.

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### Author: ![sinical\_brit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/48db29/32.png) [@sinical\_brit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sinical_brit)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 3:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/15 "2004-04-09T15:09:21Z")

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Kiger - Ive never seen sailor imply what you have suggested. However i agree with the dog kicking metaphore - from the pov of an Iraqi.

Sailor - im looking to hire a ~50 footer to cruise round spain - any companies / areas you would recommend?

sin

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### Author: ![Nametag](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/nametag/32/406_2.png) [@Nametag](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nametag)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 3:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/16 "2004-04-09T15:15:48Z")

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> [@Kiger](#):
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> I think it’s pretty easy to reach that conclusion from your quote. I said easy, I didn’t say it was right which is why I asked for clarification. You’d like to see America be “defeated and humiliated” because it is the aggressor. I assume what you really mean is that you’d like to see Bush get his ass kicked. Unfortunately, he’s put us all in the position of taking his beating for him. When the shit finally hits the fan so to speak, I doubt he’ll be the one getting hit by the spray.  
> I opened a new thread because the dog kicking one had already been hijacked enough. I thought that was common policy around here.

Read it again, O Dim One:

> [@sailor](#):
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> I am not surprised … that they would love to see the aggressors defeated and humiliated

THEY, O He Whose Dimness Darkens the Skies, not **Sailor** , would love to see the defeat and humiliation.

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### Author: ![sailor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a587f6/32.png) [@sailor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sailor)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 3:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/17 "2004-04-09T15:28:19Z")

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> [@Kiger](#):
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> I think it’s pretty easy to reach that conclusion from your quote. I said easy, I didn’t say it was right which is why I asked for clarification. You’d like to see America be “defeated and humiliated” because it is the aggressor. I assume what you really mean is that you’d like to see Bush get his ass kicked. Unfortunately, he’s put us all in the position of taking his beating for him. When the shit finally hits the fan so to speak, I doubt he’ll be the one getting hit by the spray.  
> I opened a new thread because the dog kicking one had already been hijacked enough. I thought that was common policy around here.

Look, it is pretty easy to understand. when I say

> [@](#):
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> I am not surprised that the natural reaction of many bystanders is that **they** would love to see the agressors defeated and humiliated just like we want to see the guy who kicked the dog is taught a lesson.

They. You know the difference between “they” and “I”? I am not “they” and they are not “I”. Capisce? Does that answer your question to your satisfaction? I hope it does and if it does I would ask you to ask the mods to close this thread as having been resolved because it can only go downhill from here.

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### Author: ![sailor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a587f6/32.png) [@sailor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sailor)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 3:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/18 "2004-04-09T15:33:32Z")

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> [@sinical brit](#):
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> Sailor - im looking to hire a ~50 footer to cruise round spain - any companies / areas you would recommend?

I am afraid I have no knowledge as I have never chartered in Spain. I have done all my sailing crewing with friends but I am sure sailing magazines would have a lot of adverts. I don’t want to sidetrack this thread but there are many very different sailing areas (Med, Atlantic etc.) I really can’t help you much with finding a charter but if you want to email me we can chat.

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### Author: ![Kiger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Kiger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kiger)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 4:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/19 "2004-04-09T16:21:04Z")

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> [@Nametag](#):
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> Read it again, O Dim One:THEY, O He Whose Dimness Darkens the Skies, not **Sailor** , would love to see the defeat and humiliation.

You know what? FUCK YOU. I never insulted **Sailor** or attacked him. I asked him to explain his comment. I’m “dim” for that? This is why I won’t be wasting $5 on this board full of shitty people like you.

Mods please lock this thread.

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### Author: ![GaWd](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/f08c70/32.png) [@GaWd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GaWd)
#### Post date: [April 9, 2004, 4:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sailor-a-moment-please/239156/20 "2004-04-09T16:53:36Z")

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I think there are more than a few people who are definitely dim after this thread and the other were opened. Sailor never said such a thing and if some of you would leverage your fucking reading skills, hold your jerking knees down, and out your thinking caps on, you’d see that.

I mean Kiger, where on fucking earth do you seel Sailor wishing harm to our people in the pathetic quote you posted?

Sam

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