# Same sex "cheating", not adultery?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/same-sex-cheating-not-adultery/212474>\
**Category:** Great Debates\
**Created:** [November 10, 2003, 9:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/same-sex-cheating-not-adultery/212474 "2003-11-10T21:15:36Z")\
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**Post date:** [November 18, 2003, 12:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/same-sex-cheating-not-adultery/212474/21 "2003-11-18T00:51:51Z")

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Am I the only one who wouldn’t angle for a divorce if my wife got it on with another woman? I might get mad for not being invited to join in…

Mrs. audilover and I have discussed this, and we both feel the same way. She’d probably not feel ‘cheated on’ if I had an experience with another man. But she might just be saying that because she know it would likely never happen. I think she has some slight inclination towards homoeroticism. If I could just help bring this out… 😛

Is it infidelity? I dunno…is it cheating if the other person doesn’t mind?

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