# Saying Hot Chick = Being A Misogynist Asshole

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [September 7, 2018, 4:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925 "2018-09-07T04:12:13Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![expectopatronum](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/expectopatronum/32/173_2.png) [@expectopatronum](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/expectopatronum)\
**Post date:** [September 13, 2018, 3:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/582 "2018-09-13T15:54:55Z")

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I’m sure he won’t at all be pretending it’s a ten year old, either.

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**Author:** ![Starving\_Artist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/aeb1de/32.png) [@Starving\_Artist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Starving_Artist)\
**Post date:** [September 13, 2018, 4:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/583 "2018-09-13T16:16:55Z")

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Ah, the plaintive wails of the Paterno-defeated! Music to my ears!

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**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\
**Post date:** [September 13, 2018, 4:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/584 "2018-09-13T16:26:06Z")

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> [@Budget\_Player\_Cadet](#):
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> Maybe **Starving Artist** can find a paper towel tube and go fuck himself.

Hasn’t the tree suffered enough?

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**Author:** ![Skywatcher](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skywatcher/32/254_2.png) [@Skywatcher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skywatcher)\
**Post date:** [September 13, 2018, 4:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/585 "2018-09-13T16:46:36Z")

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> [@Starving\_Artist](#):
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> Ah, the plaintive wails of the Paterno-defeated! Music to my ears!

Thanks for admitting that you’re a troll.

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**Author:** ![Gary\_Kumquat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/4491bb/32.png) [@Gary\_Kumquat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gary_Kumquat)\
**Post date:** [September 13, 2018, 4:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/586 "2018-09-13T16:59:26Z")

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> [@Starving\_Artist](#):
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> Ah, the plaintive wails of the Paterno-defeated! Music to my ears!

Your definition of victory is dying in shame, known forever to have enabled child rape?

I see why you think you’re doing well in this thread.

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**Author:** ![begbert2](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/begbert2/32/3357_2.png) [@begbert2](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/begbert2)\
**Post date:** [September 13, 2018, 10:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/587 "2018-09-13T22:17:54Z")

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> [@Starving\_Artist](#):
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> Ah, the plaintive wails of the Paterno-defeated! Music to my ears!

The truly sad part of this is the amount of cognitive distortion a person has to be enveloped in to characterize open mockery and scorn on himself as “wails” of people who have, er, been defeated? By a dead guy?

I mean, yes, he’s going to characterize this post as me crying tearfully in a corner too I’m sure, but one starts to wonder if people like this are literally suffering from cognitive failure - self-induced, of course, as a result of a lifestyle entirely based on false narratives and swallowing lies whole.

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**Author:** ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)\
**Post date:** [September 13, 2018, 11:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/588 "2018-09-13T23:36:27Z")

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Winning! Tiger Blood!

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**Author:** ![EddyTeddyFreddy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eddyteddyfreddy/32/18796_2.png) [@EddyTeddyFreddy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EddyTeddyFreddy)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2018, 5:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/589 "2018-09-14T05:50:01Z")

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nm

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**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\
**Post date:** [September 18, 2018, 9:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/590 "2018-09-18T09:06:47Z")

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[WSJ prints an op-ed](https://www.wsj.com/articles/a-spectral-witness-materializes-1537225498) talking about “hysterical fantasies” with respect to Kavanaugh and Dr. Ford.

Worthless gits.

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**Author:** ![j666](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/9de0a6/32.png) [@j666](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/j666)\
**Post date:** [September 18, 2018, 10:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/591 "2018-09-18T10:40:22Z")

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Cliff notes:  
Boys will be boys (with no suggestion of “and girls must be saints”, refreshingly).  
It wasn’t ‘actual rape’.  
Anyone who believes this is guilty of anti-Catholic bias.

And Lance Morrow is of an age and education to know the root of “hysterical”.

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**Author:** ![Starving\_Artist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/aeb1de/32.png) [@Starving\_Artist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Starving_Artist)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2018, 6:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/592 "2018-09-20T06:35:32Z")

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Saw this on Facebook today and couldn’t help but think of the liberal view on life as a female:

He: _“You look beautiful today!”_

She: _“Thanks. I love compliments about my flesh prison.”_

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**Author:** ![snfaulkner](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/snfaulkner/32/433_2.png) [@snfaulkner](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/snfaulkner)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2018, 6:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/593 "2018-09-20T06:55:42Z")

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> [@Starving\_Artist](#):
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> Saw this on Fac…

You make me so hard.

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**Author:** ![What\_sGoingToSetYouFree](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/ba9def/32.png) [@What\_sGoingToSetYouFree](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/What_sGoingToSetYouFree)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2018, 8:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/594 "2018-09-20T08:47:00Z")

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Most men do not feel their freedom of speech is increasingly being encroached upon by overly sensitive liberals. That’s a false narrative. Most men understand that politeness has it’s place in civilized society and that random demeaning quips have unintended consequences.

And do all Charter Members make fun of newbies joining a discussion forum after following a viral news item originating from a widely available news item like the SCOTUS nomination hearings, and curious how the thread is still going almost two weeks later? Is this merely an echo chamber for Charter Members to criticise outsiders from? Do Moderators think it’s in the best interest of the SD forum for newbie shaming to be the norm?

This thread originated from a news event that now ironically actually demonstrates why casual use of demeaning language has consequences, as the aforementioned SCOTUS nominee now stands accused of unacceptable behavior as a teenager, obviously shaped by the attitudes of his peers and likely also the adults around him at the time, giving him license to behave inappropriately with a girlfriend at the time, demonstrating the actual behavior that results from random demeaning speech when it goes unchecked. That’s not infringing on men’s freedom of speech, that’s protecting the safety and dignity of children and everyone. Anyone of that generation remembers full well what used to pass as normal conversation and the ugly behavior that went along with the attitudes of that period. That behavior was wrong then, is universally recognized as being enabled by demeaning speech that modern society deems to be unnecessary, selfish and generally inappropriate on many levels as the thread has enumerated.

Give it up or admit the outrage is fake. Most people are over the whole criticism of political correctness. It’s not a valid argument in the modern era.

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**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2018, 9:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/595 "2018-09-20T09:05:40Z")

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> [@What\_sGoingToSetYouFree](#):
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> And do all Charter Members make fun of newbies joining a discussion forum after following a viral news item originating from a widely available news item like the SCOTUS nomination hearings, and curious how the thread is still going almost two weeks later? Is this merely an echo chamber for Charter Members to criticise outsiders from? Do Moderators think it’s in the best interest of the SD forum for newbie shaming to be the norm?

One remark about the fact that this thread has been a new-members magnet becomes “the norm” only because it came after your posts? I was going to be polite but this is the Pit: if you plan on staying here, you may want to a) learn to count and b) grow a thicker skin. Note that neither is strictly necessary; **Starving Artist** for example has never learned to count.

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**Author:** ![Gyrate](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gyrate/32/3588_2.png) [@Gyrate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gyrate)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2018, 9:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/596 "2018-09-20T09:22:57Z")

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> [@Starving\_Artist](#):
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> Saw this on Facebook today and couldn’t help but think of the liberal view on life as a female:
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> He: _“You look beautiful today!”_
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> She: _“Thanks. I love compliments about my flesh prison.”_

…and then she complained about the way he was mowing his lawn.

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**Author:** ![Gyrate](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gyrate/32/3588_2.png) [@Gyrate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gyrate)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2018, 9:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/597 "2018-09-20T09:31:13Z")

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Missed the edit window but just wanted to add that, funnily enough, I saw this on Facebook today too and couldn’t help but think of the conservative view on life as a female:

> [@Emma Thatcher](#):
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> Hello, female high school student here. I would just like to say that the emergence of this whole “teenage boys should get a pass because they’re not mature enough to understand consent” narrative is probably one of the most unsettling things I have ever witnessed.

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**Author:** ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2018, 9:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/598 "2018-09-20T09:36:36Z")

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Oh, shut the fuck up. You are not a legitimate newbie, and you did not find a thread whining about how our board is moderated due to a Supreme Court news item. No, I’m not going to reveal why it’s so obvious, because you’re probably a long-running troll, and I don’t want to help you troll better.

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**Author:** ![What\_sGoingToSetYouFree](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/ba9def/32.png) [@What\_sGoingToSetYouFree](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/What_sGoingToSetYouFree)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2018, 12:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/599 "2018-09-20T12:47:39Z")

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> [@BigT](#):
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> Oh, shut the fuck up. You are not a legitimate newbie, and you did not find a thread whining about how our board is moderated due to a Supreme Court news item. No, I’m not going to reveal why it’s so obvious, because you’re probably a long-running troll, and I don’t want to help you troll better.

Thanks, I appreciate that. It took a few days of exploring the Dope before I realized this thread was in the Pitt. It sounds like this isn’t the first Pitt thread to devolve into “grow up / shut up / you’re making my point / screw you”, ad infinitum, or the last I’m sure. Good one.

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**Author:** ![andros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e480ec/32.png) [@andros](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/andros)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2018, 1:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/600 "2018-09-20T13:15:31Z")

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Pitt?

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**Author:** ![Gyrate](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gyrate/32/3588_2.png) [@Gyrate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gyrate)\
**Post date:** [September 20, 2018, 1:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/saying-hot-chick-being-a-misogynist-asshole/820925/601 "2018-09-20T13:33:26Z")

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> [@andros](#):
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> Pitt?

[The Pitt](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Pitt).

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