SteveG1 is right - there is no need for morals to come from religion. Lekatt, You’ve suggested that a universal code of religion is needed - surely a universal code of morals would suffice? Morals don’t require the backing of the Gods to be moral. Teaching people to act on these morals using Gods (and maybe the carrot and stick of heaven and hell) can be useful, but wouldn’t it be nice if people would behave according to these morals because they believe they are right, not because they believe God said they are right?
Whether or not a universal code of morals is actually a good thing is another debate in itself, but for the most part I’m in favour. Agreeing on what those morals may be would be tricky.
Science is indeed amoral - bad guys and good guys can use scientific methods, and the results of successfully tested theories. But that’s what science tries to do - be objective - it works whoever is doing it because “good” and “bad” and “moral” and “immoral” are subjective, and have no part in science. Science can’t make moral proclamations, although information learned through scientific methods can be used to help us make moral decisions.
Religion (for the most part) contains morals - correct behaviour as required by God(s). However, often the religious information leading to these morals can be interpreted differently by different people. Good and bad people alike. If the morals stand alone of religion, then they can be corrected, and clarified, and made free of interpretation. New information (obtained through scientific study) can lead to modification of existing moral code or creation of a new set of morals.
An a-religious world is not by definition an amoral one. Religion and faith can be very powerful, and as you rightly say, can provide support to those in need. Some people help those in need through because of their religious beliefs. Some people will help those in need without the impetus of religious belief.
The poor people working long hours on low wages and going home hungry at night still work long hours on low wages and go home hungry at night if they believe in God. They might be a bit happier about it (which I don’t doubt is a good thing), but they’re still hungry. Religion can make them happier while they suffer, science can investigate the causes of the suffering, and examine existing data to build hypotheses on the political, economical and environmental causes of that person’s suffering, and make predictions of how best to alleviate it. Hopefully a solution can be found. In the meantime, religion can help them through the suffering.
You say you are completely fulfilled by your spirituality, but I disagree. I’m sure your needs for a spiritual belief system are fulfilled, but many others are not. For instance, your need to tell people about your spirituality. That isn’t fulfilled by your beliefs, you have websites, and SDMB posts, telling the world about how your life can be changed by near death experiences. If you were completely fulfilled by your spirituality, you’d just sit in your room thinking spiritual thoughts with a big smile on your face.
If I were completely fulfilled by my scientific understanding, I wouldn’t be writing this now. Nor would I be interested in the findings of a recent scientific study - I’m fulfilled, remember - I have no desire to know any more than I do already. Science and religion fulfill some parts of humanities’ needs. They don’t fulfill the same parts (although there are some overlaps), and nor do they exhaustively fulfill the entirety of needs together.
But the point I’m trying to make is that part of the battle for America’s minds (and those of the rest of the world) is caused by people believing that religion and science are in open conflict with each other, and that the two are mutually exclusive. This is not the case. Science and religion can happily cohabit.
It seems that a lot of people are brought up to believe that “science is wrong” or “religion is wrong” by advocates on whichever side. If this culture can be avoided, and children can be brought up being taught that prisms split light into different colours whether or not you go to church on Sunday, we can crack the problem. If in formative years a teacher, or parent, or religious figure instructs a child to disbelieve what someone else says, then they will have real difficulty in the future to accept it.
Once a person is older, they can look at the complicated issues where scientific evidence disagrees with their personal beliefs, and reach their own conclusions. Either their skepticism learned through their science classes at school will lead them to discard that part of their beliefs, or their beliefs will be strong enough for them to ignore the evidence. They will be able to distinguish between that one disagreement, and all the other areas where their paths do not cross. Skepticism can help them through life, maybe preventing them from being suckered in to some scam, and religious faith can help them find solace when they go through a difficult period in life. There is no need to discard one in favour of the other.
We are complex beings, and most of us have no difficulty believing two seemingly contradictory things. Part of science is being able to say “I don’t know” and hopefully following it up with “I want to, and I’m trying to find out”. Reconciling a religious belief in the face of contradictory scientific evidence in this manner is acceptable to me - science doesn’t claim to have all the answers (although some people say it does) - if one can accept that religion doesn’t either, we’re well on the way to better understanding.