The Left is not confused about freedom of speech. The Right largely is. It literally just means that you have a right to voice your views. It has never, ever guaranteed your right to an audience. It has never guaranteed you from other people also using their freedom of speech to prevent your message from being heard.
Imagine if it did. A television channel could not exercise their freedom of speech in not allowing you to use their airwaves. They couldn’t try to stop your speech by not repeating it. You would be entitled to their audience.
You want to meet privately with people you agree with, and then kick out protesters? Fine. You want to meet in private and have rules of decorum, kicking out those who don’t follow it? Fine.
But when you use a public venue like a college, you have to deal with the entire public, including those who don’t want you to speak. As long as they are only using speech to stop you, and they have a right to be there, they are doing nothing wrong. If they don’t have a right to be there, then kick them out.
I also will point out that I have absolutely no interest in using my speech to help you spread your message. It’s the same issue. I can’t stop you from speaking, but, if I don’t like what you have to say, I have no requirement to help you.
And, if I think what you are saying is morally wrong, then I would be morally wrong to help the idea spread in any way. At most, I might take what you have to say only to also rebut it.
Sorry, but you gave up on the idea of politeness long ago when you decided that “political correctness” was a bad thing. You’re the ones who decided to give up on the decorum. You just want it back now that it’s biting you in the ass.
Stop with that, and maybe I’d have a reason to try and get these college students to be nice to you.