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I consider the goal of such comparisons to the get the person thinking. If they actually start thinking about what they believe and why, regardless of their response, then you’ve helped them take a step forward. Theistic belief cannot be overcome all in one go, you have to help them past the ‘this belief is important to my life and I need it’ point. Showing them that the reasons they use to justify that belief are silly is one way to do this, even if it does sound insulting.
That’s the problem with theistic belief, it has a ‘get out of reason free’ card. Someone thinks that there are invisible pink unicorns in their back yard and they talk to them? Insane. Someone thinks there are invisible people in the sky and they talk to them? Devout & moral individual. Pointing out that religious belief is or can be silly is ‘bad’, unless it’s not their religion.
Well, I think the main problem here is that a lot of us have heard just about all the arguments before, and tend to skip to the big conclusion. No, it’s not necessarily good, but it saves time. When you’re confronted with someone who thinks that ‘I feel it’ is rock solid proof, and expects you to think the same thing, it’s difficult to stay nonconfrontational about it.
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My point is that it does not work that way, any more than point-blank telling anyone that anything they believe in strongly is “silly” is likely to be an effective argument.
It will not I think have the benefits you are assuming. Telling someone that their beliefs are “silly” does not generally make them re-think their beliefs. It is a put-down, plain and simple.
Moreover, I do not myself assume that “the big conclusion” is that those who are religious are, in fact, morons. Many religious people have been (and are) more intelligent than I am. Many are good and honest people.
A better and more convincing and constructive form of argument is to assume this to be true of those you are arguing with.
For example, when I am called upon to argue with a theist, I generally take the tack of trying to pin them down as to what they mean by “faith”. Usually, this means in the end some sort of emotional and intuitive rather than rational way of “knowing”. Then, one can point out that the two realms - emotion/intuition and reason - need not be in conflict; whether dinosaurs evolved lies within the realm or reason, it cannot be “known” emotionally/inuitively; similarly, (for example) whether Jesus is your personal saviour can only be known emotionally/intuitively, it is not a matter that can be proved or disproved by reason.
This creates some common ground, a basis for moving forward. After all, I am fundamentally uninterested in whether or not someone believes in Jesus as their personal saviour - but I am very interested in preventing those who do from interfering with (say) the teaching of evolution. The idea in my mind is not to convert anyone, but rather, to gradually confine religion to its proper sphere - of a personal matter of emotional comfort.