# SDMB's Padeye Has Passed Away

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [January 20, 2006, 4:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786 "2006-01-20T04:40:18Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
**Page:** 3

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**Author:** ![yellowval](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/919ad9/32.png) [@yellowval](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/yellowval)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2006, 9:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/41 "2006-01-20T21:54:07Z")

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I didn’t know your husband, but recognize his name as someone I admired here at the SDMB. You have my deepest sympathies.

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**Author:** ![Mehitabel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8797f3/32.png) [@Mehitabel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mehitabel)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2006, 9:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/42 "2006-01-20T21:58:52Z")

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I’m deeply sorry for your loss. **Padeye** was a good, standup guy. RIP.

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**Author:** ![Larry\_Griffin-Kentzel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/larry_griffin-kentzel/32/14787_2.png) [@Larry\_Griffin-Kentzel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Larry_Griffin-Kentzel)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2006, 10:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/43 "2006-01-20T22:20:29Z")

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My heartfelt condolences, **TheLadyLion**.

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**Author:** ![633squadron](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/6/ee59a6/32.png) [@633squadron](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/633squadron)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2006, 10:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/44 "2006-01-20T22:20:41Z")

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> [@TheLadyLion](#):
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> This is not mundane and certainly not pointless.Cindy

Words can not express my sadness and my concern for you. You can already see from all the responses here that he was a great man, and one that we were all fortunate to know. The suddenness makes it all the harder to bear.

Joe

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**Author:** ![Yeticus\_Rex](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/a698b9/32.png) [@Yeticus\_Rex](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yeticus_Rex)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2006, 10:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/45 "2006-01-20T22:26:37Z")

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My thoughts and prayers for you and your husband, **LadyLion**.

I had an [employee](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=334339) who passed away only 4 months ago under similar circumstances.

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**Author:** ![Ruby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/13edae/32.png) [@Ruby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ruby)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2006, 10:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/46 "2006-01-20T22:27:47Z")

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I’m so sorry for your loss, Cindy. **Padeye** was a well respected member of our community and will be dearly missed. May you find peace at this most difficult time.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2006, 10:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/47 "2006-01-20T22:28:25Z")

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I’m so sorry for your loss, **LadyLion**. I don’t know of any words that could comfort you - you’ll feel better someday, but I’m sure that doesn’t mean anything right now. Please keep coming here and getting it all out among sympathetic strangers if that would help at all.

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**Author:** ![NurseCarmen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/5daacb/32.png) [@NurseCarmen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NurseCarmen)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2006, 10:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/48 "2006-01-20T22:30:40Z")

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Holy cow, looking back on his posts I’m remembering how often he’s made me crack up.

Most recently:

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> [What’s it to you meatbag?](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?p=6966259#post6966259)

Damn. I am soooo going to use that line.

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**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2006, 10:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/49 "2006-01-20T22:37:05Z")

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I’m so very sorry, **LadyLion**. It’s small consolation, I know, but it says something about him that he will be missed by so many people who never even met him.

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**Author:** ![Johnny\_L.A](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johnny_l.a/32/1084_2.png) [@Johnny\_L.A](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johnny_L.A)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2006, 10:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/50 "2006-01-20T22:45:36Z")

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> [@Johnny L.A.](#):
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> A suggestion has been made by a former member, who lives in Phoenix and knew **Padeye** , that we take up a collection to send flowers (or something else, as **TheLadyLion** may deem appropriate) to the memorial service.
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> I’ve e-mailed **SkipMagic** and **TubaDiva** for permission. If approved, I’ll post details.

I’ve received permission from **SkipMagic** to post details for a collection.

Former member **Mauvaise** has volunteered to buy the flowers and to see that they get to the service. Donations can be made by PayPal to [mauvaise@gmail.com](mailto:mauvaise@gmail.com). I’ve already sent mine.

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**Author:** ![Jake](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f475e1/32.png) [@Jake](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jake)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2006, 11:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/51 "2006-01-20T23:06:07Z")

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I’m also sorry for your loss. He was a great contributor to this board and I’m sure a great person. ☹

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**Author:** ![missbunny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/76d3ee/32.png) [@missbunny](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/missbunny)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2006, 11:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/52 "2006-01-20T23:07:27Z")

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I am very sorry to hear this. My sincere condolences. He was a nice guy here, and funny too. He’ll be missed.

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**Author:** ![Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bosda_di_chi_of_tricor/32/16845_2.png) [@Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bosda_Di_Chi_of_Tricor)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2006, 11:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/53 "2006-01-20T23:12:27Z")

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**Padeye** was a class act & a Gentleman.

**TheLadyLion** , I’m sorry for your troubles. ☹

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**Author:** ![Johnny\_L.A](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johnny_l.a/32/1084_2.png) [@Johnny\_L.A](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johnny_L.A)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2006, 11:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/54 "2006-01-20T23:13:37Z")

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I’m posting this again since the announcement is on the previous page:

I’ve received permission from **SkipMagic** to post details for a collection.

Former member **Mauvaise** has volunteered to buy the flowers and to see that they get to the service. Donations can be made by PayPal to [mauvaise@gmail.com](mailto:mauvaise@gmail.com). I’ve already sent mine.

**Mauvaise** said that since the service is tomorrow she will try her best to get flowers. But if she can’t, then she will contact Cindy to see if there is a charity to which the money can be donated in **Padeye** ’s name. She also wanted me to tell you that she will let Cindy know the names of all who contribute.

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**Author:** ![Brynda](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e79b87/32.png) [@Brynda](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Brynda)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2006, 11:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/55 "2006-01-20T23:43:27Z")

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Deepest sympathies to you and everyone who loved him.

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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [January 20, 2006, 11:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/56 "2006-01-20T23:55:00Z")

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I’m so very sorry.

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**Author:** ![Hunter\_Hawk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/50afbb/32.png) [@Hunter\_Hawk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hunter_Hawk)\
**Post date:** [January 21, 2006, 12:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/57 "2006-01-21T00:04:23Z")

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My condolences. I never met **Padeye** , but I always enjoyed and respected his posts.

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**Author:** ![GIGObuster](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gigobuster/32/421_2.png) [@GIGObuster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GIGObuster)\
**Post date:** [January 21, 2006, 12:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/58 "2006-01-21T00:08:45Z")

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Maybe I made a mistake?

There was no reply to my note and it is getting late, I hope \*\*TheLadyLion \*\* can send me a note regarding the location of the memorial to my mailbox. I will try to send a message using a different mailbox.

Once again, I am deeply sorry for your loss Cindy. ☹

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**Author:** ![Beware\_of\_Doug](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/278dde/32.png) [@Beware\_of\_Doug](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beware_of_Doug)\
**Post date:** [January 21, 2006, 12:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/59 "2006-01-21T00:14:54Z")

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I too lost a friend to liver disease this month. It sometimes happens _so_ quickly… ☹ I dunno how much comfort the Dope can be in this terrible time, but I wish you solace and strength.

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**Author:** ![joyfool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/df788c/32.png) [@joyfool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/joyfool)\
**Post date:** [January 21, 2006, 12:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmbs-padeye-has-passed-away/340786/60 "2006-01-21T00:19:34Z")

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I’m so sorry Cindy. He seemed like a wonderful fellow. You and his loved ones will be in my thoughts.

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