# Seeing an Ex/Conflicted Feelings **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [August 8, 2011, 3:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/seeing-an-ex-conflicted-feelings/591950 "2011-08-08T15:09:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 2\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2011, 6:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/seeing-an-ex-conflicted-feelings/591950/21 "2011-08-09T06:01:55Z")
When I first read this thread title I thought it said “Seeing an Ex/Con…”😛 (as in convict) Needless to say, different subject altogether. ---
**Author:** ![Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6bbea6/32.png) [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Living_Well_Is_Best_Revenge)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2011, 2:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/seeing-an-ex-conflicted-feelings/591950/22 "2011-08-09T14:48:29Z")
> [@Agent\_Foxtrot](#): > > **Living Well Is Best Revenge** , I’ve noticed that you were pretty careful to not reveal any genders in this thread. Was that intentional? It’s not my business either way who has what parts, but I was just curious since men and women approach these situations differently. Actually it wasn’t intentional at first, but once I realized I did it, I kept going. Thought maybe I’d get more objective feedback this way. We have been texting quite a bit and a couple of them lightly referenced the sexy time we had. So who knows. I am considering extending an invitation to come visit in the next few weeks. Maybe that’s too soon. I have no idea what I am doing, really. Tonight I have some friends coming over for dinner. Hopefully they can slap some sense into me. Becky, thanks for your thoughts. You are right that pursuing too hard would be a mistake. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/seeing-an-ex-conflicted-feelings/591950.md?page=1)