# Sex survey

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sex-survey/69245>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [June 18, 2001, 9:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sex-survey/69245 "2001-06-18T21:05:50Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 2\
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**Author:** ![Superdude](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/superdude/32/13450_2.png) [@Superdude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Superdude)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2001, 4:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sex-survey/69245/21 "2001-06-19T16:36:31Z")

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> \*Originally posted by zensi \*  
> \*\*A few of my friends and i have this ongoing research project where we ask random people to _honestly_ answer a set of seven questions about sex, sexuality, and love.
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> 1. What is your sexual orientation?
> 2. Define “sex”
> 3. Where do you draw the line between fooling around and sex?
> 4. Does hand-sex count as sex?
> 5. Are cuddling and kissing classified together, or do you value them differently? That is, is one more meaningful than the other?
> 6. What is your take on group sex?
> 7. Assume that oral sex is being performed on you by two people of the same skill level, one male and one female, and you dont know which is which (blindfolded, elc.) Would you enjoy both equally?\*\*

Well, I’ll be one of the ones that answers with only a minimum of wisecracks.

1. Straight
2. Actual penetration of either the vagina or the anus
3. When penetration of either the vagina or anus occurs
4. No. According to our former President (Clinton), handjobs and blowjobs are not sexual relations
5. Different.
6. I’m not opposed to the idea.
7. I would think so, using what you just said. I would think that I would know the difference, though.

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**Author:** ![zensi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/7bcc69/32.png) [@zensi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/zensi)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2001, 6:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sex-survey/69245/22 "2001-06-19T18:38:20Z")

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Wow! This is the first thread I’ve ever started, and it’s going over WAY better than I ever expected. Here are my answers:

1. Straight female.
2. Stimulation of the genitalia by another person.
3. When certain areas of the body are exposed.
4. Yes.
5. I think both can be extremely intimate. Kissing is usually a lot sexier, or can be. Cuddling is also great, although not as passionate. Personally, I enjoy both activities and think that they can be equally meaningful, but in different ways.
6. I think sex is something very sacred. It should be used to strengthen bonds which already exist, rather than to help form new ones. Thus, IMHO, it is something to be shared between two people who care about one another.
7. Yes. The sensation from both cunnilingists would be the same, therefore, I would recieve equal amounts of pleasure from both.

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