# Shagnasty is a misogynistic prick

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [November 15, 2017, 3:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661 "2017-11-15T03:11:50Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![madsircool](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/madsircool/32/3432_2.png) [@madsircool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/madsircool)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 8:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/821 "2017-12-03T20:43:52Z")

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> [@Morgenstern](#):
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> I’ll be fine, thank you for your concern.
> 
> It just seems a little strange that someone who has been here but a few weeks wants to participate in the pitting of a long time poster. That sort of looks like a grudge or an agenda. Too much familiarity for someone so new. Strange, wouldn’t you think? But, nonetheless, welcome to the dope.

You mean a troll being concerned about other trolls? :dubious:

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**Author:** ![Morgenstern](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Morgenstern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgenstern)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 8:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/822 "2017-12-03T20:59:06Z")

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> [@madsircool](#):
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> You mean a troll being concerned about other trolls? :dubious:

You’re not one of the smart kids, so I’ll tell you very slowly, sock /= troll.  
You’re accusing him of being a troll. He’s not a troll, at least not yet.

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**Author:** ![mr\_horsepower](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/eb8c5e/32.png) [@mr\_horsepower](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mr_horsepower)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 9:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/823 "2017-12-03T21:03:17Z")

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for what it’s worth, I’ve been coming here daily for a few years now, just never joined.

I’ve read tons of posts of his but, as I’ve only ever clicked on threads made on topics i was interested in, i never read any of his controversial postings or knew of any negative opinions others had of him till reading this thread.

I’d never even clicked on the pit section till after i joined (I’m a general questions & IMHO reader 99.99% of the time).

i think if you look at my few posts in this pit thread you’ll see it’s not like I’m jumping on the dog pile or picking sides so much as just asking questions out of general curiosity and a desire to know how far from or close to reality his claims of success were regarding his online dating.

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**Author:** ![Morgenstern](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Morgenstern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgenstern)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 9:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/824 "2017-12-03T21:10:33Z")

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Well, like I said, welcome to the dope.

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**Author:** ![mr\_horsepower](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/eb8c5e/32.png) [@mr\_horsepower](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mr_horsepower)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 9:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/825 "2017-12-03T21:12:57Z")

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> [@madsircool](#):
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> You mean a troll being concerned about other trolls? :dubious:

wtf?

if I’m not ‘allowed’ to be here and ask questions and possibly, hopefully add to the conversation, then they should have a post count restriction.

until such time or unless yours is the commonly accepted thoughts on the issue by at least some majority here then you can stop it with your unfounded accusations.

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**Author:** ![mr\_horsepower](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/eb8c5e/32.png) [@mr\_horsepower](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mr_horsepower)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 9:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/826 "2017-12-03T21:14:34Z")

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> [@Morgenstern](#):
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> Well, like I said, welcome to the dope.

thank you. i appreciate that.

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**Author:** ![Morgenstern](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Morgenstern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgenstern)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 9:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/827 "2017-12-03T21:16:19Z")

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Just ignore **madsircool** , he’s the village idiot here.

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**Author:** ![bobkitty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c67d28/32.png) [@bobkitty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bobkitty)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 10:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/828 "2017-12-03T22:21:08Z")

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> [@The\_Tooth](#):
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> Yeah? For or against?

I guess it depends on if you were one of the folks he sexually assaulted, circle-jerked with, or took revenge on for not calling when you said you would. 😉

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**Author:** ![Guest-starring\_Id](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guest-starring_id/32/21736_2.png) [@Guest-starring\_Id](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guest-starring_Id)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 11:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/829 "2017-12-03T23:02:21Z")

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I dunno, call me nitpicky, maybe…

> [@mr\_horsepower](#):
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> …for what it’s worth, I’ve been coming here daily for a few years now, just never joined.

> [@mr\_horsepower](#):
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> that another members name. are you asking if we’re the same person?
> 
> nope
> 
> - I’m not familiar with them. what made you ask that?

Kinda surprising you’ve been here for a few years but were unaware of Okrahoma.

> [@Shagnasty](#):
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> I do have the problem as seeing other people as objects just to get what I want except when I like them…

I don’t think he’s lying, here. Sounds a little on the childish side.

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**Author:** ![Emiliana](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/f0a364/32.png) [@Emiliana](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Emiliana)\
**Post date:** [December 3, 2017, 11:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/830 "2017-12-03T23:34:26Z")

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I have remained blissfully unaware of Okrahoma.

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**Author:** ![Maserschmidt](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/maserschmidt/32/18829_2.png) [@Maserschmidt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Maserschmidt)\
**Post date:** [December 4, 2017, 12:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/831 "2017-12-04T00:08:17Z")

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> [@Morgenstern](#):
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> I’ll be fine, thank you for your concern.
> 
> It just seems a little strange that someone who has been here but a few weeks wants to participate in the pitting of a long time poster. That sort of looks like a grudge or an agenda. Too much familiarity for someone so new. Strange, wouldn’t you think? But, nonetheless, welcome to the dope.

Certainly he seems highly participative for someone unfamiliar with social media and new to posting, but as long as he’s not claiming to be a Scotswoman who was paralyzed in a snowboarding accident at age 14, I’m inclined to give him some space.

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**Author:** ![Nawth\_Chucka](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c57346/32.png) [@Nawth\_Chucka](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nawth_Chucka)\
**Post date:** [December 4, 2017, 1:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/832 "2017-12-04T01:10:10Z")

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> [@Maserschmidt](#):
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> Certainly he seems highly participative for someone unfamiliar with social media and new to posting, but as long as he’s not claiming to be a Scotswoman who was paralyzed in a snowboarding accident at age 14, I’m inclined to give him some space.

That’s our bar. It’s high, sure, but so are our standards. 😃

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**Author:** ![Penfeather](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/penfeather/32/384_2.png) [@Penfeather](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Penfeather)\
**Post date:** [December 4, 2017, 1:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/833 "2017-12-04T01:28:48Z")

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> [@The\_Tooth](#):
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> Yeah? For or against?

“Why are all those people outside the ward chanting ‘Pull the plug’?”

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**Author:** ![mr\_horsepower](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/eb8c5e/32.png) [@mr\_horsepower](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mr_horsepower)\
**Post date:** [December 4, 2017, 2:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/834 "2017-12-04T02:37:01Z")

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> [@Guest-starring\_Id](#):
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> I dunno, call me nitpicky, maybe…
> 
> > [@mr\_horsepower](#):
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> > that another members name. are you asking if we’re the same person?
> > 
> > nope
> > 
> > - I’m not familiar with them. what made you ask that?
> 
> Kinda surprising you’ve been here for a few years but were unaware of Okrahoma

it should have said -

that’S another members name.

and i didn’t say i was unaware of him/her, i said i wasn’t familiar with them.

from looking thru (what I’m going to assume is a him) his past postings today, given the areas he posted in & the topics within those areas, it makes perfect sense why i wasn’t familiar with him.

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**Author:** ![Missy2U](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/3bc359/32.png) [@Missy2U](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Missy2U)\
**Post date:** [December 4, 2017, 3:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/835 "2017-12-04T03:53:36Z")

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> [@Shagnasty](#):
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> You missed the key point. Those aren’t just women, they are dates and lots of them will will screw you and not in a good way. I love women in general including mothers, daughters, grandmothers and aunts plus lots more. This is where people are going wrong.
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> -snip-

No dear, YOU missed the point. Here - I will explain again. Women are genetically assigned human beings. ALL Human beings are inherently imperfect. They therefore can’t be classified as anything other than another human being. The only traits they ALL share is that they are all unique, thus share NO commonality than that of genetically classified Human Being. Hence, they cannot be labeled “good” or “bad”. There are too many variables. Ergo, your comments regarding “women”, whether they are family or just “dates”, indicates to the person listening that you dislike women as genetically assigned human beings, and they aren’t worthy of respect. Your backpedaling comments and explanations after the fact don’t do ANYTHING to disabuse that notion to the listener. In my opinion of course. :rolleyes:

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [December 4, 2017, 4:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/836 "2017-12-04T04:56:26Z")

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That’s alot of fine words that say one thing, He’s a Pig.

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**Author:** ![Shagnasty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9dc877/32.png) [@Shagnasty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shagnasty)\
**Post date:** [December 4, 2017, 5:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/837 "2017-12-04T05:19:23Z")

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> [@Missy2U](#):
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> There are too many variables. Ergo, your comments regarding “women”, whether they are family or just “dates”, indicates to the person listening that you dislike women as genetically assigned human beings, and they aren’t worthy of respect. Your backpedaling comments and explanations after the fact don’t do ANYTHING to disabuse that notion to the listener. In my opinion of course. :rolleyes:

None of that is true. What people are missing is that I don’t treat daughters, my mother, female friends or coworkers the same way that I treat dates. Nobody does that because it context dependent and completely different roles. It is a dumb argument. I took care of my daughters all day and then went straight to a date and we both had a great time. We made out at the end and there is no issue with that. Reverse those scenarios and you have a huge problem. I have no idea why people can’t understand this simple concept.

I love women in many different ways. The point where you can get into trouble is when you cross different roles. Men need to understand that as well. Women like romance and sex too. It just needs to be in the right context. The current PC argument seems to suggest not to hit on women at all but that is clearly not nuanced enough.

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**Author:** ![Morgenstern](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Morgenstern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgenstern)\
**Post date:** [December 4, 2017, 5:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/838 "2017-12-04T05:41:44Z")

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> [@Shagnasty](#):
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> … Women like romance and sex too. …

I would really love to hear your take on that.

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**Author:** ![raventhief](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/raventhief/32/4_2.png) [@raventhief](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/raventhief)\
**Post date:** [December 4, 2017, 5:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/839 "2017-12-04T05:49:21Z")

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> [@Shagnasty](#):
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> None of that is true. What people are missing is that I don’t treat daughters, my mother, female friends or coworkers the same way that I treat dates. Nobody does that because it context dependent and completely different roles. It is a dumb argument. I took care of my daughters all day and then went straight to a date and we both had a great time. We made out at the end and there is no issue with that. Reverse those scenarios and you have a huge problem. I have no idea why people can’t understand this simple concept.
> 
> I love women in many different ways. The point where you can get into trouble is when you cross different roles. Men need to understand that as well. Women like romance and sex too. It just needs to be in the right context. The current PC argument seems to suggest not to hit on women at all but that is clearly not nuanced enough.

Everything you say seems to indicate that you view women as things. Maybe things you enjoy, maybe things you resent, but always things. Maybe you view men the same way, i don’t know.

This is not the viewpoint of someone who " loves women."

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**Author:** ![Guest-starring\_Id](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guest-starring_id/32/21736_2.png) [@Guest-starring\_Id](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guest-starring_Id)\
**Post date:** [December 4, 2017, 6:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shagnasty-is-a-misogynistic-prick/801661/840 "2017-12-04T06:15:04Z")

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> [@Shagnasty](#):
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> We made out…

Ok that is _so_ hot.

Didja get to 2nd? 3rd?\*

Any non-pc slurs on her part?

\*ETA: Or as Art Garfunkel in _Carnal Knowledge_ annoying put it, ad nauseum: “And?..AND?..”

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