# Shoes and gender: a poll

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [June 8, 2011, 12:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728 "2011-06-08T12:56:11Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Jonathan\_Chance](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jonathan_chance/32/701_2.png) [@Jonathan\_Chance](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jonathan_Chance)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 7:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/81 "2011-06-08T19:44:28Z")

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Male, 3. One more than normal right now.

1. Walking shoes.
2. Boat shoes just purchased for being at the beach (we moved to Charleston, SC)
3. Sunday go-to-meeting

Usually it’s just 1 and 3.

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**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 8:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/82 "2011-06-08T20:17:07Z")

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I can’t fathom not having at least 10 pairs of shoes lying around.

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**Author:** ![Lasciel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e79b87/32.png) [@Lasciel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lasciel)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 8:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/83 "2011-06-08T20:23:21Z")

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Female

Somewhere between 25 and 40 pairs, of which I wear about 12 pairs regularly. That also includes activity/specific workout and dance shoes, seasonal variations (mostly switching boots for sandals), and the pair each of birks&workshoes stashed in each car and in the mudroom.

For the rest, my husband has a shoe fetish, I don’t. I also work a job where I’m walking on thin carpet over concrete all day. So I have a lot of really nice shoes that I only wear on “date nights.”

If it were up to me, I’d be somewhere in the 10-15 pair range. I held steady there all through school and single professional life, and if I weren’t wearing shoes for him sometimes, I would probably still be there now.

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**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 8:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/84 "2011-06-08T20:54:00Z")

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I’m a 45 year old female and have over 200 pairs. I am a dance instructor, so if you count all of my tap, ballet, pointe shoes, etc, well, I have over 300. But please let me explain that I have very small feet, a womens size 4, (a size 2 in girls when I can buy kids shoes), and it is very difficult to find shoes in this size. I am also only 5’ tall, and I like to wear heels on the higher side, VERY hard to come by in my size.There are some that I have had for over 20 years, and that I still wear. I take care of every pair I have knowing they cannot be replaced very easily. I can find my size at some of the more expensive department stores and specialty shops, but I find it hard to justify paying hundreds of dollars for a single pair of shoes. Honestly, I’m not a shoe hoarder, more like a shoe collector.

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**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 9:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/85 "2011-06-08T21:03:13Z")

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Male, three; two regular pairs and a pair of boots. Four if you count slippers.

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**Author:** ![Khadaji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Khadaji](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khadaji)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 9:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/86 "2011-06-08T21:05:46Z")

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Own or actively wear? I had a period where I was trying to run and I was always injuring my achilles’ tendon - I have several pairs of running shoes, trying to correct the problem.

But I actively wear one pair of casual shoes and one pair of dress shoes. The dress shoes get worn much less often now that I work from home.

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**Author:** ![Silophant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a698b9/32.png) [@Silophant](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silophant)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 9:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/87 "2011-06-08T21:10:34Z")

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Male: 10 pair.

1 pair red Chuck Taylors  
1 pair green Chucks  
1 pair maroon Chucks  
1 pair blackout Chucks (All black, including laces and toes, etc.)  
2 pairs dress shoes  
1 pair snowboard boots  
1 pair hiking boots  
1 pair sandals  
1 pair costume boots (Link costume)

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**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 9:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/88 "2011-06-08T21:23:34Z")

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1. Male

2. Seven:

- Proper running shoes for actual running
- Cheap sneakers
- Baseball shoes
- Black dress shoes
- Brown dress shoes
- Brown casual shoes
- Steel toed work shoes

I also have a pair of winter boots, but are those “shoes”?

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**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 10:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/89 "2011-06-08T22:07:29Z")

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Male: 5 or 6 that I could still wear. I have some faux crocks, some stylish (in the Ryan Styles way) slip on shoes, a pair of sneakers (aka tennis shoes), and two pairs of dress shoes: brown and black, respectively. (I probably need to replace the last three.) I also may have a pair of Sketcher-type shoes I could still wear.

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**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 10:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/90 "2011-06-08T22:09:07Z")

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Male, 3 pairs. A pair of Doc Martins, some running shoes that I hardly ever use, and some sandals if I’m making a quick trip outdoors.

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**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 10:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/91 "2011-06-08T22:47:50Z")

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1. Male

2. 8 (and if you include sandals/thongs, then it’s 10)

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**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 10:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/92 "2011-06-08T22:52:08Z")

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Female.

I haven’t counted, but I would guess between 60 and 75 pairs.

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**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 10:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/93 "2011-06-08T22:53:49Z")

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Do I have to count my curling and bowling shoes?

Seven, if I do. Five, if I don’t. I’m male.

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**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 11:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/94 "2011-06-08T23:24:59Z")

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Male. Uh…seven pairs.

3 pairs of dress shoes for work (one of which I’ve still never worn)  
2 pairs of tennis shoes (one regular, one grubby for around the house stuff)  
1 pair of TENNIS shoes (you know, for actually playing tennis)  
1 pair of bowling shoes (which are, of course, never in the house because they’re in my bowling bag)

Sadly, in my last move, I either lost or inadvertently threw away two other pairs of shoes. A pair of running shoes and a pair of motorcycle riding boots. I’d still be using both if I knew where they were.

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**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 11:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/95 "2011-06-08T23:35:49Z")

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Male. 4.

1 pair of dress shoes (black)  
1 pair of tennis shoes (only worn for playing tennis)  
1 pair of hiking shoes (pretty much never wear these)  
1 pair of trail running shoes (wear these most of the time)

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**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 11:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/96 "2011-06-08T23:41:43Z")

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Serious question: why do so many keep qualifying answers with “+ # if you count (blank) shoe”? Or “if you add these shoes I never wear”? I thought the question was fairly straightforward. Am I missing some subtext?

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**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 11:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/97 "2011-06-08T23:45:55Z")

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Male. I think I threw out my old sneakers because they were falling apart and didn’t replace them. I have one pair of shoes I wear everyday, one pair of flip-flops, one pair of dress shoes, and one pair of steel-toes boots. I’m starting a new job on Monday. I’ll use my first paycheck to buy a new pair of sneakers.

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**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 11:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/98 "2011-06-08T23:45:58Z")

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> [@Zsofia](#):
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> Female… er, at least 20. Probably more like 40. I don’t know how it happens - I actually wear, like, three on a regular basis.

Ditto, but I really have about 20. I wear two regularly, four often, in addition to my weekend/home shoes.

But I rotate through them.

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**Post date:** [June 9, 2011, 12:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/99 "2011-06-09T00:36:00Z")

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Hm. :: counts on fingers ::

Somewhere between 8 and 10, maybe. I have several pairs that I bought in a fit of madness and haven’t worn in years. I don’t know what it is about shoes - I make the same damn mistake every time (buy pretty shoes that are too uncomfortable to wear for more than 10 minutes at a time).

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**Post date:** [June 9, 2011, 12:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/shoes-and-gender-a-poll/584728/100 "2011-06-09T00:56:00Z")

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Female, and FWIW I hate buying shoes.

I have 12 pairs total, but I’ve only worn half that many within the past three years or so. They are:

2 pairs work shoes (same style, one pair black and one pair brown)  
1 pair walking shoes that look nice enough for work  
1 pair Keds, for summer  
1 pair Doc Marten boots, for winter and wet weather  
1 pair flip flops, for around the house

In storage boxes in the bottom of my closet are:

2 pairs fancier work shoes from when I worked in a more formal environment (one pair black and one pair brown)  
1 pair dress flats  
1 pair dress heels  
1 pair good sneakers  
1 pair really beat-up nasty old sneakers that I should probably get rid of

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