No but they do keep referring to a pregnant woman as a ‘mother’ regardless of whether or not she actually has any children. If they’re going to use the term ‘mother’ for a pregnant woman, I’m going to use the term ‘anti-choice’ for someone who doesn’t believe my reproductive decisons are up to me.
So someone who doesn’t know me and wants to make a blanket prohibition of abortion because the ‘vast majority’ of pregnancies are not life threatening isn’t ignoring the well-being of pregnant women? The point of ignorance in making a law that prohibits abortion is that there is no room for someone like me under that law. If I stop taking my medicine, my immune system attacks every part of my body, and I begin to have difficulty breathing when my lungs swell up. There’s not a doctor I’ve spoken to who can predict whether or not my immune system would attack the fetus itself. But because ‘most’ pregnancies don’t cause those risks:
The problem I see with this is that this is something that would be traumatic enough for me without having to go to a judge and prove that significant risk to my life exists. It opens up what is a very painful and very personal medical condition to public scrutiny that, quite frankly, there’s no good reason for. There’s no reason to be in my doctor’s office with cops and lawyers and judges to decide if my reasons are good enough. It’s the kind of thing that makes me feel trapped and desperate, and I’d venture I’m not the only woman in the world who’d feel that way if she had to go get a court order to have her doctor help her. Where’s the acknolwedgement of that devestation? There’s no regard here for what it would do to someone who had to air their whole life in front of a judge to appease your moral belief.
Then they need to leave those decisions to the person who’s most familiar with the concerns, the pregnant woman. By the way, is it really necessary to use the emotionally charged term ‘mother’?
Again, what qualifies you to say that the life of a fetus supercedes my concerns? You cannot possibly ever know a stranger’s situation well enough to make that determination. That’s why it has to remain a personal decision.
And I should have to drag something like that out in public so that you can decide, or some legislator in a suit can decide, that my reason is good enough not to have objections?
Sorry, but no. That’s not an intrusion that’s justified, and it’s not something I’d inflict on someone else. I wouldn’t subject someone to the social stigma of being ‘That woman with the mental problems who went to a judge and got him to let her kill a baby’. Do you understand that something like that could very easily do a lot more harm than good?
And if the truly improbable happens and my birth control fails, why should I not have an option? Or would you just look at me and assume I was lazy and uninformed or just too irresponsible to use birth control?
It isn’t you who’d have to live with (or die with) the outcome if I got pregnant because my birth control failed, so please understand that where your balance tips doesn’t matter much to me.
There is no mother involved because until birth, there is no baby.