# Should Alan Grayson apologize for his "die quickly" remarks?

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-alan-grayson-apologize-for-his-die-quickly-remarks/512211
**Category:** Great Debates
**Created:** [October 1, 2009, 5:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-alan-grayson-apologize-for-his-die-quickly-remarks/512211 "2009-10-01T05:11:57Z")
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### Author: ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)
#### Post date: [October 28, 2009, 6:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-alan-grayson-apologize-for-his-die-quickly-remarks/512211/241 "2009-10-28T18:02:29Z")

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> [@Ravenman](#):
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> I’m referring to the pattern of the stupid comments referred to in the OP (and the subsequent non-apology) as well as the “whore” thing. I’d count that as two and a half incidents making a pattern.

The non-apology counts as an incident? There’s no “pattern” here, whether or not we’re accounting for fractional incidents.

Come on, man. That dog not only won’t hunt, it can’t smell its own ass.

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### Author: ![Ravenman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ravenman/32/2929_2.png) [@Ravenman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ravenman)
#### Post date: [October 28, 2009, 6:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-alan-grayson-apologize-for-his-die-quickly-remarks/512211/242 "2009-10-28T18:12:23Z")

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> [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](#):
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> The non-apology counts as an incident? There’s no “pattern” here, whether or not we’re accounting for fractional incidents.
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> Come on, man. That dog not only won’t hunt, it can’t smell its own ass.

And the ass smells like Grayson.

You count incidents your way, I’ll count them mine. I think guys like this don’t stop being obnoxious, and I’m sure we’ll hear more from him.

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### Author: ![Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e99b99/32.png) [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Diogenes_the_Cynic)
#### Post date: [October 28, 2009, 6:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-alan-grayson-apologize-for-his-die-quickly-remarks/512211/243 "2009-10-28T18:12:56Z")

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> [@Ravenman](#):
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> Point well taken.
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> I’m referring to the pattern of the stupid comments referred to in the OP (and the subsequent non-apology) as well as the “whore” thing. I’d count that as two and a half incidents making a pattern.

There is no pattern of “stupid remarks” referred to in the OP. What are you talking about?

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### Author: ![jayjay](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jayjay/32/6765_2.png) [@jayjay](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jayjay)
#### Post date: [October 28, 2009, 6:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-alan-grayson-apologize-for-his-die-quickly-remarks/512211/244 "2009-10-28T18:16:58Z")

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> [@Ravenman](#):
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> I further bet that I’ll think it is offensive and in poor taste, and you won’t.

Don’t clutch your pearls too hard, Elma. Wouldn’t want you to injure yourself in your moment of shock.

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### Author: ![Ravenman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ravenman/32/2929_2.png) [@Ravenman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ravenman)
#### Post date: [October 28, 2009, 6:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-alan-grayson-apologize-for-his-die-quickly-remarks/512211/245 "2009-10-28T18:42:49Z")

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> [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](#):
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> There is no pattern of “stupid remarks” referred to in the OP. What are you talking about?

Are you being obtuse? This thread started out with a debate about Grayson’s health care comments and whether they were stupid.

I’ll type this very slowly so I don’t have to do it again:

1. “Die quickly” was a stupid, offensive remark.
2. Reference to a health care holocaust, or however it was phrased, was in poor taste.
3. Calling an employee of the Federal Reserve (and a former Assistant Secretary of the Treasury under Clinton) a “K Street whore” was very offensive.
4. All of these comments were made in about a month’s time, more or less. I say that’s a pattern of saying stupid, offensive things.

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### Author: ![Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e99b99/32.png) [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Diogenes_the_Cynic)
#### Post date: [October 28, 2009, 6:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-alan-grayson-apologize-for-his-die-quickly-remarks/512211/246 "2009-10-28T18:46:39Z")

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I can’t see anything stupid or offensive about any of them. Sorry.

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### Author: ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)
#### Post date: [October 28, 2009, 6:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-alan-grayson-apologize-for-his-die-quickly-remarks/512211/247 "2009-10-28T18:46:50Z")

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In what way was “die quickly” stupid or offensive?

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### Author: ![Sinaptics](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@Sinaptics](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sinaptics)
#### Post date: [October 28, 2009, 6:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-alan-grayson-apologize-for-his-die-quickly-remarks/512211/248 "2009-10-28T18:58:09Z")

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I love the guy. Yes, he’s obnoxious. Yes, he’s blunt. However, I think the progressives definately needed an attack dog like him.

Exactly how much have you heard from the Repubs since he nailed them for their obstructionism by telling it like it is and saying every day you stall, 128 people die? Either shit or get off the pot. He just said it in a way that it made the news and (hopefully) woke a lot of people up to that statistic (leaving aside how accurate or not it may be).

I feel the same way about the WH v. Fox fight. Since they’ve been getting called out in a way that it makes it to the top news, how much have you heard about Tea Parties? Rush? Nada. They’ve been more careful of their step because everyone is looking.

For example, see the story about Shep Smith apologizing for a lack of balance:  
[http://gawker.com/5391200/shep-smith-apologizes-for-fox-news-lack-of-balance](http://gawker.com/5391200/shep-smith-apologizes-for-fox-news-lack-of-balance)

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### Author: ![Ravenman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ravenman/32/2929_2.png) [@Ravenman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ravenman)
#### Post date: [October 28, 2009, 7:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-alan-grayson-apologize-for-his-die-quickly-remarks/512211/249 "2009-10-28T19:00:38Z")

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> [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](#):
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> In what way was “die quickly” stupid or offensive?

We’ve already beaten that horse to death. I’m not going to retype all the points I made in pages 1 through 4 of this thread. Go back and read them if you’d like.

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### Author: ![gonzomax](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e8c25b/32.png) [@gonzomax](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gonzomax)
#### Post date: [November 5, 2009, 11:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-alan-grayson-apologize-for-his-die-quickly-remarks/512211/250 "2009-11-05T23:05:14Z")

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[Alan Grayson Reads Number Of Dead In Republican Districts (VIDEO) | HuffPost Latest News](http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/11/05/alan-grayson-reads-names_n_346745.html) Today Grayson the number of persons who he says died due to a lack of medical care in each republican district. I don’t think he is going to apologize.

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### Author: ![Chronos](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chronos/32/134_2.png) [@Chronos](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chronos)
#### Post date: [November 5, 2009, 11:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-alan-grayson-apologize-for-his-die-quickly-remarks/512211/251 "2009-11-05T23:30:50Z")

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OK, I’m just waiting to see what the Republican response to that one is going to be. Frankly, I can’t see how they can avoid pissing off their constituents over this one. Good job, Al!

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### Author: ![Lightnin](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lightnin/32/180_2.png) [@Lightnin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lightnin)
#### Post date: [November 6, 2009, 12:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-alan-grayson-apologize-for-his-die-quickly-remarks/512211/252 "2009-11-06T00:36:21Z")

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> [@Chronos](#):
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> OK, I’m just waiting to see what the Republican response to that one is going to be. Frankly, I can’t see how they can avoid pissing off their constituents over this one. Good job, Al!

The article mentions their first response:

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> Rep. Phil Gingrey (R-Ga.) called for the clerk to take down Grayson’s words – leading to an adjournment. But when the House reconvened, Grayson continued naming Republican representatives and the dead in their districts.

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### Author: ![gonzomax](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e8c25b/32.png) [@gonzomax](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gonzomax)
#### Post date: [November 6, 2009, 4:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-alan-grayson-apologize-for-his-die-quickly-remarks/512211/253 "2009-11-06T04:26:10Z")

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My congressmen and women in Michigan,each only have 64 peoples blood on their hands. Does that mean we win? It is only like a bus full of people blowing up.

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