Should homophobia get more moderator attention?

What you claim “she did” was " tried to rule out any reference to" there being two moms.

That’s why, when kanicbird wrote

tapu responded with anger at the reference to both moms, and most definitely did NOT respond with:

Note that this is just one of several examples where she clearly does NOT try to rule out reference to his two moms. What, pray tell, makes these references different?