# Should I get him back or just let it go? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [November 19, 2011, 10:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-i-get-him-back-or-just-let-it-go/603490 "2011-11-19T22:01:38Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 47
**Author:** ![Freudian\_Slit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/5daacb/32.png) [@Freudian\_Slit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Freudian_Slit)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2011, 5:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-i-get-him-back-or-just-let-it-go/603490/47 "2011-11-21T05:19:55Z")
Just read this thread by the same OP: > [@Visiting someone in the hospital?](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/visiting-someone-in-the-hospital/603595/1): > > I have a question: today an acquaintance got in a really bad car wreck, their car is totaled & they are in the hospital. Although, I am not really cool with this person, I still feel really bad and feel obligated to go and visit them…problem is if I go I would have to spend a good couple of minutes there and there’s not really much me and this person have to talk about(besides the accident)…so it would feel extremely awkward if I decide to go. Would it look really bad if I don’t go? Or should I just send something to let her know that I thought of her? OK, it’s a woman, but between her not being cool with the acquaintance and this thread, I wondered if she had second plans on not taking revenge… --- _[View the full topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-i-get-him-back-or-just-let-it-go/603490)._