Should Mom-and-Pops That Forgo Gay Weddings Be Destroyed?

It truly baffles me why any same-sex couple would WANT someone who opposes same-sex marriage to cater to their wedding. Why would they freely choose to give money to people who will quite possibly use that money to fight against same-sex marriage? Why would they freely choose to create a situation where every memory of their wedding has to include a memory of homophobic caterers? I think it’s rather ridiculous to condemn something as “discrimination” when the only possible way to suffer said discrimination is to go out of your way to be discriminated.