We are home 24/7 with rare exceptions - so while we’re not in the birds’ faces socializing them whether they like it or not, they definitely get a lot of verbal interaction and attention. My son is spending a lot of time with Rio, whistling back and forth, and we’ve started clicker training - though just ( the clicker arrived late yesterday).
Which turns out to have been fortunate. He’s still terrified of us, and will NOT approach my hand for food, and freaks if I get too close - but if he sees me put a treat in a specific spot, he will go for it as soon as I back off. So we’ve started using the clicker when I do that, to start building that association.
And some time last night, he managed to escape from his cage. My husband went downstairs in the morning and found Rick and Morty (the budgies - who are both female contrary to what I’d been told, but I use male pronouns out of habit) hanging on their play tree - alongside Rio.
We’ll want to swap out Rio’s cage - there’s a door at the top that is held closed by a swinging metal disk - and he apparently managed to open that during the night. The other cage we have does not have a removable base (which is only an issue if we ever need to transport him somewhere) and has much more secure doors.
Anyway - I tried clicking, and holding a slice of apple toward him on the tree, and even though I didn’t get all that close, he freaked. So I put the slice in the usual spot in his cage, and clicked, and he made it over there shortly as evidenced by the slightly-gnawed apple slice I found on the floor an hour later.
We’ll need to figure out what other things are “high value” treats for him, and train him to go back to the cage for them - apples are inconvenient for that usage. The plan has always been to allow him to fly in the house (like the budgies) but since I get the impression he’s more venturesome than R&M, we really need a way to coax him back to the cage at night.
As with Broomstick: for other potential owners: Absolutely you need to consider the best way to socialize the bird, and if you cannot commit to that, don’t get one! We initially got just one budgie, but I was working in that same room of the house, so he had near-constant company, and actually got pretty acclimated to me though it took months before he voluntarily approached me. He never did really bond that well to me, and I needed to start working in a different part of the house, so we got a second one. They’re still in the thick of things - family room and kitchen are all one big open space, so they see a lot of us. i debated bringing Rio up to my office (my daughter’s bedroom) so he’d have constant company - but that only works for work days. If he ever bonds well to me to the point where I can transport him up and down the stairs, I might try that in the future.