# Should we have a QueerDope? **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [April 25, 2002, 2:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483 "2002-04-25T02:31:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![iampunha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/74df32/32.png) [@iampunha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/iampunha)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 11:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/21 "2002-04-25T11:27:34Z")
Crap. the 4th is not a good day for me:( NYC Renfaire is the day before, and I’ll be driving to _that_. I don’t especially fancy driving alllllll the way to Montreal when I’m already exhausted. And I don’t think flying will be an option:( [sub]Damnit. Damnit damnit DAMNIT.[/sub] ---
**Author:** ![scott\_evil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@scott\_evil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scott_evil)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 1:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/22 "2002-04-25T13:15:09Z")
I volunteer to host the orgy. I shall cater the canapés, mix the music, get the grass, and provide the poppers. I’ll also do cool things with coloured lighting. Plus I have Barry White’s greatest hits on CD… 😉 Who’s in? 😃 - s.e. ---
**Author:** ![scott\_evil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@scott\_evil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scott_evil)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 1:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/23 "2002-04-25T13:17:42Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by happyheathen \* > \*\*ONE??!!! > > One single, miserable song? > \*\* Umm… there are a ton in French. I can think of “Montréal est une femme,” (“Un peu New-York, un peu Paris…”) “Je retournerai à Montréal,” and basically everything the group Beau Dommage ever released… 😉 - s.e. ---
**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 2:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/24 "2002-04-25T14:05:13Z")
K, maybe another date would be more optimum. Maybe in September? That’s the gay & lesbian film festival. ---
**Author:** ![scott\_evil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@scott\_evil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scott_evil)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 2:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/25 "2002-04-25T14:16:42Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by matt\_mcl \* > \*\*K, maybe another date would be more optimum. Maybe in September? That’s the gay & lesbian film festival. \*\* That doesn’t preclude having a big ol’ orgy on Pride weekend… - s.e. ---
**Author:** ![ChoosyChipsAndCeilingWhacks](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c77e96/32.png) [@ChoosyChipsAndCeilingWhacks](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ChoosyChipsAndCeilingWhacks)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 2:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/26 "2002-04-25T14:24:51Z")
Hey, how queer do you have to be to come to the party? Can you be a fence sitter? One of those people who doesn’t care which gender the lovin’ comes from? Because I’m not strictly queer, but I do think I’d make a GREAT orgy participant. And what about people who are just…you know…supportive. Why should they miss the orgy? You know where you should have it? Provincetown on Cape Cod. I went there last weekend. Every house has a rainbow flag flying from it. I counted the number of male/female couples on one hand (four) and that’s including me and a boyfriend. And one of US (ahem) isn’t strictly hetero. So I’m not sure we counted. It’s a great place…lots of nifty clubs and trouble to get into. L ---
**Author:** ![scott\_evil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@scott\_evil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scott_evil)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 2:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/27 "2002-04-25T14:26:58Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by SexyWriter \* > **Hey, how queer do you have to be to come to the party? Can you be a fence sitter? One of those people who doesn’t care which gender the lovin’ comes from? Because I’m not strictly queer, but I do think I’d make a GREAT orgy participant.** Do cum. 🙂 I’m also a great orgy participant… ah, the memories… 😃 - s.e. ---
**Author:** ![Helen\_s\_Eidolon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/8edcca/32.png) [@Helen\_s\_Eidolon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helen_s_Eidolon)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 2:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/28 "2002-04-25T14:35:04Z")
> [@](#): > > Should we have a QueerDope? Only if I’m allowed to come anyway! ---
**Author:** ![ChoosyChipsAndCeilingWhacks](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c77e96/32.png) [@ChoosyChipsAndCeilingWhacks](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ChoosyChipsAndCeilingWhacks)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 2:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/29 "2002-04-25T14:36:23Z")
Oh good! I feel so honored to be invited. I like to watch. So maybe I can be the cheerleader or something. Oh! Or the…oh, nevermind…too perverted. L ---
**Author:** ![scott\_evil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@scott\_evil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scott_evil)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 2:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/30 "2002-04-25T14:38:32Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by LaurAnge \* > \*\* > Only if I’m allowed to come anyway! \*\* Will you be bringing your BF to the orgy? 😉 - s.e. ---
**Author:** ![Eonwe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eonwe/32/240_2.png) [@Eonwe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eonwe)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 2:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/31 "2002-04-25T14:51:15Z")
How 'bout a token cute straight guy that you all can lust over, but will be off limits… mostly;) I can mix drinks or walk around with trays of hours d’ouvers (oh, I’m so sure I butchered that spelling) or just stand around looking sexy and aloof. ---
**Author:** ![pbrtallboy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f475e1/32.png) [@pbrtallboy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pbrtallboy)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 2:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/32 "2002-04-25T14:54:14Z")
Obviously, I’ll be there so’s I can consummate my online crush on Scott Evil. Did someone say poppers? ---
**Author:** ![scott\_evil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@scott\_evil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scott_evil)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 2:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/33 "2002-04-25T14:56:02Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by pbrtallboy \* > \*\*Obviously, I’ll be there so’s I can consummate my online crush on Scott Evil. Did someone say poppers? \*\* Yup. Poppers. Poppers all around. Just don’t snort them like Edina did… 😉 - s.e. ---
**Author:** ![Helen\_s\_Eidolon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/8edcca/32.png) [@Helen\_s\_Eidolon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helen_s_Eidolon)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 2:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/34 "2002-04-25T14:56:59Z")
Well, maybe I’ll skip the orgy, but count me in for the rest 😉 ---
**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 3:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/35 "2002-04-25T15:01:45Z")
Yes, we recall how much you liked the Giant Dancing Vagina last time. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![scott\_evil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@scott\_evil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scott_evil)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 3:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/36 "2002-04-25T15:02:37Z")
We can always organize a going-away orgy for **matt\_mcl** before he goes off to do Spain. 😃 - s.e. ---
**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 4:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/37 "2002-04-25T16:29:44Z")
Oo, thatd be fun! I’ll be leaving around 1 July. ---
**Author:** ![scott\_evil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@scott\_evil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scott_evil)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 4:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/38 "2002-04-25T16:33:51Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by matt\_mcl \* > \*\*Oo, thatd be fun! I’ll be leaving around 1 July. \*\* Like I said, sweetie, I’m willing to host it. 🙂 Don’t know if I can get bottom-boy Jimmy to agree, though… - s.e. ---
**Author:** ![andygirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a9adbd/32.png) [@andygirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/andygirl)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 4:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/39 "2002-04-25T16:42:19Z")
Don’t worry, Lauren- I’ve no interest in those boys and their orgies, so you and I can go drink some herbal tea. ---
**Author:** ![scott\_evil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@scott\_evil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scott_evil)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 5:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/40 "2002-04-25T17:04:09Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by matt\_mcl \* > \*\*Oo, thatd be fun! I’ll be leaving around 1 July. \*\* The timing is perfect - we can have it between my 30th birthday (June 6) and your leaving. I’ll probably be going to Ottawa the weekend of the 14th (either that or my parents will come up the weekend of the 7th - in any case, a reason to clean the place). How about Saturday the 22nd? I think we’re starting to freak the others out, here, sweetie… - s.e. P.S. I love **pbrtallboy**. 😃 [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483.md?page=3)