# Should we have a QueerDope? **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [April 25, 2002, 2:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483 "2002-04-25T02:31:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Kricket](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/f14d63/32.png) [@Kricket](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kricket)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 5:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/41 "2002-04-25T17:35:00Z")
SexyWriter beat me to it. Where do the bi peoples fit in to this? (no pun intended) ---
**Author:** ![tiny\_ham](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a183cd/32.png) [@tiny\_ham](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tiny_ham)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 6:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/42 "2002-04-25T18:06:48Z")
Or straight married women? Should I host my own dopefest for that? ---
**Author:** ![scott\_evil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@scott\_evil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scott_evil)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 6:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/43 "2002-04-25T18:08:56Z")
Shhhh, everyone, I’m trying to plan an orgy. It’s harder than you think (insert joke here). 😉 - s.e. ---
**Author:** ![seawitch](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a587f6/32.png) [@seawitch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/seawitch)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 7:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/44 "2002-04-25T19:35:45Z")
I understand that it is poor form to adopt another’s lifestyle just for thrills. Y’all make it awfully tempting, though. I can’t wait to read the post-Dope report. ---
**Author:** ![Patty\_O\_Furniture](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/96bed5/32.png) [@Patty\_O\_Furniture](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Patty_O_Furniture)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 7:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/45 "2002-04-25T19:37:52Z")
I’m there. ---
**Author:** ![pbrtallboy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f475e1/32.png) [@pbrtallboy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pbrtallboy)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 8:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/46 "2002-04-25T20:37:43Z")
Ah, l’amour. Looks like if I want to see beautiful, historic and queer Montreal, I’ve got a place to crash. Thanks, Scott! Back at ya. 😉 Two things: is bottom-boy Jimmy gonna mind if lay up in your crib and drink up all the kool-aid? And are ya’ll serious about throwing a shindig and hosting a bunch of out-of-towners from the sinister and scary internet? ---
**Author:** ![scott\_evil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@scott\_evil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scott_evil)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 8:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/47 "2002-04-25T20:47:49Z")
[QUOTE] \*Originally posted by pbrtallboy \* Ah, l’amour. Looks like if I want to see beautiful, historic and queer Montreal, I’ve got a place to crash. Thanks, Scott! Back at ya. 😉 You got a place to crash, and more, babe. 🆒 > [@](#): > > Two things: is bottom-boy Jimmy gonna mind if lay up in your crib and drink up all the kool-aid? Jimmy is irrelevant. > [@](#): > > And are ya’ll serious about throwing a shindig and hosting a bunch of out-of-towners from the sinister and scary internet? Ayup. - s.e. ---
**Author:** ![Helen\_s\_Eidolon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/8edcca/32.png) [@Helen\_s\_Eidolon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helen_s_Eidolon)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 9:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/48 "2002-04-25T21:06:49Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by andygirl \* > \*\*Don’t worry, Lauren- I’ve no interest in those boys and their orgies, so you and I can go drink some herbal tea. \*\* Yay! Now I just better make sure I don’t leave my boyfriend in the orgy room… I’m sure he’d never be the same again! ---
**Author:** ![scott\_evil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@scott\_evil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scott_evil)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 9:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/49 "2002-04-25T21:17:10Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by LaurAnge \* > \*\* > Yay! Now I just better make sure I don’t leave my boyfriend in the orgy room… I’m sure he’d never be the same again! \*\* Not if **matt\_mcl** and I got our hands on him, no. :eek: - s.e. ---
**Author:** ![Mockingbird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c68b51/32.png) [@Mockingbird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 9:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/50 "2002-04-25T21:37:27Z")
If I can attend, I would love to be there… Of course, my husband’s schedule and my movement problems are part of the equation… so unless it would be on the West Coast, it’s iffy at best. ☹ ---
**Author:** ![Daowajan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/3bc359/32.png) [@Daowajan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Daowajan)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 9:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/51 "2002-04-25T21:44:49Z")
Awhhh… this sounds so much fun… Unfortunately - “Yeah Mom and Dad, I’m flying/hitchhiking across the country to hang out at a pride weekend with a bunch of people I know through an internet message board.” 😛 ---
**Author:** ![scott\_evil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@scott\_evil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scott_evil)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2002, 9:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/52 "2002-04-25T21:46:21Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Daowajan \* > \*\*Unfortunately - “Yeah Mom and Dad, I’m flying/hitchhiking across the country to hang out at a pride weekend with a bunch of people I know through an internet message board.” 😛 \*\* “…and attend an orgy with these same people…” 😉 - s.e. ---
**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2002, 12:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/53 "2002-04-26T00:41:03Z")
Done that… ---
**Author:** ![Flamsterette\_X](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/41988e/32.png) [@Flamsterette\_X](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Flamsterette_X)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2002, 2:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/54 "2002-04-26T02:21:10Z")
Sounds like fun, but I don’t think I’ll be attending. (I don’t know if I can go all the way to Montreal by myself… it’s across the country, you know) But I look forward to hearing about it! (but if I do make it, you can leave me out of the orgy; I think I’d rather go drink herbal tea with Lauren and **andygirl** ) If I was going to tell my parents the hypothetical statement that **Daowajan** posted, I’m sure they’d be very horrified! :eek: ---
**Author:** ![Daowajan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/3bc359/32.png) [@Daowajan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Daowajan)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2002, 4:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/55 "2002-04-26T04:01:25Z")
How am I supposed to get away? I’ll be living at home while this is going on. ---
**Author:** ![racinchikki](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/eada6e/32.png) [@racinchikki](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/racinchikki)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2002, 4:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/56 "2002-04-26T04:03:30Z")
I’ll certainly try to go, although it depends on my job situation and how long it actually takes to get to Montréal. I’ll drink tea with andy and Lauren during the orgy, though. And I’ll bring chocolate chip cookies if anyone’s interested. ---
**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2002, 4:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/57 "2002-04-26T04:52:16Z")
Ooo. Racinchip cookies. I’ve heard the legends. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![andygirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a9adbd/32.png) [@andygirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/andygirl)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2002, 5:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/58 "2002-04-26T05:13:31Z")
So the girls will be drinking herbal tea while the boys are having an orgy. Dear God, we ARE the stereotype. ---
**Author:** ![Mockingbird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c68b51/32.png) [@Mockingbird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2002, 5:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/59 "2002-04-26T05:23:20Z")
andy: Depending on how I am feeling that day, I may be joining the lesbian soiree if I am allowed. ---
**Author:** ![Daowajan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/3bc359/32.png) [@Daowajan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Daowajan)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2002, 6:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483/60 "2002-04-26T06:33:45Z")
…Oh. I thought we were going to be “drinking tea” in the strict eighteenth-century female companion sense. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483.md?page=2) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/should-we-have-a-queerdope/105483.md?page=4)