# Sigh, Marley?

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745
**Category:** About This Message Board
**Created:** [May 7, 2013, 10:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745 "2013-05-07T22:05:22Z")
**Posts on this page:** 19
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### Author: ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)
#### Post date: [May 7, 2013, 11:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/21 "2013-05-07T23:39:29Z")

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Um, was the Warning you linked to in the OP changed? Because it’s a direct response to **colander** ’s comment and doesn’t even mention you.

ETA: the moderator doesn’t mention you, I mean. No snark. Honest confusion.

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### Author: ![FinnAgain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/finnagain/32/12500_2.png) [@FinnAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FinnAgain)
#### Post date: [May 7, 2013, 11:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/22 "2013-05-07T23:43:41Z")

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Yah, it was edited. Originally it just mentioned me. Then it mentioned me and Colander. Now just Colander.

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### Author: ![Maserschmidt](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/maserschmidt/32/18829_2.png) [@Maserschmidt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Maserschmidt)
#### Post date: [May 7, 2013, 11:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/23 "2013-05-07T23:55:04Z")

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> [@FinnAgain](#):
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> Yah, it was edited. Originally it just mentioned me. Then it mentioned me and Colander. Now just Colander.

That’s like a Cheshire Cat, that is.

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### Author: ![Senegoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/senegoid/32/6606_2.png) [@Senegoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Senegoid)
#### Post date: [May 8, 2013, 1:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/24 "2013-05-08T01:40:35Z")

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> [@FinnAgain](#):
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> Yah, it was edited. Originally it just mentioned me. Then it mentioned me and Colander. Now just Colander.

Yeah, that had me confused until I read enough of _this_ thread. Marley23 not only revised, then totally reversed his ruling (as I agree it should have been in the first place) – He also used his super-duper moderator powers to re-write history.

It would have been clearer to all if he had expressed his evolving sentiments in one (or several) additional posts, rather than just re-writing the original warning post.

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### Author: ![John\_Mace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_mace/32/185_2.png) [@John\_Mace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Mace)
#### Post date: [May 8, 2013, 1:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/25 "2013-05-08T01:45:46Z")

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> [@Marley23](#):
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> You know what - you’re right. **colander** said you were making an argument because the protestor turns you on, and you criticized her midreading abilities for that reason. You didn’t need to respond to that, but the fault was with **colander** ’s post and you didn’t make the discussion any more personal than she did. I’ll reverse the warning.

Whoa, dude, is that like a total Star Trek “Reverse Polarity” or what…?

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### Author: ![silenus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/silenus/32/166_2.png) [@silenus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/silenus)
#### Post date: [May 8, 2013, 1:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/26 "2013-05-08T01:47:53Z")

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Spock has a goatee!

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### Author: ![FinnAgain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/finnagain/32/12500_2.png) [@FinnAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FinnAgain)
#### Post date: [May 8, 2013, 1:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/27 "2013-05-08T01:58:31Z")

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No no no, the evil copies had beards, and\* this\* Marley is obviously the good one. That means that he’s from the alternate universe and we’re in the… oh… shit… wrong universe. But that does begin to explain a lot.

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### Author: ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)
#### Post date: [May 8, 2013, 2:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/28 "2013-05-08T02:12:53Z")

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> [@FinnAgain](#):
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> No no no, the evil copies had beards, and\* this\* Marley is obviously the good one. That means that he’s from the alternate universe and we’re in the… oh… shit… wrong universe. But that does begin to explain a lot.

The good Marley has a goatee. The evil Marley has a goatee on top of another goatee.

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### Author: ![Rhythmdvl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/85f322/32.png) [@Rhythmdvl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rhythmdvl)
#### Post date: [May 8, 2013, 3:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/29 "2013-05-08T03:42:34Z")

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The Marley with the goatee has the brew that is true …

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### Author: ![bldysabba](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ecccb3/32.png) [@bldysabba](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bldysabba)
#### Post date: [May 8, 2013, 6:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/30 "2013-05-08T06:02:06Z")

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Good call Marley.

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### Author: ![MichaelEmouse](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/michaelemouse/32/101_2.png) [@MichaelEmouse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MichaelEmouse)
#### Post date: [May 8, 2013, 6:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/31 "2013-05-08T06:51:45Z")

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Bravo, FinnAgain. That was a great lesson of mod-jitsu.  
It should be fun for the opponents to look at the proponents’ posts and systematically report infractions to these new, well-intentioned but overly broad rules.

Remember, if you say something about sexual interaction with someone, even some off-board person, who hasn’t communicated that they want that sexual interaction, you’re talking about sexual assault.

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### Author: ![Saint\_Cad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/saint_cad/32/18907_2.png) [@Saint\_Cad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Saint_Cad)
#### Post date: [May 8, 2013, 3:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/32 "2013-05-08T15:04:41Z")

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Maybe I missed it but:  
Did colander break the new rules?  
If so, were they warned for it?

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### Author: ![FinnAgain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/finnagain/32/12500_2.png) [@FinnAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FinnAgain)
#### Post date: [May 8, 2013, 3:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/33 "2013-05-08T15:30:45Z")

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Yes and yes.

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### Author: ![Shodan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9f8e36/32.png) [@Shodan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shodan)
#### Post date: [May 8, 2013, 3:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/34 "2013-05-08T15:31:40Z")

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> [@Saint\_Cad](#):
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> Maybe I missed it but:  
> Did colander break the new rules?  
> If so, were they warned for it?

IANAMod, but yes, and yes, respectively. **colander** made a sexual remark about another Doper. Originally **Marley23** warned **FinnAgain** for making it personal, changed that to warning both, and changed it to only warning **colander**.

Kudoes to **Marley23** \* for his flexibility, IMO.

Regards,  
Shodan

\*Actually I am just sucking up so he doesn’t ban the whole board again. Better safe than sorry.

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### Author: ![Rhythmdvl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/85f322/32.png) [@Rhythmdvl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rhythmdvl)
#### Post date: [May 8, 2013, 3:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/35 "2013-05-08T15:34:08Z")

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nm … wrong.

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### Author: ![Lucas\_Jackson](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lucas_jackson/32/303_2.png) [@Lucas\_Jackson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lucas_Jackson)
#### Post date: [May 8, 2013, 3:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/36 "2013-05-08T15:46:13Z")

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> [@Shodan](#):
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> IANAMod, but yes, and yes, respectively.

I’m pretty sure you have those reversed.  
😃  
Good job, Marley23. Overall I’m finding the moderating on this board to be exemplary.

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### Author: ![Irishman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/b487fb/32.png) [@Irishman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Irishman)
#### Post date: [May 8, 2013, 3:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/37 "2013-05-08T15:51:23Z")

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> [@Senegoid](#):
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> It would have been clearer to all if he had expressed his evolving sentiments in one (or several) additional posts, rather than just re-writing the original warning post.

Apparently nobody reads the comment field at the bottom of posts.

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> \*Last edited by Marley23; Today at 10:20 AM. Reason: originally issued warning to FinnAgain; reversed warning and issued warning to colander \*

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### Author: ![Shodan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9f8e36/32.png) [@Shodan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shodan)
#### Post date: [May 8, 2013, 3:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/38 "2013-05-08T15:51:43Z")

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> [@White SIFL](#):
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> I’m pretty sure you have those reversed.

Damn!

Regards,  
Shodan

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### Author: ![Marley23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Marley23](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Marley23)
#### Post date: [May 8, 2013, 4:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sigh-marley/657745/39 "2013-05-08T16:02:00Z")

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> [@Irishman](#):
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> Apparently nobody reads the comment field at the bottom of posts.
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> \*\*

I did that this morning after I saw some of those posts.

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