This is like Dad being a teacher who gets a paycheck 9 months out of the year. But Dad sets up a budget like he gets that paycheck 12 months of the year, knowing that when he gets to the summer, he’ll have to put expenses on his credit card. His wife pays bills and buys food and clothes and lessons for the kids based on the budget her husband gave her.
Summer rolls around, Dad’s out of money, but instead of breaking out the MasterCard, he lectures his kids about fiscal responsibility and the evilness of debt, then shrugs and lets his family go hungry, the utilities get turned off and the house go into foreclosure.
Yay for him, he doesn’t have any extra debt. He’s also destroyed his credit for the better part of a decade (and is probably, at this point, in the middle of a divorce).
That’s not what it is. It’s like Dad saying we’re going to Disneyland. The family not having the cash but going to Disneyland in any case and using their credit card. And only then saying oops sorry we’re not going to pay off the credit card to the bank.
The point is that they have already decided not to raise taxes and not to cut spending. Those were options but when it gets to the debt ceiling decision and you’ve already rejected them, the only options are raise the ceiling or default. They complain about a decision that they created.