I’ll never “bravo” someone for calling us all stupid. I think the same point could have been made without such unnecessary nastiness, and in fact, would have gotten a better reception.
I understand anamnesis’s point about the Nate/Brenda convo, but I still think he was breaking up with her. Not necessarily for Maggie, but he was severing ties with her in a way that indicated that they did not belong together. In fact, if he knew he was going to die, the conversation seems even worse, though I don’t think that’s what happened. There are too many textual indications that it was, indeed, a break-up convo and that he thought he and Brenda would speak again (WRT Maya, specifically). He says he’s not going to try anymore, that he and Brenda are just “too different.” Classic break up line if there ever was one. Please explain to me how that would relate to him dying. Add that to the fact that, in his coma-dream, he DID break up with her (I think Nate’s coma-dreams were what would have happened had his AVM not ruptured), and that’s my opinion.
I used to love Nate. In Season One, I thought he was the perfect man, honestly. He has fallen very far, whereas I’ve seen the other characters progress and grow towards bettering themselves. As for heaping praise on the other characters, please realize that none of them broke up with their pregnant partners, after cheating, on their death bed. It seems the epitome of the selfish act to leave Brenda at that moment, the worst possible moment whether he died or not. I also specifically stated that my disappointment was with the writers, not with Nate, who isn’t a real person. No, I do not trust TV writers. *The X-Files * cured me of that for good.
Here’s my transcript of the final Nate/Brenda convo. Judge for yourself:
Brenda: I was waiting for you at the church last night when you and Maggie were… talking. I told you to go do what you want. I guess you did.
Nate: I’m sorry. I never wanted it to go this way.
Brenda: Listen, I’ve been up all night, thinking. You’re alive. That’s all that really matters. We’ve been through worse together, I guess, and we’ll get through this too.
Nate: I don’t think so.
Brenda: What?
Nate: Not together.
Brenda: Are you saying what I think you’re saying?
Nate: Yeah.
Brenda: Uh, what about Maya?
Nate: We’ll talk about that. That’s a future conversation.
Brenda: So that’s it? You’re done? We’re not even gonna try?
Nate: We’ve been trying. Both of us, for a long time. Since the beginning. We’re just different, that’s all.
Brenda: Yeah, you’re a narcissist. I don’t even think youre’ capable of committing to anybody or anything, even yourself.
Nate: I’m not gonna fight. I am so tired of fighting.