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And ignoring minor irritations is an important skill to learn in, yanno, life.
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DOING something about them is more important. Especially for males, who have a tendency to “tough” themselves right into the hospital or a grave. Ignoring minor problems is a great way to turn them into major problems.
[QUOTE=andros]
I disagree. The idea that discomfort, pain, and hardship can teach important and valuable lessons is not a strange one, and should be something you’ve encountered before. Surely you should be able to understand the logic underlying the “suffering builds character” argument, even without agreeing with the assumptions involved.
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I understand it, but it doesn’t apply. Plenty of people suffer enough that it ruins their life. They don’t learn much of anything or gain much “character”; they are too busy suffering. Or driven outright insane; what “valuable lesson” is someone learning when they’ve been destroyed as a person ?
[QUOTE=andros]
OTOH, if you truly believe allowing a child to put up with a scrape for a couple hours is an example of poor parenting, maybe I’m wrong about that.
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If you had Bactine or other medical supplies right there as you implies, then yes it’s a bad idea. I was always taught to immediately wash and sterilize wounds, including minor ones.