# SnoopyFan, get in here and explain yourself, please... **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [July 12, 2003, 4:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/snoopyfan-get-in-here-and-explain-yourself-please/187902 "2003-07-12T04:25:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 11
**Author:** ![Violin\_D\_Ingrate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/898d66/32.png) [@Violin\_D\_Ingrate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Violin_D_Ingrate)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2003, 8:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/snoopyfan-get-in-here-and-explain-yourself-please/187902/201 "2003-07-25T20:03:00Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Dewey Cheatem Undhow \* > \*\*I hate the use of the word “worse” there, even though it’s technically grammatically correct – I think it implies some kind of serious shortcoming on the part of gay people, which isn’t what I’m saying at all – no more so than a statement that a wealthier economic environment is best for children implies some kind of serious shortcoming on the less well off. \*\* Dewey, ---
**Author:** ![Violin\_D\_Ingrate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/898d66/32.png) [@Violin\_D\_Ingrate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Violin_D_Ingrate)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2003, 8:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/snoopyfan-get-in-here-and-explain-yourself-please/187902/202 "2003-07-25T20:13:19Z")
sorry about my earlier messed up post > [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Dewey Cheatem Undhow \* > \*\*I hate the use of the word “worse” there, even though it’s technically grammatically correct – I think it implies some kind of serious shortcoming on the part of gay people, which isn’t what I’m saying at all – no more so than a statement that a wealthier economic environment is best for children implies some kind of serious shortcoming on the less well off. \*\* I think this is why you’re coming across as a bigot, **Dewey**. If you say A is better than B (even by a smidge), you are in fact saying B is worse than A. That sounds bigoted when there are SO many more things that make people good parents without regard to their gender or sexuality. Also, I think **matt\_mcl** was looking for you to spell out what the gender differences are, not vague ideas, but specifics like ‘mommies should cook and kiss boo-boos and daddies should play catch’ or whatever it is that you believe. It’s not like saying mommies are better than daddies, but if you have some concrete examples of the differences, it might help people understand your position better. ---
**Author:** ![Dewey\_Cheatem\_Undhow](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/13edae/32.png) [@Dewey\_Cheatem\_Undhow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dewey_Cheatem_Undhow)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2003, 8:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/snoopyfan-get-in-here-and-explain-yourself-please/187902/203 "2003-07-25T20:43:27Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Violin D’Ingrate \* > \*\*I think this is why you’re coming across as a bigot, **Dewey**. If you say A is better than B (even by a smidge), you are in fact saying B is worse than A. That sounds bigoted when there are SO many more things that make people good parents without regard to their gender or sexuality. \*\* I disagree that anything I’ve said here is even mildly bigoted toward homosexuals. As I noted in my second-to-last non-pizza post, I will happily cede that my position could be fairly characterized as mildly sexist. And regarding the rest of your post, I’ll just point you to my last two non-pizza posts, as they encapsulate my thinking on this issue pretty well. And **Tars** : Yes, you got whooshed. My reply to **IzzyR** (“Ah yes, I remember now. My word, he’s almost as evil as, well, _me_.”) should have made clear that he was being sarcastic. Shame on you for resurrecting this clusterfuck of a thread. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/snoopyfan-get-in-here-and-explain-yourself-please/187902.md?page=10)