# So "ammosexual" is a sexually offensive word now? **URL:** \ **Category:** About This Message Board\ **Created:** [April 3, 2022, 4:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176 "2022-04-03T04:24:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Senegoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/senegoid/32/6606_2.png) [@Senegoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Senegoid)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 4:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/1 "2022-04-03T04:24:31Z")
Re: “[12 people, including 3 soldiers, arrested for gun ring which supplied Chicago-area gangs](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/12-people-including-3-soldiers-arrested-for-gun-ring-which-supplied-chicago-area-gangs/962134)” OP writes: “Of course, the ammosexuals are having a field day with this on a local message board.” and gets modded: ". . . this thread will stay closed due to the intentionally offensive sexualized comments in both posts. . . . So “ammosexual” is now sexually offensive? A quick search for posts with that word turns up almost 40 posts, in the Pit, in MPSIMS, in Great Debates, in IMHO, and in Politics and Elections – hardly all just in the Pit. The word is used as a derisive remark toward perceived “gun nuts”, and seems to be well established. I can’t see anything else even remotely “sexualized” in the OP. The second post, from a self-described “ammosexual” and “substitute penis fetishist”, takes umbrage. If I’m not mistaken, we’ve had many posts around here suggesting that “gun nuts” are somehow using their guns as some kind of substitute phallic thing. That seems well established too. So these words are suddenly forbidden now? How very Victorian. ---
**Author:** ![GreysonCarlisle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a87d85/32.png) [@GreysonCarlisle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GreysonCarlisle)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 4:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/2 "2022-04-03T04:40:23Z")
That’s kinda silly. I can only hope that the mods involved didn’t know what the term means. ETA: though I can sorta see ExTank’s last sentence as being overly graphic, depending on the standards of MPSIMS. ---
**Author:** ![Turki-lurki](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/turki-lurki/32/7168_2.png) [@Turki-lurki](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Turki-lurki)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 4:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/3 "2022-04-03T04:49:09Z")
This board is read in Florida (covertly, I’m sure). They have a law about this sort of thing. We should be careful not to trigger the insecure Florida men… ---
**Author:** ![kaylasdad99](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kaylasdad99/32/3398_2.png) [@kaylasdad99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kaylasdad99)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 4:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/4 "2022-04-03T04:57:03Z")
ISTR several years ago, guidance came from on high that we weren’t to imply, in our retorts to the political positions of other Dopers, that they (the Dopers espousing said positions) were motivated by the sexual gratification they derived from holding and espousing said positions. I haven’t read the thread in question, but I can see why such guidance might bleed into the mod note discussed in the OP. ---
**Author:** ![GreysonCarlisle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a87d85/32.png) [@GreysonCarlisle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GreysonCarlisle)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 5:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/5 "2022-04-03T05:01:09Z")
> [@kaylasdad99](#): > > ISTR several years ago, guidance came from on high that we weren’t to imply, in our retorts to the political positions of other Dopers, that they (the Dopers espousing said positions) were motivated by the sexual gratification they derived from holding and espousing said positions. This maybe: > [@Exactly what rule did this violate?](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/exactly-what-rule-did-this-violate/830410/3): > > It is specifically against the rules to claim that one’s opponent derives some sort of sexual gratification/whatever from their positions. Claiming something works on someone like viagra certainly fills that space. Which seems to refer to this: > [@Warning for personal insults from Bone](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/warning-for-personal-insults-from-bone/791737/14): > > Here is the actual rule about “sexualizing”: \* Sexualizing posters and their arguments - Do not say or imply that your fellow posters achieve sexual gratification or soil themselves in glee/distress due to recent news reports, political iconography, contemplation of ideological positions, etc.\* You don’t have to sexualize people in order to break that rule. ---
**Author:** ![Senegoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/senegoid/32/6606_2.png) [@Senegoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Senegoid)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 5:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/6 "2022-04-03T05:07:54Z")
> [@kaylasdad99](#): > > . . . we weren’t to imply, in our retorts to the political positions of other Dopers, that they (the Dopers espousing said positions) were motivated by the sexual gratification they derived from holding and espousing said positions. The OP of that thread wasn’t retorting to any political position espoused by any other Doper. **ExTank** ’s last sentence was a bit crude. That might have been modworthy. But can anybody get a thread shut down now simply by making a crude post to the thread? ---
**Author:** ![GreysonCarlisle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a87d85/32.png) [@GreysonCarlisle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GreysonCarlisle)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 5:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/7 "2022-04-03T05:15:12Z")
Agreed. The rule cited above doesn’t apply because neither poster was directing their comments at other board members. The OP was directed at a general class of people, and the only response was self-directed. In any event, I don’t think that those kinds of comments are what that particular rule was meant to cover. That would be more like Hey, Poster123, I bet you’re splooging in your underdrawers to hear that Palin is running for office again! And I would agree that such comments would not be helpful or even useful. No, I take the mod at their word that the closure was because the comments from both posters were intentionally offensive and sexualized, but that is absolutely not the case. I realize that certain recent kerfuffles might have the staff on high alert, but that was the wrong call. ---
**Author:** ![kaylasdad99](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kaylasdad99/32/3398_2.png) [@kaylasdad99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kaylasdad99)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 5:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/8 "2022-04-03T05:20:55Z")
> [@Senegoid](#): > > > [@kaylasdad99](#): > > > > . . . we weren’t to imply, in our retorts to the political positions of other Dopers, that they (the Dopers espousing said positions) were motivated by the sexual gratification they derived from holding and espousing said positions. > > The OP of that thread wasn’t retorting to any political position espoused by any other Doper. Well, the rule _is_ pretty old. It would be kind of remarkable if we _never_ experienced some mission creep, so to speak. > [@](#): > > **ExTank** ’s last sentence was a bit crude. That might have been modworthy. But can anybody get a thread shut down now simply by making a crude post to the thread? That’s the more salient point, imho. Also, **nearwildheaven** spoke of message boards where ammos- - - - -s were “having a field day” about it, but never offered any evidence to support that assertion. I’m a busy man. I can’t be bothered to search for such message boards myself. ---
**Author:** ![Senegoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/senegoid/32/6606_2.png) [@Senegoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Senegoid)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 5:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/9 "2022-04-03T05:27:37Z")
> [@kaylasdad99](#): > > Also, **nearwildheaven** spoke of message boards where ammos- - - - -s were “having a field day” about it, but never offered any evidence to support that assertion. And now, the mods have us so intimidated that **kaylasdad99** is afraid to write out the evil word “ammosexuals”. We needn’t examine whether there’s some other message board where they are having a field day. I mentioned above that a quick search found about 40 posts with the word, scattered across this board. But it’s not just here. Just google the word, and you’ll find it’s well established. Urban dictionary has it. Wiktionary has it. The ammosexuals themselves have owned the word – they are selling T-shirts saying “Ammosexual - I was born that way” and similar. Huffpost has articles on the subject. It’s out there. ---
**Author:** ![wolfpup](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wolfpup/32/10618_2.png) [@wolfpup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wolfpup)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 5:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/10 "2022-04-03T05:36:37Z")
I agree with the others. This was bad moderation and the thread should not have been closed. Sure, post #2 by **Ex Tank** was inappropriate and should probably have been mod noted, but there was nothing at all wrong with the OP in terms of any of the board rules, express or implied, and the thread could have had some useful discussion. The rule against “sexualizing” another poster has absolutely no relevance here. Funny, I was thinking when I saw **[this post](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/deliberate-and-deliberately-offensive-racism-should-be-moderatable-it-is-being-a-jerk/962145/6)** here in ATMB that we were at risk of having overzealous moderation stifle reasonable discussion, but little did I suspect it would come less than 24 hours later. Emphasis mine: > There is some implicit tension between free speech banning bigoted arguments. (Using “bigoted” to encompass racist, sexist, homophobic, etc.) Every community needs to decide where they stand on this. I don’t moderate the areas where it is usually relevant, but feel that **“don’t be a jerk” should outweigh “open discussion” in the forums i do moderate** (IMHO, Cafe Society, MPSIMS, QZ, site feedback). ---
**Author:** ![Whack-a-Mole](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/whack-a-mole/32/141_2.png) [@Whack-a-Mole](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Whack-a-Mole)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 5:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/11 "2022-04-03T05:55:16Z")
Is this one of those things where people who belong to the group can use it but others cannot? Like the “N” word? (there are other such words but hopefully the point is made) ---
**Author:** ![GreysonCarlisle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a87d85/32.png) [@GreysonCarlisle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GreysonCarlisle)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 5:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/12 "2022-04-03T05:59:12Z")
> [@Whack-a-Mole](#): > > Is this one of those things where people who belong to the group can use it but others cannot? > > Like the “N” word? (there are other such words but hopefully the point is made)  If it were a real group and not a joke… ---
**Author:** ![Senegoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/senegoid/32/6606_2.png) [@Senegoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Senegoid)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 6:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/13 "2022-04-03T06:00:19Z")
> [@Whack-a-Mole](#): > > Is this one of those things where people who belong to the group can use it but others cannot? Well I hope not. I’ve been slinging the word around in this thread, without being one. I’m a-feared the mods will be wanting some words with me. (_Almost_ seriously. There’s that thread where posters are talking about male mammograms, and there was some discussion of gynecomastia, and someone said that obesity might cause that, and there was squabbling over that. Then someone mentioned that his cat was diagnosed with gynecomastia – and I wanted to make a post demanding pics. But I didn’t dare!) ---
**Author:** ![Senegoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/senegoid/32/6606_2.png) [@Senegoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Senegoid)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 6:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/14 "2022-04-03T06:06:43Z")
> [@wolfpup](#): > > . . . and the thread could have had some useful discussion. What nobody has explicitly mentioned, was **ExTank** ’s post #2 was kind of a threadshit that derailed the actual topic. But it might have been acceptable to start a Pit thread with that, if he felt so strongly about it. ---
**Author:** ![Babale](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/babale/32/15666_2.png) [@Babale](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Babale)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 6:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/15 "2022-04-03T06:09:58Z")
> [@kaylasdad99](#): > > ISTR several years ago, guidance came from on high that we weren’t to imply, in our retorts to the political positions of other Dopers, that they (the Dopers espousing said positions) were motivated by the sexual gratification they derived from holding and espousing said positions. I was under that impression too, but after i reported a particularly disgusting post, I was corrected. ---
**Author:** ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 6:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/16 "2022-04-03T06:13:06Z")
I say the rule applies. The term “ammosexual” is a derisive term for gun enthusiasts. This board is well known to have gun enthusiasts posting here. I found it pretty predictable that one of them would find the remark quite insulting. I would find it very unlikely that a thread with an OP like that would result in fruitful discussion, and not the typical heated arguments. ---
**Author:** ![Whack-a-Mole](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/whack-a-mole/32/141_2.png) [@Whack-a-Mole](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Whack-a-Mole)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 6:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/17 "2022-04-03T06:18:08Z")
Does it matter if the term is used to be derisive or just as part of the conversation? Example: I call you an “ammo------”. Or, I say person-X said, “That guy is an ammo------.” ---
**Author:** ![Senegoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/senegoid/32/6606_2.png) [@Senegoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Senegoid)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 6:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/18 "2022-04-03T06:20:53Z")
> [@BigT](#): > > The term “ammosexual” is a derisive term for gun enthusiasts. ~~Ammosexuals~~ Gun enthusiasts are a protected class now whose dainty sensibilities must not be disturbed? On THIS message board? ETA: More to the point: Are we to protect the feelings of gun enthusiasts – indeed, protect the feelings of everyone – on this board? Or is the objection specifically to the word “ammosexual”? And if so, why? ---
**Author:** ![kaylasdad99](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kaylasdad99/32/3398_2.png) [@kaylasdad99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kaylasdad99)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 6:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/19 "2022-04-03T06:25:41Z")
> [@Senegoid](#): > > And now, the mods have us so intimidated that **kaylasdad99** is afraid to write out the evil word “ammosexuals”. I can only hope that this remark is as tongue-in-cheek as was my “self-censoring.” ---
**Author:** ![Senegoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/senegoid/32/6606_2.png) [@Senegoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Senegoid)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2022, 6:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176/20 "2022-04-03T06:28:30Z")
> [@kaylasdad99](#): > > I can only hope that this remark is as tongue-in-cheek as was my “self-censoring.” It wasn’t obvious (to me anyway) that your “self-censoring” was tongue-in-cheek. Note that we have another post, several posts up, with similar self-censoring. I self-censored myself by not posting a tongue-in-cheek post asking for pics in that male mammogram thread – for a pic of a cat with gynecomastia. Someone would have kvetched. [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-ammosexual-is-a-sexually-offensive-word-now/962176.md?page=2)