First of all a panic attack is distressing but it’s not dangerous. The WORST thing that is gonna happen is you might embarrass yourself. But you know what? So what? You’ll get over it and that’ll be that.
Here’s some tips to cope with anxiety attacks. First of all, say to yourself, “This is distressing but not dangerous.” Keep repeating that. Visualize the word, “Calm.” If you’re not too stressed MOVE ABOUT. Go for a walk, this helps work off energy.
Use thought stoppage. If you feel “I’m doomed” or “I’m gonna die” say “STOP,” the take a deep breath. You can emphasize this by saying, “STOP,” then stamping your foot on the ground. Another technique is to say, “STOP” then snap a rubber band on your wrist. In other words wear a rubber band around your wrist and snap it when you say, “STOP.”
This technique didn’t even work for me, what I wound up doing was saying “STOP,” then I took a safety pin and jabbed it in my thigh. THAT WORKED. OK maybe I was risking infection but it stopped.
If your heart is beating too fast, you can reduce the rate using these methods.
The first is to bear down like your having a hard bowel movement, while holding your breath. This will slow heart rate. Another method is to massage your carotid artery. Press on the artery on the side of your neck as hard as you comfortably can and massage your neck for 30 seconds to a minute. You may even feel a tickle in your throat. Keep doing this, and your pulse will lower.
WARNING: DO NOT do this on BOTH sides of your neck at once. Only do it on one side of your neck only. You could actually cause yourself to pass out if you did both sides of your neck at once. It isn’t going to make you pass out to do one side only.
A third method to slow pulse is to take a bowl of very cold ice water and plunk your face right into it. This will shock your system. This is why, in the days before child abuse, they used to throw cold water on children who were throwing hysterical fits. This is also why in the movies they slap hysterical people. It shocks the system.
There are meds that you can take. Antidepressants are first line and work very well. Paxil is good and cheap. An older antidepressant Imipramine also works great, but has a few bothersome side effects like dry mouth and constipation. Both take a few weeks to work.
Note you may have to try several things to find something that works. I was given Prozac once and it didn’t do anything for me. I found Paxil and Imipramine both worked within a day for me. Now I am very unusual, that it worked that fast.
I want the OP to get two books. The first is called Stop Running Scared. It’s out of print but you can find it on Amazon. It is the best book I’ve read and teaches you how to use behaviour therapy to end panic.
The second is called, How To Stop Worrying And Start Living by Dale Carnegie. It’s an oldie but goodie so you probably can get it at your library. It is well written and interesting. I’m not one for self-help books but these two are great
As for treatment of behaviour therapy versus meds, its up to you. I beat anxiety with behaviour therapy and I’ve beaten it also using meds.
I look at it like this, if you have a headache, you can go into a dark room with an ice pack and lie down for an hour or so and your headache will probably go away. OR you can take a couple of aspirin and your headache will be gone in 15 minutes.
The results are the same basically just a matter of time and technique.
Lastly, remember panic is scary but it’s not dangerous.