# So, are we having lunch or what?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-are-we-having-lunch-or-what/373407>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [September 20, 2006, 1:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-are-we-having-lunch-or-what/373407 "2006-09-20T13:10:46Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 10\
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**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2006, 12:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-are-we-having-lunch-or-what/373407/41 "2006-09-21T00:30:50Z")

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Which reminds me – **9** honey – how _you_ doin’? 😃

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**Author:** ![934spe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/9/90db22/32.png) [@934spe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/934spe)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2006, 11:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-are-we-having-lunch-or-what/373407/42 "2006-09-21T11:16:18Z")

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[QUOTE=twickster]  
Which reminds me – **9** honey – how _you_ doin’? 😃  
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Woo Hoo!! Looks like I am still in the running… 😛

Hate to say, but my lunch dates don’t go like your previous experience though.. So if a last minute change in plans, a boring plan, and food you don’t like is what you are into, I would greatly disappoint you…

I seem to have a heart, although sometimes “three sized too small”…

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**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2006, 1:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-are-we-having-lunch-or-what/373407/43 "2006-09-21T13:00:09Z")

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[QUOTE=934spe]  
…if a last minute change in plans, a boring plan, and food you don’t like is what you are into, I would greatly disappoint you…  
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Hm. I think I could learn to live with a different type of lunch date – planning ahead and going to a restaurant I like? It’s a crazy idea but it just might work!

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**Author:** ![934spe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/9/90db22/32.png) [@934spe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/934spe)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2006, 1:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-are-we-having-lunch-or-what/373407/44 "2006-09-21T13:41:26Z")

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[QUOTE=twickster]  
Hm. I think I could learn to live with a different type of lunch date – planning ahead and going to a restaurant I like? It’s a crazy idea but it just might work!  
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Glad to hear you are open to “wild and crazy” ideas…  
You outta try a dinner and movie too.. Those kind of dates are the craziest!

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**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2006, 1:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-are-we-having-lunch-or-what/373407/45 "2006-09-21T13:43:20Z")

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You’re a wild man.

I like that in a toy boy.

😉

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**Author:** ![934spe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/9/90db22/32.png) [@934spe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/934spe)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2006, 1:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-are-we-having-lunch-or-what/373407/46 "2006-09-21T13:45:08Z")

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[QUOTE=twickster]  
You’re a wild man.

I like that in a toy boy.

😉  
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I aim to please… that is my job, right?.. 😃

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**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2006, 1:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-are-we-having-lunch-or-what/373407/47 "2006-09-21T13:52:01Z")

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Mrowr!

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**Author:** ![The\_Weird\_One](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/7bcc69/32.png) [@The\_Weird\_One](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Weird_One)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2006, 2:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-are-we-having-lunch-or-what/373407/48 "2006-09-21T14:06:30Z")

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For purposes of decency, I’m removing myself from this thread. Yowza!

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**Author:** ![Carlyjay](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e0b2c6/32.png) [@Carlyjay](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Carlyjay)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2006, 2:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-are-we-having-lunch-or-what/373407/49 "2006-09-21T14:11:56Z")

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Ew, this guy is totally trying to rekindle something (and on Wednesdays only?! Puh-leeeease!)

Seriously, he had his chance and he blew it. Think of it this way.

Would you rather look back on this a few years from now and think,

1. “He wanted me, and I told him to take a hike because he’d missed his chance”,

or

1. “He wanted me, and I acquiesced; we had lunch a handful of times and then he tried to (insert sex act here) and then he suddenly realized we weren’t right for each other after all”.

I know I’d rather look back and see #1, and feel like a Strong Independent Woman, and find a guy who actually knows how wonderful I am.

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**Author:** ![934spe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/9/90db22/32.png) [@934spe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/934spe)\
**Post date:** [September 21, 2006, 2:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-are-we-having-lunch-or-what/373407/50 "2006-09-21T14:13:10Z")

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[QUOTE=The Weird One]  
For purposes of decency, I’m removing myself from this thread. Yowza!  
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You freak.. You know you like watching it play out… 😛

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