# So, did I lose my cherry to a guy?!

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-did-i-lose-my-cherry-to-a-guy/257012>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [July 27, 2004, 12:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-did-i-lose-my-cherry-to-a-guy/257012 "2004-07-27T00:19:11Z")\
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**Author:** ![Ethilrist](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ethilrist/32/4604_2.png) [@Ethilrist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ethilrist)\
**Post date:** [July 27, 2004, 1:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-did-i-lose-my-cherry-to-a-guy/257012/21 "2004-07-27T13:56:16Z")

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> [@Aeschines](#):
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> Well I never!

There’s your answer, then.

> [@grienspace](#):
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> sorry, I thought I was starting a new thread

Ah. I was having trouble deciphering your euphemisms.

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**Author:** ![Stonebow](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Stonebow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stonebow)\
**Post date:** [July 27, 2004, 4:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-did-i-lose-my-cherry-to-a-guy/257012/22 "2004-07-27T16:54:07Z")

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> [@Diogenes the Cynic](#):
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> I’m just saying that technical definitions of “virginity” and “sex” don’t truly reflect emotional reality.

Thank you. I think most enlightened folks will agree that virginity is not the big deal somem folks make it out to be, but it’s hypocritical to at once insist that there is any special meaning to it and then expand the meaning so that you magically fit that status.

One of my kids in the office has a gf that will give do oral, handjobs, even anal, but won’t do vaginal because she wants to remain a virgin til she’s married due to her religion. Somehow, I don’t think that’s what Jesus had in mind.

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