# So, How Many Dopers Have You Met IRL?

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**Created:** [February 28, 2012, 2:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-many-dopers-have-you-met-irl/614252 "2012-02-28T14:05:24Z")\
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> [@twickster](#):
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> I don’t specifically recall that, but since I used to work at the puzzle factor I may well have. I do know that we’ve met, and I think it’s been more than once…

It was at a Philly suburbs Dope get together. We all met for dinner (maybe lunch, but I’m pretty sure it was dinner). I think we all did it two or three times.

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**Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 2:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-many-dopers-have-you-met-irl/614252/62 "2012-02-29T02:04:19Z")

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> [@Smeghead](#):
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> This thread got me thinking - is it just me, or has the Dopefest phenomenon all but died out? I can’t remember the last time I saw a Dopefest thread.

No, there are still some. One is coming up in Boston soon but I don’t know if I can attend.

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Dozens I guess, not sure how many in all. It would be good to have another Jersey Dopefest but I am not up to hosting one currently. Maybe we could figure out some other way to get together.

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Not counting the two who I live with, I met 8 or 10 at a DopeFest in San Francisco a few years ago.

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**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\
**Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 4:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-many-dopers-have-you-met-irl/614252/65 "2012-02-29T04:46:51Z")

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> [@davidm](#):
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> It was at a Philly suburbs Dope get together. We all met for dinner (maybe lunch, but I’m pretty sure it was dinner). I think we all did it two or three times.

I definitely remember the one out at Calif. Pizza Kitchen in KofP that **Rockle** came to – were you at the one at Phil’s at Broadaxe? and/or the one at the Persian place in Lafayette Hill?

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**Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 4:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-many-dopers-have-you-met-irl/614252/66 "2012-02-29T04:48:25Z")

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Somewhere in the 50-55 range.

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None.

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**Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 5:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-many-dopers-have-you-met-irl/614252/68 "2012-02-29T05:19:30Z")

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Wait…you guys are real? I thought I was hallucinating…

I haven’t met anyone from the Dope IRL.

I wonder how much of a South Florida community we have. Hell…if I threw a Dopefest in the Winter, maybe we’d get out of town guests!  
-D/a

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**Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 10:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-many-dopers-have-you-met-irl/614252/69 "2012-02-29T10:47:46Z")

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> [@kayaker](#):
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> Will you take a check?😃
> 
> I’ve met one Doper in real life. Pittsburgh Santarchy; I was a Naughty Santa handing out adult DVDs, he was an Amish Santa handing out cigars. Hohoho!!!

I’ve met **kopek** , too.😃

I’ve met 10 or so other ones, including one I see on a regular basis at hockey games.

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> [@dogbutler](#):
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> I’ve met **kopek** , too.😃

cool!

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**Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 12:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-many-dopers-have-you-met-irl/614252/71 "2012-02-29T12:55:29Z")

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> [@twickster](#):
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> I definitely remember the one out at Calif. Pizza Kitchen in KofP that **Rockle** came to – were you at the one at Phil’s at Broadaxe? and/or the one at the Persian place in Lafayette Hill?

I think I was at the KofP one. I’m not sure about the others.

I think the making of plans is probably in the archives somewhere but I wouldn’t even know what to search on.

Maybe we could try to do it again. (Or maybe there are current regular get-togethers that I haven’t been aware of.)

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**Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 12:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-many-dopers-have-you-met-irl/614252/72 "2012-02-29T12:56:55Z")

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> [@Cicero](#):
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> As in posters, not those who say they have visited the board.
> 
> In over ten years here, I have only met one- and that was in Edinburgh. (I discount my sister.) I have communicated with heaps and exchanged proper mail and gifts.
> 
> However, overall I have only met one.
> 
> What is your score?

I’ve met one that I know of. He was visiting Edinburgh!

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**Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 1:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-many-dopers-have-you-met-irl/614252/73 "2012-02-29T13:14:30Z")

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I think maybe about 40, to one extent or another.

I was a charter member of the B.A.D.'s, more or less. Most of my close friends when I lived in SF were from the boards. There were the semi-regular get-togethers, there was the SLO-Dope, there were the two NYC-Dopes I went to.

Oh, I’ve had some adventures with my fellow Dopers over the years. Now I’m an old fuck living in the armpit of nowhere in New England. I haven’t laid eyes on a fellow Doper years.

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**Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 1:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-many-dopers-have-you-met-irl/614252/74 "2012-02-29T13:17:23Z")

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> [@Jack\_Batty](#):
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> Oh, I’ve had some adventures with my fellow Dopers over the years. Now I’m an old fuck living in the armpit of nowhere in New England. I haven’t laid eyes on a fellow Doper years.

New glasses time for me.

I read that as “I haven’t laid a fellow Doper in years.”

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**Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 1:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-many-dopers-have-you-met-irl/614252/75 "2012-02-29T13:19:24Z")

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My attorney has advised me not to respond to the previous post.

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**Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 1:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-many-dopers-have-you-met-irl/614252/76 "2012-02-29T13:30:16Z")

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More than 40, less than 75. Pretty good population in the Twin Cities, and we’ve had a couple of well attended Dopefests . Met Dopers in Seattle, Dublin, and Texas.

The only thing I regret is not meeting **QED** when I was in DC. We just couldn’t make our schedules sync. I should have made a better effort.

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**Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 1:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-many-dopers-have-you-met-irl/614252/77 "2012-02-29T13:34:00Z")

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To my knowledge, none.

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**Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 1:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-many-dopers-have-you-met-irl/614252/78 "2012-02-29T13:39:24Z")

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> [@KneadToKnow](#):
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> Not counting a couple of people I knew before they became Dopers, this is pretty much the same list for me, as well\*, seeing as we all met more or less at the same time\*\*.
> 
> Too long ago, might I add. We need to get something together after this brutal winter has loosened its grip on the Carolinas.
> 
> - Given the obvious reciprocity with **Maus**.
> 
> \*\* Not counting **melodyharmonius** , of course, who I knew before she became a Doper. That’s right: like it or not, you all have me to thank for the Ron Thread existing. 😉

You all should head down to the Waxhaw Pub Crawl, hosted by our own **Southern Yankee** in April. It’s fun, it shoots business to Downtown Waxhaw (we’ve got TTHREE stoplights now), and it raises money for a good cause. Best of all, it’s after Lent.

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**Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 2:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-many-dopers-have-you-met-irl/614252/79 "2012-02-29T14:33:47Z")

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> [@SciFiSam](#):
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> At least 30 at meets over the years. Some are now good friends of mine.

Probably not 30 but a goodly subset of the same circle as **Sam** (including her, of course).

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**Post date:** [February 29, 2012, 2:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-many-dopers-have-you-met-irl/614252/80 "2012-02-29T14:50:36Z")

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> [@Cicero](#):
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> I read that as “I haven’t laid a fellow Doper in years.”

Me either.

😉

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