# So...how much time \*do\* men spend thinking about sex?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-much-time-do-men-spend-thinking-about-sex/505678>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [August 7, 2009, 7:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-much-time-do-men-spend-thinking-about-sex/505678 "2009-08-07T19:34:54Z")\
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**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\
**Post date:** [August 27, 2009, 6:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-much-time-do-men-spend-thinking-about-sex/505678/61 "2009-08-27T18:09:00Z")

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> [@Antinor01](#):
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> Humph. Maybe for the two of you, but how is the gay guy supposed to enjoy that scene? At least invite someone for me to play with. 😉

Well, I’ll be there. Does that count?

Anyway, this is _my_ orgy daydream! You guys don’t get to direct.

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**Author:** ![ZipperJJ](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/zipperjj/32/211_2.png) [@ZipperJJ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ZipperJJ)\
**Post date:** [August 27, 2009, 7:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-much-time-do-men-spend-thinking-about-sex/505678/62 "2009-08-27T19:40:52Z")

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> [@Antinor01](#):
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> Humph. Maybe for the two of you, but how is the gay guy supposed to enjoy that scene? At least invite someone for me to play with. 😉

I have big, man-sized hands, if that helps. But they’re nice and soft like real lady hands so it’d be win-win for you 😉

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**Author:** ![Polerius](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/d78d45/32.png) [@Polerius](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Polerius)\
**Post date:** [August 27, 2009, 8:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-much-time-do-men-spend-thinking-about-sex/505678/63 "2009-08-27T20:31:47Z")

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> [@winterhawk11](#):
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> It got me to thinking (actually I’ve thought about this before, but the article kind of gelled it for me)–based on your experiences, male Dopers, is the article right? Is it pretty much impossible for an attractive woman to do her job competently without almost every straight guy in the room picturing her naked and thinking about having sex with her? Is it really that prevalent, or does the article exaggerate?

[This thread](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=357403) might be enlightening.

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**Author:** ![Maia\_s\_Well](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/3bc359/32.png) [@Maia\_s\_Well](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Maia_s_Well)\
**Post date:** [August 27, 2009, 8:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-how-much-time-do-men-spend-thinking-about-sex/505678/64 "2009-08-27T20:51:47Z")

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> [@Antinor01](#):
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> Humph. Maybe for the two of you, but how is the gay guy supposed to enjoy that scene? At least invite someone for me to play with. 😉

I figured you was gonna bring a friend, sugar! Or that **RNATB** would be feelin’ adventurous.

Oh, yum.

Speaking of sex thoughts, I’m one of those women who find the idea of watching two guys get it on _very_ exciting. Not just arousing, but there something about watching two guys kiss or hold hands that makes my heart swell and brings tears to my eyes, I think it’s so beautiful.

Don’t know why, but there’s no explaining those kind of reactions I guess.

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