# So I have Breast Cancer. What should I know or expect in the next weeks or months?

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**Created:** [August 19, 2026, 9:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-i-have-breast-cancer-what-should-i-know-or-expect-in-the-next-weeks-or-months/1032421 "2026-08-19T09:06:34Z")\
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**Author:** ![Hari\_Seldon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hari_seldon/32/5173_2.png) [@Hari\_Seldon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hari_Seldon)\
**Post date:** [August 19, 2026, 11:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-i-have-breast-cancer-what-should-i-know-or-expect-in-the-next-weeks-or-months/1032421/21 "2026-08-19T23:04:59Z")

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Breast cancer is not a single thing; there are various kinds. My wife had something called ductal carcinoma in situ. The surgeon took about ten minutes in his office to remove the milk duct (I was there), sewed her up and prescribed radiation. We went home and the radiation oncologist arranged treatment. She had five radiation sessions and then three years of tamoxiphen and that’s that. The biopsy definitely showed cancerous cells, but there was no spread outside of the duct. I can only hope that that is what you have.

There was a bit of pain until it healed, but nothing she couldn’t take.

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**Author:** ![nearwildheaven](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/90db22/32.png) [@nearwildheaven](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nearwildheaven)\
**Post date:** [August 19, 2026, 11:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-i-have-breast-cancer-what-should-i-know-or-expect-in-the-next-weeks-or-months/1032421/22 "2026-08-19T23:13:00Z")

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It’s been almost 9 years since I got the C-bomb dropped on me. TL : DR - I’m doing fine now. I almost didn’t have that biopsy, because they thought it was scar tissue.

It wasn’t.

My experience was my experience, and yours will be yours. Hugs to you and yours. I actually found the most supportive comments weren’t “You’ll beat this for sure!” but instead, people saying things like “Your life is really going to suck at times over the next few months.”

> [@I had an abnormal screening mammogram.](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/i-had-an-abnormal-screening-mammogram/797018):
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> Yesterday, I went to another center to have a more advanced mammogram, as well as a breast ultrasound, and the doctor found something that she called an “architectural anomaly” and she wants me to have a needle biopsy, which is scheduled for next Thursday. I know women (and men too) have this done all the time, and the findings are usually benign, but I’m still terrified. Of course, me the idiot had to consult Dr. Google and really scared myself. :rolleyes: None of the images looked anything …

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**Author:** ![puzzlegal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/puzzlegal/32/3827_2.png) [@puzzlegal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/puzzlegal)\
**Post date:** [August 21, 2026, 1:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-i-have-breast-cancer-what-should-i-know-or-expect-in-the-next-weeks-or-months/1032421/23 "2026-08-21T13:40:06Z")

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Best wishes. I may say more after reading the thread.

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