# So my brother's new girlfriend is the 4th most popular girl on Nubiles dot net. **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [November 28, 2009, 6:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217 "2009-11-28T06:39:47Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Baron\_Greenback](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/baron_greenback/32/48_2.png) [@Baron\_Greenback](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baron_Greenback)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2009, 2:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/21 "2009-11-29T02:09:17Z")
> [@enomaj](#): > > Man, that website is worse than [tvtropes.com](http://tvtropes.com). One is a placeholder website, and the other caters for folk who like girls that look under age. :dubious: ---
**Author:** ![Wesley\_Clark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wesley_clark/32/20581_2.png) [@Wesley\_Clark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wesley_Clark)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2009, 2:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/22 "2009-11-29T02:10:35Z")
I am pretty depraved in other areas of my life so I have no room to lecture, but all those girls look 15 and that is really bothersome. They are a USC 2257 compliant site (verifying everyone is over 18). But still. ---
**Author:** ![DiosaBellissima](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a8b319/32.png) [@DiosaBellissima](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DiosaBellissima)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2009, 3:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/23 "2009-11-29T03:41:29Z")
> [@Wesley\_Clark](#): > > I am pretty depraved in other areas of my life so I have no room to lecture, but all those girls look 15 and that is really bothersome. They are a USC 2257 compliant site (verifying everyone is over 18). But still. Those girls don’t look 15- I work with 15 year old girls every day and immature as their development may still be, most are . . . meatier than the girls on that site. Those girls look like middle school kids. ---
**Author:** ![MsWhatsit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/eb8c5e/32.png) [@MsWhatsit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MsWhatsit)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2009, 3:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/24 "2009-11-29T03:42:54Z")
> [@Baron\_Greenback](#): > > One is a placeholder website, and the other caters for folk who like girls that look under age. :dubious: Try [tvtropes.org](http://tvtropes.org) instead. ---
**Author:** ![enomaj](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/59ef9b/32.png) [@enomaj](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enomaj)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2009, 5:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/25 "2009-11-29T05:10:44Z")
> [@MsWhatsit](#): > > Try [tvtropes.org](http://tvtropes.org) instead. Oops! ---
**Author:** ![Odesio](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/odesio/32/20003_2.png) [@Odesio](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Odesio)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2009, 6:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/26 "2009-11-29T06:01:27Z")
> [@DiosaBellissima](#): > > Those girls don’t look 15- I work with 15 year old girls every day and immature as their development may still be, most are . . . meatier than the girls on that site. Those girls look like middle school kids. I work with high school kids on occasion and the young women on the website don’t look much different from some of them. On the other hand there’s human variation and there are times when I can’t believe a boy or a girl is in high school because they look too young or they look too old. Odesio ---
**Author:** ![Clothahump](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/51bf81/32.png) [@Clothahump](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Clothahump)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2009, 12:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/27 "2009-11-30T00:00:46Z")
I can’t check her out because the site asks me for a user id and password. ---
**Author:** ![kittenblue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ba8739/32.png) [@kittenblue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kittenblue)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2009, 12:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/28 "2009-11-30T00:30:43Z")
Did she eat anything at Thanksgiving? Because that child is seriously thin and not healthy-looking. ---
**Author:** ![Green\_Bean](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_bean/32/1760_2.png) [@Green\_Bean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Bean)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2009, 2:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/29 "2009-11-30T02:11:59Z")
She obviously wanted you to know that she was on the site and to look at the pictures. Why? > [@NinetyWt](#): > > The pose on all fours is not flattering; her feet look big and wrinkly, and her behind looks like … well… two elbows. Her behind also looks just like the behind of my friend’s skinny 4-year-old boy. Literally. I saw that picture and was like “I’ve seen that ass somewhere before.” ---
**Author:** ![MeanOldLady](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/meanoldlady/32/10737_2.png) [@MeanOldLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MeanOldLady)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2009, 2:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/30 "2009-11-30T02:31:45Z")
Ya know, whatever gets your rocks off, but that little girl looks 11, and is built exactly the same as I was when I was 11. I think my ass looked like two elbows then, too. And ya know another thing, I was late to this whole developing physically business, and it burned my toast because my two sisters were tall, shapely things, and I was some wiry little shit. I prayed to the shape gods everyday, and wanted to be all curvtacular (I’m just making words up now) like, you know, an adult woman. I suppose I didn’t realize then that my bony, undeveloped ass was desirable to anyone! Oh well, the gods have already responded, and I suppose it’s too late now. ---
**Author:** ![even\_sven](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/dfb087/32.png) [@even\_sven](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/even_sven)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2009, 3:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/31 "2009-11-30T03:34:18Z")
Looks like kids- not my thing. ---
**Author:** ![Ephemera](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/8baadc/32.png) [@Ephemera](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ephemera)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2009, 5:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/32 "2009-11-30T05:50:45Z")
I guess I’ll be the lone dissenter and say I think she’s cute enough. ---
**Author:** ![Lakai](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/9de0a6/32.png) [@Lakai](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lakai)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2009, 6:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/33 "2009-11-30T06:36:43Z")
> [@Idle\_Thoughts](#): > > Er, no…does it say on there she is? Because it has her doing many pornographic things, even just on preview if you click her name (not that you need to look, haha..just saying). > > She’s 19. She got her braces off about four or five months ago, I think…so she was either 18 or 19 when she did it. The website says she’s 18. The site also claims that she is a virgin. Is that true? I love redheads, so you are not going to hear any complaints from me. Tell your bro he did good by my standards. She’s rated number 2 now. ---
**Author:** ![Idle\_Thoughts](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/838e76/32.png) [@Idle\_Thoughts](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Idle_Thoughts)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2009, 9:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/34 "2009-11-30T09:28:31Z")
She’s definitely 19 (her birthday is in June) and she’s definitely not a virgin since we played “I’ve never” over Thanksgiving and interesting things (as they usually are) were revealed during it. ---
**Author:** ![mswas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e99b99/32.png) [@mswas](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mswas)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2009, 2:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/35 "2009-11-30T14:33:52Z")
> [@Idle\_Thoughts](#): > > She’s definitely 19 (her birthday is in June) and she’s definitely not a virgin since we played “I’ve never” over Thanksgiving and interesting things (as they usually are) were revealed during it. Hate to burst your bubble about her not having done it in a while, but she was ADDED to the site on October 13th. ---
**Author:** ![Spezza](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a698b9/32.png) [@Spezza](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spezza)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2009, 4:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/36 "2009-11-30T16:33:24Z")
> [@Aesiron](#): > > I guess I’ll be the lone dissenter and say I think she’s cute enough. I stand with you and concur, definitely hot. But then again I’m 6’ tall, 135 lbs, and my rule is not to date girls bigger than myself. ---
**Author:** ![Dinsdale](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/97f17d/32.png) [@Dinsdale](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dinsdale)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2009, 5:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/37 "2009-11-30T17:19:03Z")
Glad to see neither of my daughters (in the target age group) are posting there - at least not using their real names! ---
**Author:** ![RandMcnally](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b782af/32.png) [@RandMcnally](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RandMcnally)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2009, 5:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/38 "2009-11-30T17:40:29Z")
> [@Spezza](#): > > I stand with you and concur, definitely hot. But then again I’m 6’ tall, 135 lbs, and my rule is not to date girls bigger than myself. I think the vast majority of girls on that site are really cute. ---
**Author:** ![Green\_Bean](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_bean/32/1760_2.png) [@Green\_Bean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Bean)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2009, 5:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/39 "2009-11-30T17:50:14Z")
She made sure you knew that she was on this site and she played I Never with you and revealed a lot of sexual information to you. This is making me wary. Not because of her age or looks, but because she’s overtly trying to make you think of her sexually. Possibilities include: 1. She is overly desirous of mens’ sexual attention and/or only feels herself valuable as a sex object–could be an indicator of past abuse and/or miscellaneous psychological problems. 2. She’s trying to get you interested in her so as to cause discord between your brother and yourself and/or cause problems between you and your girlfriend–maybe she’s a shit-stirrer, drama queen, and/or manipulator. 3. She’s angling for a threesome with you both. 4. She’s just something of an exhibitionist. If it’s possibilities 1 or 2, then those are some big red flags, and your brother should consider them carefully. If it’s 2, you should do everything you can to limit your contact with her and avoid getting sucked into her little game. If it’s 3, the question is–is your brother into the idea too, or is she trying to get him to do something he’s not comfortable with. Possibility 4 isn’t really creepy per se, but again, your brother should consider the implications. If she can’t control her exhibitionist tendencies, it could lead to various types of trouble. ---
**Author:** ![bup](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6bbea6/32.png) [@bup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bup)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2009, 6:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217/40 "2009-11-30T18:30:33Z")
I would kind of assume chicks on porn sites are a little exhibitionist. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-my-brothers-new-girlfriend-is-the-4th-most-popular-girl-on-nubiles-dot-net/519217.md?page=3)