# So, uh, how do I deepthroat without gagging? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [September 5, 2011, 6:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296 "2011-09-05T18:58:57Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 19\ **Page:** 5
**Author:** ![Omar\_Little](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/omar_little/32/269_2.png) [@Omar\_Little](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omar_Little)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2015, 6:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/82 "2015-08-21T18:46:19Z")
> [@sexspert](#): > > šŸ˜› OK listen closely its all about illusionā€¦ You Donā€™t actually need or have to desensitize your throat or twist your neck to make it fitā€¦Hereā€™s the deal if he thinks your deep throating him thatā€™s what heā€™ll believe to be true. Even when your not actually. All you have to do is press the back of your tounge up against the roof of your mouth put your hand around the rest of the penis and as your going in for the kill make the best gag noise you have. He will Think heā€™s at the back of your throat and as deep as he can possibly go. The head will confer this as it presses again your the roof and tounge. It will boost his ego.The noise will reconfirm what the head feltā€¦So its simple illusion and both pparties are pleaded.His ego will be stroked and you wonā€™t suffer the agony of streghing anything or puke and ruin the momentā€¦ Also tilting you head forward to where your fore head touches his pubis helps Welcome sexspert. Your fake it til you make it advice may go unheard, as many of the participants in this thread may be long gone. This is 2-3 year old thread. ETA: the OP hasnā€™t been around here in several monthsā€¦ ---
**Author:** ![Shodan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9f8e36/32.png) [@Shodan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shodan)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2015, 7:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/83 "2015-08-21T19:07:54Z")
> [@Omar\_Little](#): > > Welcome sexspert. Your fake it til you make it advice may go unheard, as many of the participants in this thread may be long gone. This is 2-3 year old thread. > > ETA: the OP hasnā€™t been around here in several monthsā€¦ If your SO learns how to do this, I wouldnā€™t be surprised if you spend a _lot_ less time on the Internet. Regards, Shodan ---
**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2015, 7:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/84 "2015-08-21T19:09:56Z")
Yeah, I know this is a twice-resurrected zombie, but: > [@Czarcasm](#): > > Deep-throating is vastly overrated, in my opinion. I agree. Getting about halfway in is plenty. I did have one GF many years ago (hell, at this point, ALL my GFs were decades ago!) who deep-throated me a few times, and there was a lot less stimulation of the head of my penis that way. > [@Mean\_Mr.Mustard](#): > > Nah, he could never get it down Pat. I hadnā€™t heard that joke in 40 years. šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2015, 12:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/85 "2015-08-22T00:04:20Z")
> [@Omar\_Little](#): > > Welcome sexspert. Your fake it til you make it advice may go unheard, as many of the participants in this thread may be long gone. This is 2-3 year old thread. > > ETA: the OP hasnā€™t been around here in several monthsā€¦ So theyā€™ve come and gone? ---
**Author:** ![John\_DiFool](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_difool/32/19543_2.png) [@John\_DiFool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_DiFool)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2015, 12:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/86 "2015-08-22T00:39:44Z")
Half a million views, 2nd all time for this forum (mod stickies not included)ā€¦ ---
**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2015, 12:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/87 "2015-08-22T00:43:30Z")
Is that wife/bondage thread No. 1? ---
**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2015, 1:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/88 "2015-08-22T01:26:43Z")
> [@sexspert](#): > > šŸ˜› OK listen closely its all about illusionā€¦ You Donā€™t actually need or have to desensitize your throat or twist your neck to make it fitā€¦Hereā€™s the deal if he thinks your deep throating him thatā€™s what heā€™ll believe to be true. Even when your not actually. All you have to do is press the back of your tounge up against the roof of your mouth put your hand around the rest of the penis and as your going in for the kill make the best gag noise you have. He will Think heā€™s at the back of your throat and as deep as he can possibly go. The head will confer this as it presses again your the roof and tounge. It will boost his ego.The noise will reconfirm what the head feltā€¦So its simple illusion and both pparties are pleaded.His ego will be stroked and you wonā€™t suffer the agony of streghing anything or puke and ruin the momentā€¦ Also tilting you head forward to where your fore head touches his pubis helps Great advice. I only lift at gyms with styrofoam barbells. No spotter. Yeah, Iā€™m kind of a badass. Hard as granite under these droopy manboobs. ---
**Author:** ![scootergirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e99b99/32.png) [@scootergirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scootergirl)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2015, 1:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/89 "2015-08-22T01:49:13Z")
Good for you for asking. Like anything else - it takes practice. Why donā€™t you visit the site Pornhub. No need to become a member if you donā€™t want to. Then in the search bar type: ā€œdeepthroat.ā€ There will be hundreds of videos to choose from. Go buy a flexible dildo and get a feel for how deep you can go - comfortably. You want the experience to be good for you, too. If you donā€™t enjoy it donā€™t do it. Remember that a great blowjob is not just about how deep you can go. Itā€™s much more than that. By the way - gagging is a bit par for the course for most folks who like to go deep. Good luck! And have fun! ---
**Author:** ![scootergirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e99b99/32.png) [@scootergirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scootergirl)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2015, 1:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/90 "2015-08-22T01:55:06Z")
UGH! Ghost thread! Thatā€™s what I get for not reading the responses first. Never mind thenā€¦ ---
**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2015, 2:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/91 "2015-08-22T02:36:30Z")
Zombies give good head. ---
**Author:** ![Count\_Blucher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Count\_Blucher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Count_Blucher)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2015, 2:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/92 "2015-08-22T14:55:33Z")
> [@scootergirl](#): > > UGH! Ghost thread! Read that as ā€œghost headā€. Like Dan Akroyd in the firehouse in ā€œGhost Bustersā€ā€¦ ---
**Author:** ![Arrendajo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e0b2c6/32.png) [@Arrendajo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arrendajo)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2015, 6:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/93 "2015-08-22T18:33:24Z")
Well the topic is timeless. ---
**Author:** ![davida03801](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b5e925/32.png) [@davida03801](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/davida03801)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2015, 6:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/94 "2015-08-22T18:51:03Z")
> [@Chef\_Troy](#): > > You could also lie down and hang your head over the edge of the bed, while your fella stands. This will line your throat up for the sword-swallowing. Preferred position of me and the Mrs and has been for years. ---
**Author:** ![rock\_party](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e19b73/32.png) [@rock\_party](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/rock_party)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2015, 7:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/95 "2015-08-22T19:56:19Z")
Deepthroating is generally overrated because itā€™s very often a scrape-a-thon of molars if not done properly. The key is one hand down near the base, the other hand left to Honore the Balzac, and plenty of tongue action and suctionā€¦and as little teeth as possible. ---
**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2015, 9:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/96 "2015-08-22T21:16:44Z")
Am I the only one who thinks deepthroating is _not_ overrated? šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![sexspert](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/439d5e/32.png) [@sexspert](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sexspert)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2015, 11:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/97 "2015-08-22T23:18:44Z")
You guys made me laugh today thanksā€¦Million views huhā€¦Wow. ---
**Author:** ![Spiderman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spiderman/32/230_2.png) [@Spiderman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spiderman)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2015, 12:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/98 "2015-08-23T12:08:43Z")
> [@scootergirl](#): > > UGH! Ghost thread! Thatā€™s what I get for not reading the responses first. Never mind thenā€¦ Did anyone else notice that the date of the last post prior to being resurrected was June 9th? Seems appropriate for this topic. ---
**Author:** ![Count\_Blucher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Count\_Blucher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Count_Blucher)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2015, 12:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/99 "2015-08-23T12:56:58Z")
> [@Siam\_Sam](#): > > Zombies give good head. I can hear it nowā€¦ ā€œVeinsā€¦! Veinsā€¦!ā€ ---
**Author:** ![Urbanredneck](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/ea5d25/32.png) [@Urbanredneck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Urbanredneck)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2015, 2:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-uh-how-do-i-deepthroat-without-gagging/595296/100 "2015-08-23T14:54:04Z")
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