# So whats \*YOUR\* fetish?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [April 26, 2002, 1:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692 "2002-04-26T01:47:18Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![butter\_pie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/aca169/32.png) [@butter\_pie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/butter_pie)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2002, 4:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/41 "2002-04-27T16:41:12Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Guinastasia \*  
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> Yep, I’m goin’ to Hell!  
> 😃 \*\*

I’ll see you there…

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**Author:** ![Skewbald](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/49beb7/32.png) [@Skewbald](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skewbald)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2002, 5:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/42 "2002-04-27T17:48:56Z")

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> \*Originally posted by CrankyAsAnOldMan \*  
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> Mark, is that you? I swear, my ex-boyfriend had this exact same fetish. \*\*

Oh my God! Lisa?

No I’m not Mark.

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**Author:** ![pepperlandgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f17d59/32.png) [@pepperlandgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pepperlandgirl)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2002, 5:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/43 "2002-04-27T17:51:34Z")

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Hands.  
Long, agile, fingers that can do anything from cutting vegetables, to fixing appliances, to reaching all.the.right.spots. Mmmmmm, hands.

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**Author:** ![Silentgoldfish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e36b37/32.png) [@Silentgoldfish](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silentgoldfish)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2002, 5:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/44 "2002-04-27T17:58:20Z")

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I woulda thought it’d be someone dressed up like a beatle.

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**Author:** ![Nietzsche](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/8dc957/32.png) [@Nietzsche](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nietzsche)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2002, 6:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/45 "2002-04-27T18:06:17Z")

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High heels. The higher, the better. 😃

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**Author:** ![Ashtar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9fc29f/32.png) [@Ashtar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ashtar)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2002, 6:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/46 "2002-04-27T18:12:47Z")

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I like the Japanese ‘Bishounen’ archetype. Characterized most commonly by males with long hair, pale skin, and feminine features. They may or may not also be incredibly strong, or at least well-skilled in combative arts.

And feets! I like cute feets! On males or females!

I dunno if it’s a fetish…I guess more of a personality thing, but if someone is good with animals, my interest in them shoots up tenfold.

I have a sick interest with reading up on and learning about other people’s sexual fetishes. Not to the point of obcession–more of a heavy curiosity. I’ve met people that would make most of you scratch your head in a vain attempt to understand–and the sad part is, some of them I -still- don’t understand. 😃

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**Author:** ![racer72](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/racer72/32/3075_2.png) [@racer72](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/racer72)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2002, 6:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/47 "2002-04-27T18:31:00Z")

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Strawberry blondes with freckles. Wearing a red checked shirt tied at the waist, short shorts, long legs up to…you know where. God has never made an ugly one. For some reason I always end up with brunettes though.

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**Author:** ![Arden\_Ranger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b487fb/32.png) [@Arden\_Ranger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arden_Ranger)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2002, 7:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/48 "2002-04-27T19:53:19Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by Zebra \*  
> \*\*women who are tied up. \*\*

What a coincidence

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**Author:** ![Yumanite](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/b487fb/32.png) [@Yumanite](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yumanite)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2002, 8:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/49 "2002-04-27T20:47:47Z")

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Lab coats. On tall guys with glasses, especially.

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**Author:** ![Freyr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/freyr/32/5763_2.png) [@Freyr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Freyr)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2002, 8:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/50 "2002-04-27T20:49:50Z")

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Male feet. Long, broad feet and toes, with a hint of scent to them.

Beards! I love a good, full, thick beard. Not a ZZ Top stand in mind you, but a nice full one. Likewise, the trend toward goatees and Van Dykes are good.

Long hair on a guy. _woof_ Nothing look sexier than his long locks flowing.

And if you want to know my _really_ kinky fetish… well, email me cause Lynn _et al_ won’t let me do a link to my own porn site.

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**Author:** ![Skerri](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f04885/32.png) [@Skerri](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skerri)\
**Post date:** [April 27, 2002, 9:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/51 "2002-04-27T21:31:01Z")

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IT guys. And shoes.  
Yes, it’s a geek-girl think to have the hots for the IT guys, but since my SO is one, and I have the Hottie IT Guy at work, I have many distractions. Guys talking about operating systems, programs they’ve written, and why this is better than that just facsinates me. Good lord. Get me a fan.

Shoes, on the other hand, are a different story. I own approximately 100 pairs of shoes right now. I don’t know if it’s fetish or obsession (are those one in the same?) but if I see a good pair of shoes, I must have them. I look at shoes online. I look at catalogues. I lust for beautiful shoes that I have nothing to wear with, nor the money to spend on them. I think I may need to join a twelve step program.

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**Author:** ![Gozu\_Tashoya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/7993a0/32.png) [@Gozu\_Tashoya](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gozu_Tashoya)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2002, 10:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/52 "2002-04-28T10:36:49Z")

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Girls in skirts. The shorter the better (the skirts, not the girls), and pleats are nice too.

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**Author:** ![Fern\_Forest](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/71c47a/32.png) [@Fern\_Forest](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fern_Forest)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2002, 10:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/53 "2002-04-28T10:47:31Z")

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Put some thigh-high socks under those skirts and I’m right there with you.

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**Author:** ![Wolfian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/7ea924/32.png) [@Wolfian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wolfian)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2002, 2:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/54 "2002-04-28T14:02:56Z")

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In no particular order:

-red hair (natural or not. Any shade.)  
-green eyes  
-Italians (I don’t know what it is, but whenever I find myself attracted to a girl for no apparent reason she’s usually Italian.)  
-accents (especially UK and New England. I don’t try to explain it, but drop a few r’s, throw in a few “wicked’s”, and I’m puddy.)  
-long hair of any color  
-bare handed spankings (I’ve been so bad…;))  
-I’m a fan of the T & A, but size really doesn’t matter. I’m all over the place.  
-I’m not sure if this is a fetish, but if a girl clamps her thighs tightly around my head while I’m doing my thing downstairs I go crazy.  
-friends. I have a friend fetish. Chances are if you are a female friend of mine I have considered making out with you at least once, probably more.

If only I could find a girl of Italian descent from Wales with long auburn hair, green eyes who enjoys giving and getting spankings and oral sex and was my best friend. Sigh…

> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by Legomancer \*  
> **My first love ever was a busty redheaded cheerleader that went to a Catholic school.**

_thud_ (The sound of me slipping on my own drool.)

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             -drayton
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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [April 29, 2002, 4:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/55 "2002-04-29T16:13:07Z")

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Ooh, I just thought of one. My fiancé is a baseball coach, and he dresses in full baseball player gear for his games. Oh, my. From watching him put on the stockings, tight pants, baseball jersey and ball cap to watching him on the sidelines and thinking “That gorgeous man dressed up like a professional athlete is MINE!!”, it’s all good. Very, very good.

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**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\
**Post date:** [April 29, 2002, 4:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/56 "2002-04-29T16:44:46Z")

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Dresses/tops that bare the shoulders, especially in the spring. When I see an attractive woman dressed like that, especially around now, I want to come up behind her, bu my hands on her shoulders, and run my hands down her arms, right to her fingers. Mmmmmm. 🙂

Ass-length hair. (That’s not the _only_ reason why I drool over **Lucretia** , but it certainly doesn’t hurt. :))

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**Author:** ![Eva\_Luna](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/e495f1/32.png) [@Eva\_Luna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eva_Luna)\
**Post date:** [April 29, 2002, 4:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/57 "2002-04-29T16:51:41Z")

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Brains. Unfortunately, they seem to be rare enough that this could be classified as a fetish.

Also, bonus points for nice cheekbones, hair that is just long enough that the bangs flop into the guys face, musical talent, and foreign language abilities.

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**Author:** ![Zebra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c0e974/32.png) [@Zebra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zebra)\
**Post date:** [April 29, 2002, 5:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/58 "2002-04-29T17:16:01Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by Arden Ranger \*  
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> What a coincidence \*\*

Ok I’m putting you on my list. You got this thing, you got the sword thing…  
You are on my list.

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**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\
**Post date:** [April 29, 2002, 5:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/59 "2002-04-29T17:55:28Z")

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That should be “ **put** my hands on…”

My fingers must’ve been listening to The Voices again as they were typing. They do that. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Gorgon\_Heap](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/f475e1/32.png) [@Gorgon\_Heap](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gorgon_Heap)\
**Post date:** [April 29, 2002, 7:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/60 "2002-04-29T19:20:10Z")

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> [@](#):
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> _Originally posted by Arden Ranger_And fedoras

Now that you mention it, I do frequently get comments about that. Reckon it just isn’t something you usually see on a guy my age.

And **Zebra** , beware **Arden’s** flail!!!

😉

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