# So whats \*YOUR\* fetish? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [April 26, 2002, 1:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692 "2002-04-26T01:47:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![bordelond](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bordelond/32/150_2.png) [@bordelond](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bordelond)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2002, 8:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/61 "2002-04-29T20:05:49Z")
Feet, for sure. Feet with prominent tendons and veins on a woman, to be specific. The more foot and ankle veins, the merrier – it’s impossible to have too many. When such feet come with well-shaped toes (slightly spoon-shaped and longish) and a golden skin tone … look out! Bonus points are scored for the following: - A thick vein that runs from the inner ankle along the inside of the foot and ending near the base of the big toe. - A thick vein that runs right over the outer ankle bone and onto the top of the foot towards the toes. The closer this vein gets to the base of the toes, the better. Sometimes, this vein is forked at the ankle bone, so there are two veins at the outer ankle which combine into one thick vein over the center or outside of the foot. A forked outer ankle vein is especially fetching. - Lots of thin, but visible, veins running criss-cross in close proximity anywhere on the foot. This is most commonly seen forward of the outer ankle bone. Occasionally, a women will a dozen or so thin, blue veins running all over the inside of her foot from heel to ball. - Prominent veins on the inner heel area (rare in non-athletic and young women). - Being able to flex the toes so that five prominent tendons run down the foot, one for each toe (not counting the major tendon that lifts the entire foot). A very few women have a sixth tendon that runs on the outside of the foot, further out than the pinkie toe tendon. - A bony, high arch. When a high-arched girl flexes her foot in a pointed position … rowr! – Any show of foot or toe dexterity. One former girlfriend had me enraptured for an entire night showing me how she could write and draw with her feet. Another girl of my acquaintance used to make her friends laugh with various displays of toe flexibilty, like turning them sideways or cricking them at unusual angles – and man, was that arousing! Along with having especially lean feet, she was blessed amazingly long, supple toes and could even drive (an automatic) with her feet! … A related fetish is veiny hands and forearms, whether through exercise or just natural (though women with vascular forearms who don’t exercise are rare). Small veins that run a little bit up a girl’s fingers are especially beautiful. A tertiary fetish – women with toned triceps and shoulders. Not Arnold-level muscle … just enough so that the tris and deltoids are delineated. Especially hot on women in swimsuits and strapped dressed. ---
**Author:** ![Lightnin](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lightnin/32/180_2.png) [@Lightnin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lightnin)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2002, 8:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/62 "2002-04-29T20:22:32Z")
Having my (shaved) head rubbed. Oh wow. I can’t be held responsible for my actions if this is done to me. Good spelling and grammar. Glasses on a woman. _drool_ Blonde or red hair. _drool_ A _smart_ woman. _drool_ A woman who thinks I’m funny (Hey, it’s rare- therefore a fetish, right? Right?). _drool_ The “athletic” build on a woman. _droo-ah, never mind, you get the idea_ An Irish accent _melts_ me. A woman who ain’t afraid to get dressed up for the Renaissance Faire… _le sigh_ But most of all- a woman who can trade absurdities with me. 😃 Hmm… apparently I need an Irish librarian, who is an amateur masseuse, and into outdoor sports. ---
**Author:** ![Pucette](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/278dde/32.png) [@Pucette](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pucette)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2002, 9:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/63 "2002-04-29T21:07:46Z")
Androgyny. Funny guys. Gorgeous eyes with gorgeous gazes. Ok, so I know these aren’t really fetishes… ---
**Author:** ![Nonny\_Mouse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/5e9695/32.png) [@Nonny\_Mouse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nonny_Mouse)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2002, 10:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/64 "2002-04-29T22:54:35Z")
Plaid flannel shirts. Intelligence and creativity. Long hair. Bonus points if it’s thick and shaggy. Hands - big, with long fingers. Tall skinny guys. Nonny (That’s my name, not my fetish.) ---
**Author:** ![Cosmopolitan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/94ad74/32.png) [@Cosmopolitan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cosmopolitan)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2002, 2:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/65 "2002-04-30T02:17:06Z")
A goatee makes any man more attractive - I dunno why, but I find 'em dead sexy 😉 I’ve tended towards fairly muscular, bald-headed guys lately…I’ve adored a bouncer at one of the college bars since I was a freshman. Yum. I’m also liking them tall lately, although it’s not necessary. Intelligence, facility with language & a wicked sense of humour are all "must"s. Last semester I had a class with a handsome, rather tall, long haired guy. I noticed him from the start & fell in love when I heard him use the word “hegemony” correctly. His wry sense of humour & sensitivity only entranced me further. What a crush I had on that boy. OK, now for my actual FETISH fetish (as in, can’t climax w/o it): Breast play. I, in order to climax, must have my breasts & nipples sucked, rubbed, squeezed, licked, etc. A lot. Actually, make that A LOOOOOOT. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![syncrolecyne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f08c70/32.png) [@syncrolecyne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/syncrolecyne)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2002, 3:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/66 "2002-04-30T03:40:39Z")
_checks to see if anyone he knows is around_[/SIZE] freshly laundered pillowcases :o ---
**Author:** ![Mr\_Salads](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@Mr\_Salads](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr_Salads)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2002, 6:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/67 "2002-04-30T06:33:35Z")
Feet, where the second toe is slightly longer than the big toe. Watch out, ladies. ---
**Author:** ![Batsinma\_Belfry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ea5d25/32.png) [@Batsinma\_Belfry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Batsinma_Belfry)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2002, 6:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/68 "2002-04-30T06:59:26Z")
Long slender man feet but not with monkey toes. Bald heads - shaved or natural Well formed armpits Facial hair of any kind A crooked smile ---
**Author:** ![islandgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/8491ac/32.png) [@islandgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/islandgirl)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2002, 8:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/69 "2002-04-30T20:17:06Z")
**pepperlandgirl** , I agree with you about the hands. I love to see and feel a man’s large, rough hands on me. Rowr! I also have a thing for dark, curly hair on a guy…being able to run my fingers through it, play with it, grab onto it… Whew! Lemm crack open the window a bit… 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Cosmopolitan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/94ad74/32.png) [@Cosmopolitan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cosmopolitan)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2002, 8:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/70 "2002-04-30T20:22:08Z")
I forgot one - long fingers. I love watching certain bass guitarists I know pluck at the bass with their fingers…Mhmm 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![shrew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7ab992/32.png) [@shrew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shrew)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2002, 1:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/71 "2002-05-01T01:10:45Z")
Please allow me to concur with the people saying hands. Nice masculine hands… :shudder: ---
**Author:** ![TN\_hippie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/858c86/32.png) [@TN\_hippie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TN_hippie)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2002, 1:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/72 "2002-05-01T01:23:36Z")
Having sex with someone besides myself. _Especially_ if it’s a girl. * * * with apologies to Richard Pryor, TN\*hippie ---
**Author:** ![El\_Elvis\_Rojo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/898d66/32.png) [@El\_Elvis\_Rojo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/El_Elvis_Rojo)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2002, 6:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/73 "2002-05-01T06:26:38Z")
I came to the conclusion a while back that any woman who can sing me Irish Lullabies will have my heart. ---
**Author:** ![Eva\_Luna](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/e495f1/32.png) [@Eva\_Luna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eva_Luna)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2002, 9:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/74 "2002-05-01T21:33:12Z")
An addition to my previous post, after seeing all the people who mentioned nice hands: actually, an expansion on my lust for people with musical talent, in combination with my love of neckrubs… Every time my VERY CUTE and nice guitar teacher talks in class about “running your fingers up the neck,” I am nearly overcome by lust. Down, girl, down! ---
**Author:** ![Mr\_Salads](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@Mr\_Salads](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr_Salads)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2002, 11:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/75 "2002-05-01T23:07:17Z")
So do women like blue collar hands or a musician’s hands? Hehe… ---
**Author:** ![kellibelli](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e480ec/32.png) [@kellibelli](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kellibelli)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2002, 12:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/76 "2002-05-02T00:25:24Z")
OOOO I love veiny forearms on a man, they remind me of the veins on the penis… and feet, OMG I had a guy suck my toes once, and well, nevermind. My most erotic experience might have been when my ex let me shave his head bald. MMmmmmmmm But, my total fetish is - - - - superheroes, Batman, Spiderman… WOLVERINE \ ---
**Author:** ![TN\_hippie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/858c86/32.png) [@TN\_hippie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TN_hippie)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2002, 2:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/77 "2002-05-02T02:03:51Z")
Okay, okay, I admit it. I love kissing, nibbling, licking, sucking…ANY part of a woman’s body. 100% from head to toe is ideal. Is that a fetish? * * * seemed _natural_ to me, TN\*hippie ---
**Author:** ![shrew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7ab992/32.png) [@shrew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shrew)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2002, 2:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/78 "2002-05-02T02:18:37Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Mr Salads \* > So do women like blue collar hands or a musician’s hands? Hehe… Ah, totally depends on the person. Both can be reeeeally nice. ---
**Author:** ![hillbillyboy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/4bbf92/32.png) [@hillbillyboy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hillbillyboy)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2002, 3:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/79 "2002-05-02T03:32:33Z")
hillbilly queen you forgot to add licking buttholes to heads and armpits. You should have married my dog. ---
**Author:** ![Batsinma\_Belfry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ea5d25/32.png) [@Batsinma\_Belfry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Batsinma_Belfry)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2002, 4:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692/80 "2002-05-02T04:22:14Z")
**hillbillyboy,** Honey is there something you want to say to me? Hmmm? I don’t know you, nor do I want to know you. And I think your comments are best suited for the Pit. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692.md?page=3) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-whats-your-fetish/105692.md?page=5)