# So Who All Is Staying Here?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [March 8, 2009, 3:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704 "2009-03-08T03:47:04Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![E-Sabbath](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/e19adc/32.png) [@E-Sabbath](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/E-Sabbath)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 3:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/101 "2009-03-09T15:38:06Z")

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Waiting to see which ‘wins’, before I make my choice. Probably going somewhere.

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**Author:** ![What\_Exit](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/what_exit/32/10652_2.png) [@What\_Exit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/What_Exit)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 3:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/102 "2009-03-09T15:57:44Z")

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> [@Jodi](#):
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> People have been told they can’t call one another cunts in the Pit, and have decided the Boards are doooooooomed!!!

**Jodi** , do you really believe that is all this is about? If you care to waste some time [read my thread in ATMB](http://209.104.5.198/sdmb/showthread.php?t=509030) (It is civil and Ed has replied to it in kind) and get a better idea of why so many are looking for a new place to hang out most of the time.

> [@twickster](#):
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> Ed Zotti has involved himself more in the day-to-day operation of the Boards, including modding in the Pit. He rather ham-handedly created new rules for the Pit – rules which some objected to as censorship, and others as unclear. Blah blah blah, several hundred active Dopers have moved to one of the new boards. See ATMB for more, if you can stand to read page after page of invective.

Yes, this is a large part of the problem. Thank you \*\*twickster \*\*for at least respecting the reason for the two new boards even if you prefered it never happened.

> [@enipla](#):
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> Anyone have a link to Domebo? I can’t find it.
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> Thanks

I see you got it already. Both Announcements are active in MPSIMS.

> [@twickster](#):
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> There are open threads announcing, and giving links to, domebo and **Giraffe** ’s board – turns out that mentioning them isn’t in and of itself a bannable offense.

We are suppose to avoid direct links and links outside the Announcements threads is what I have been told. TPTB kindly allowed us to start an [announcement](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=509392)thread. Any questions specifically on the boards I think are suppose to be there but I am not sure of that part.

I am not leaving but I am cutting back greatly which will be a relief to many posters I suspect. I think I will mostly be only in the game room for now on.

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**Author:** ![NineToTheSky](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b5a626/32.png) [@NineToTheSky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NineToTheSky)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 4:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/103 "2009-03-09T16:33:02Z")

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> [@twickster](#):
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> There are open threads announcing, and giving links to, domebo and **Giraffe** ’s board – turns out that mentioning them isn’t in and of itself a bannable offense.

It seems to be only \*\*Baldwin \*\*who is forbidden from giving the link, but in thses precarious times, I just thought it wasn’t worth the risk.

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**Author:** ![Marley23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Marley23](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Marley23)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 4:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/104 "2009-03-09T16:35:47Z")

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> [@NineToTheSky](#):
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> It seems to be only \*\*Baldwin \*\*who is forbidden from giving the link, but in thses precarious times, I just thought it wasn’t worth the risk.

If you’re not sure, ask. We don’t have rules against linking anywhere on the face of it. If somebody asks a question about where to find a site there is no issue with linking to it. When you start putting links to one site in every post you make in order to drum up traffic, which is what **Baldwin** was doing (and then ignoring requests to stop), it turns into a moderation issue.

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**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 4:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/105 "2009-03-09T16:37:06Z")

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My understanding is that the problem was that **Baldwin** was doing so gratuitously, and continued to do so after being warned not to.

I do understand not wanting to cross any lines, though, given how hard some of them are to see these days.

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**Author:** ![NineToTheSky](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b5a626/32.png) [@NineToTheSky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NineToTheSky)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 4:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/106 "2009-03-09T16:42:31Z")

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> [@What\_Exit](#):
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> \<snip\>I am not leaving but I am cutting back greatly which will be a relief to many posters I suspect. I think I will mostly be only in the game room for now on.

No relief here. I don’t visit the the Game Room, so you’ll be missed. The loss of people like yourself is what is going to affect this board.

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**Author:** ![Half\_Man\_Half\_Wit](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/half_man_half_wit/32/21766_2.png) [@Half\_Man\_Half\_Wit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Half_Man_Half_Wit)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 4:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/107 "2009-03-09T16:50:17Z")

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> [@NineToTheSky](#):
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> No relief here. I don’t visit the the Game Room, so you’ll be missed. The loss of people like yourself is what is going to affect this board.

Agreed. If this board goes down, it won’t be because of some rule or policy changes, but because of the people leaving. That said, I respect anybody’s decision to leave, even if I can’t fully understand it.

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**Author:** ![Suse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/df705f/32.png) [@Suse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Suse)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 5:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/108 "2009-03-09T17:29:59Z")

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I’m not going anywhere. I’ve visited the other boards and only one has interested me enough to register and post there, but some things I’ve noticed recently has me rethinking about whether or not I want to stay there, too.

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**Author:** ![What\_Exit](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/what_exit/32/10652_2.png) [@What\_Exit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/What_Exit)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 5:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/109 "2009-03-09T17:40:29Z")

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> [@Marley23](#):
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> If you’re not sure, ask. We don’t have rules against linking anywhere on the face of it. If somebody asks a question about where to find a site there is no issue with linking to it. When you start putting links to one site in every post you make in order to drum up traffic, which is what **Baldwin** was doing (and then ignoring requests to stop), it turns into a moderation issue.

Thank you for the clarification. It was uneasy ground for many of us. This is reassuring.

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**Author:** ![yojimbo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/yojimbo/32/232_2.png) [@yojimbo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/yojimbo)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 5:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/110 "2009-03-09T17:53:40Z")

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The boards I know of that have something to do with the dope or have dopers posting on them.

[http://65.69.77.33/forums/index.php](http://65.69.77.33/forums/index.php)  
[http://fff.fathom.org/forums/](http://fff.fathom.org/forums/)  
[http://nadsters.com/nads/](http://nadsters.com/nads/)

> **[The Giraffe Boards](https://www.giraffeboards.com/index.php)**
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> A fun, free message board which isn't actually about giraffes at all.

[http://domebo.net/forum/](http://domebo.net/forum/)

I’m registered on all of them but this is still the place that I think of as home base as it were.

I was sure i wasn’t re-upping last week but Ed seems to be backing off a bit(I couldn’t care less about the c-word, it’s the whole attitude and actions that bothered me). I’m in wait and see mode now.

One way or the other I will read the dope till the day I or it dies.

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**Author:** ![SandyHook](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dec6dc/32.png) [@SandyHook](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SandyHook)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 6:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/111 "2009-03-09T18:26:58Z")

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Yesterday was the first I heard of all this. Gotta start paying more attention.

FWIW, I’m staying though I’ll be checking out domebo and giraffe.

I rarely went into The Pit as most of what went on there seemed to me to be just childish screaming and tantrum throwing.

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**Author:** ![EddyTeddyFreddy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eddyteddyfreddy/32/18796_2.png) [@EddyTeddyFreddy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EddyTeddyFreddy)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 6:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/112 "2009-03-09T18:37:01Z")

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> [@Pochacco](#):
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> So it’s really an open question whether domebo and giraffe will be better than the SDMB, or worse. They both certainly suffer from the handicap of not having a good mechanism to bring in new blood. “The Straight Dope” is a moderately well-known brand. That and SDMB’s longevity makes it much easier for random newbies to stumble on the forums.

Funny you should mention that. Domebo just registered its 800th member.

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**Author:** ![Arnold\_Winkelried](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Arnold\_Winkelried](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arnold_Winkelried)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 6:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/113 "2009-03-09T18:53:32Z")

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I’m not posting as much as I used to, but I’ll still be here. This is not the first board drama I’ve seen with well-known posters leaving and starting other boards. And maybe it won’t be the last. I’m sure the SDMB will survive.

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**Author:** ![Eleanor\_of\_Aquitaine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/a88e4f/32.png) [@Eleanor\_of\_Aquitaine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eleanor_of_Aquitaine)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 6:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/114 "2009-03-09T18:53:47Z")

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I registered (uninvited) at domebo but I haven’t posted there yet. I’m sad about the splintering. I don’t have time to lurk on three boards, much less post to three. I will probably end up wherever the best Cafe Society forum is, since that’s where I spend most of my time.

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**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 7:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/115 "2009-03-09T19:02:43Z")

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> [@Eleanor\_of\_Aquitaine](#):
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> I registered (uninvited) at domebo but I haven’t posted there yet. I’m sad about the splintering. I don’t have time to lurk on three boards, much less post to three. I will probably end up wherever the best Cafe Society forum is, since that’s where I spend most of my time.

At least hang around for the Musicals Group – _It’s Always Fair Weather_ is coming up, followed by _Guys and Dolls_ …

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**Author:** ![aldiboronti](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9fc348/32.png) [@aldiboronti](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/aldiboronti)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 7:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/116 "2009-03-09T19:15:17Z")

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I’m staying.

I still love this place and have never had any major problems with the moderation here. I have registered at the Giraffe board out of curiosity, and because I always liked **Giraffe** as a mod, but I have no plans to switch. Domebo, with its cute avatars and garish colors (sickly yellow for mod posts), I took one look at and thought no thank you.

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**Author:** ![What\_Exit](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/what_exit/32/10652_2.png) [@What\_Exit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/What_Exit)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 7:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/117 "2009-03-09T19:24:38Z")

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> [@aldiboronti](#):
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> I’m staying.
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> I still love this place and have never had any major problems with the moderation here. I have registered at the Giraffe board out of curiosity, and because I always liked **Giraffe** as a mod, but I have no plans to switch. Domebo, with its cute avatars and garish colors (sickly yellow for mod posts), I took one look at and thought no thank you.

Just to clarify, you have a choice in the User Control to \*\*turn off Avatars \*\*and to \*\*choose one of 4 skins/themes/board styles \*\*so that there is probably one you would like. If that was your only reason to avoid domebo, you might want to give it another look with that in mind. It costs only about 4 minutes to sign up for free and explore the options and add your own input.

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**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 7:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/118 "2009-03-09T19:32:38Z")

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**What Exit?** – I’m a little bothered that you’re using this thread, which is oriented towards people who aren’t planning to leave the Dope, to recruit members for another board.

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**Author:** ![Idle\_Thoughts](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/838e76/32.png) [@Idle\_Thoughts](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Idle_Thoughts)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 7:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/119 "2009-03-09T19:34:51Z")

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I’m always going to stay, although I do love message boards and (even before the creations of the other SDMB-like places) am a member of a lot of them…so of course I signed up for these two, too.

But I won’t be ever leaving this place.

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**Author:** ![What\_Exit](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/what_exit/32/10652_2.png) [@What\_Exit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/What_Exit)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 7:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/so-who-all-is-staying-here/488704/120 "2009-03-09T19:40:35Z")

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> [@twickster](#):
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> **What Exit?** – I’m a little bothered that you’re using this thread, which is oriented towards people who aren’t planning to leave the Dope, to recruit members for another board.

I understand your complaint, but I also think it would be unfair to allow information that was false to stand without correction. \*\*aldiboronti \*\*was apparently unaware of options that both boards provide.

I am sorry, but I thought factually correcting mistakes was something we did in every forum of the Dope.

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