# Solosam, you are a lazy liar **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [March 10, 2013, 3:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524 "2013-03-10T03:17:22Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 12
**Author:** ![gamerunknown](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/6bbea6/32.png) [@gamerunknown](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gamerunknown)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2013, 7:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/221 "2013-03-12T19:28:57Z")
> [@Troppus](#): > > That’s why it’s important to restrict one’s sexual activities to trustworthy partners with whom these matters have been hashed out and agreed upon beforehand. Your inability to get pregnant and carry a child to term is not a handicap. It’s a perk. Revel in it. The consequences of sleeping with partners with whom these agreements have not been hashed out beforehand are much more severe for men than women though, assuming only one partner in the relationship desires an abortion. > [@Anaamika](#): > > 1. On page 3 someone brings back the abortion/men’s rights debate randomly, without reading the thread. This could be in reference to cmoore. I’ve read the pit thread, though not the thread linked by the OP. I just didn’t really have anything to say about it. ---
**Author:** ![Biffy\_the\_Elephant\_Shrew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e47c2d/32.png) [@Biffy\_the\_Elephant\_Shrew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Biffy_the_Elephant_Shrew)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2013, 7:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/222 "2013-03-12T19:37:10Z")
I would just like to point out that I have not posted in this thread. Regards, **Buffy the Naked Mole Rat** ---
**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2013, 7:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/223 "2013-03-12T19:43:19Z")
> [@Anaamika](#): > > 1. Possible sock names (i’ve been trying to think of one for myself!) Yours is too hard so I’m going with Richard Nixons sock, “ **I am not a book**.” And I am definitely not a sock of any of the other smurfs. ---
**Author:** ![Troppus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a587f6/32.png) [@Troppus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Troppus)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2013, 7:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/224 "2013-03-12T19:54:25Z")
> [@gamerunknown](#): > > The consequences of sleeping with partners with whom these agreements have not been hashed out beforehand are much more severe for men than women though, assuming only one partner in the relationship desires an abortion. Is it now? Do share. ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2013, 8:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/225 "2013-03-12T20:37:37Z")
Getting pregnant is not a severe consequence? Being saddled with a baby is not a severe consequence? Probably sacrificing a good part of my career for child care is not a consequence? Boo-hoo, you men have to pay child support for the baby you formed. I empathized with you right up until that statement. Honestly though you cannot talk fairly about mens’ parental rights in a society where birth control and abortion are both looked down upon and there is still abstinence education and people still recoil in horror at the idea of teens having sex, rather than providing them with the education and tools to deal with it. Can’t we just go back to the funny? ---
**Author:** ![Troppus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a587f6/32.png) [@Troppus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Troppus)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2013, 9:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/226 "2013-03-12T21:20:01Z")
> [@Anaamika](#): > > Can’t we just go back to the funny? Shit, the idea that birth control, pregancy, childbirth, and child rearing is tougher on the man is the funniest thing in the thread so far. ---
**Author:** ![Skypist](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skypist/32/169_2.png) [@Skypist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skypist)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2013, 9:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/227 "2013-03-12T21:46:18Z")
> [@gamerunknown](#): > > The consequences of sleeping with partners with whom these agreements have not been hashed out beforehand are much more severe for men than women though, assuming only one partner in the relationship desires an abortion. > > This could be in reference to cmoore. I’ve read the pit thread, though not the thread linked by the OP. I just didn’t really have anything to say about it. The man should be aware of the fact that the woman he’s having sex with could get pregnant and have the baby or abort the baby without his having any say. If that bothers him, then maybe he should DO something about that to reduce or eliminate his risk, like using a condom or not having sex at that time. ---
**Author:** ![Malthus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/85f322/32.png) [@Malthus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Malthus)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2013, 10:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/228 "2013-03-12T22:43:01Z")
> [@Anaamika](#): > > 1. Possible sock names (i’ve been trying to think of one for myself!) Yours is easy: “One without a name”, from the TV show. Do me! I want one too! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Morbo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/morbo/32/389_2.png) [@Morbo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morbo)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2013, 10:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/229 "2013-03-12T22:56:32Z")
> [@Malthus](#): > > Do me! I want one too! 😃 Buenthus? Condorcet? 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Malthus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/85f322/32.png) [@Malthus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Malthus)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2013, 11:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/230 "2013-03-12T23:07:29Z")
> [@Morbo](#): > > Buenthus? Condorcet? 🙂 “Condorcet” is perfect. I have my sock name! 🆒 For “Morbo” I suggest “The Annihilator” (too easy?) ---
**Author:** ![Meatros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b4bc9f/32.png) [@Meatros](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Meatros)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2013, 11:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/231 "2013-03-12T23:08:58Z")
> [@Anaamika](#): > > This thread is awesome. We have: > > 1. Sock accusations flung willy-nilly. > 2. \*\* Lone cashew \*\* flaming out spectacularly, bringing up a sexual violation w/regards to **Diosa** , which is not funny, but her responses are brilliant, especially combined with **ladyfoxfire** and **mrswhatsit**. > 3. **Lone cashew** flinging fugly insults everywhere and accusing you message board users of not having a life, while he posts on the same message board. And then something about his mother? > 4. Every once in a while **Left Hand of Dorkness** comes in and mournfully posts about how no one is listening to him or pitting the right person. > 5. **AU \*\* and** BigT\*\* seem to have a completely separate discussion that no one else is privy to going on. > 6. On page 3 someone brings back the abortion/men’s rights debate randomly, without reading the thread. > 7. Possible sock names (i’ve been trying to think of one for myself!) > 8.\*\* Giraffe \*\* making his normal sleazy jokes (not that there’s a problem with that). > > I love it. Thanks for the entertainment, guys! I wish to use your skills of summarization in other threads… 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Morbo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/morbo/32/389_2.png) [@Morbo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morbo)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2013, 11:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/232 "2013-03-12T23:29:48Z")
> [@Malthus](#): > > For “Morbo” I suggest “The Annihilator” (too easy?) Along those lines I was thinking “Orbmo the Rebuilder.” ---
**Author:** ![Tom\_Scud](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f08c70/32.png) [@Tom\_Scud](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tom_Scud)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2013, 11:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/233 "2013-03-12T23:46:45Z")
I guess mine could be **George Katyusha**. ---
**Author:** ![IvoryTowerDenizen](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ivorytowerdenizen/32/17937_2.png) [@IvoryTowerDenizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/IvoryTowerDenizen)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 12:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/234 "2013-03-13T00:28:08Z")
Mine could be **living\_in\_hell** … oh, wait. Nevermind. Nothing to see here folks. ---
**Author:** ![74westy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/74westy/32/3950_2.png) [@74westy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/74westy)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 1:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/235 "2013-03-13T01:51:13Z")
99Plymouth ---
**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 2:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/236 "2013-03-13T02:01:41Z")
**Decideable** ehh… ---
**Author:** ![ladyfoxfyre](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ad7895/32.png) [@ladyfoxfyre](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ladyfoxfyre)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 2:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/237 "2013-03-13T02:11:22Z")
**Ambivalego**? ---
**Author:** ![Troppus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a587f6/32.png) [@Troppus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Troppus)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 2:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/238 "2013-03-13T02:25:46Z")
> [@Ambivalid](#): > > **Decideable** > > ehh… win ---
**Author:** ![FordPrefect](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e99b99/32.png) [@FordPrefect](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FordPrefect)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 2:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/239 "2013-03-13T02:27:21Z")
> [@Anaamika](#): > > … > I love it. Thanks for the entertainment, guys! Hear! Hear! After catching up in the JOSH pit (Or is it a smiley convention?)\* I was lamenting a good pitting. Fortunately, I found it in this thread. Kinda messy with the splattered remains of MRA “brain” matter but still a fun read. \*Did I just make this about someone else now? :eek: ---
**Author:** ![April\_R](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3da27b/32.png) [@April\_R](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/April_R)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 2:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/240 "2013-03-13T02:38:46Z")
if you end up dragging “her” into this I may never forgive you 😛 [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524.md?page=11) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524.md?page=13)