# Solosam, you are a lazy liar **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [March 10, 2013, 3:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524 "2013-03-10T03:17:22Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 14
**Author:** ![Inner\_Stickler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inner_stickler/32/318_2.png) [@Inner\_Stickler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inner_Stickler)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 3:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/261 "2013-03-13T15:13:34Z")
> [@Anaamika](#): > > So suck it, you fugly bitch! [Aww.](http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mbjpkahL7S1ran3jeo1_500.gif) ---
**Author:** ![FordPrefect](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e99b99/32.png) [@FordPrefect](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FordPrefect)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 3:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/262 "2013-03-13T15:18:04Z")
> [@ladyfoxfyre](#): > > Who cares if you did it right. You’re probably a slut anyway. All this lady-on-lady slut shaming is hawt, hawt, hawt! What does that say about me? Probably nothing good ☹ ---
**Author:** ![August\_West](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/august_west/32/18069_2.png) [@August\_West](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/August_West)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 4:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/263 "2013-03-13T16:10:57Z")
> [@Anaamika](#): > > This thread is awesome. We have: > > 1. Possible sock names (i’ve been trying to think of one for myself!) > > I love it. Thanks for the entertainment, guys! Bnbbmikb? 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Gyrate](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gyrate/32/3588_2.png) [@Gyrate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gyrate)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 4:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/264 "2013-03-13T16:31:15Z")
> [@MsWhatsit](#): > > Sluts! Anonymous sluts! Meaty sluts! Everywhere I look, sluts! Down with sluts! > > Slutty slutting sluts. I wish to subscribe to your newsletter. ---
**Author:** ![Malthus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/85f322/32.png) [@Malthus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Malthus)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 5:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/265 "2013-03-13T17:39:48Z")
> [@Gyrate](#): > > I wish to subscribe to your newsletter. It’s more of a _magazine_, actually. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Euphonious\_Polemic](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/euphonious_polemic/32/3002_2.png) [@Euphonious\_Polemic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Euphonious_Polemic)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 5:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/266 "2013-03-13T17:47:25Z")
> [@Malthus](#): > > It’s more of a _magazine_, actually. 😃 If it’s about women, shouldn’t it be a periodical? ---
**Author:** ![Troppus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a587f6/32.png) [@Troppus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Troppus)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 5:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/267 "2013-03-13T17:59:49Z")
Maybe a news segment. Fox news CT already has some stock boob footage to accompany the slutfest: [Fox CT's Women's Day Coverage Is Mostly Just A Single Shot Of Breasts (VIDEO) | HuffPost Entertainment](http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/03/13/fox-cts-womens-day-coverage-is-single-shot-of-breasts_n_2867871.html?utm_hp_ref=comedy) ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 6:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/268 "2013-03-13T18:27:15Z")
> [@Euphonious\_Polemic](#): > > If it’s about women, shouldn’t it be a periodical? Try the veal, he’ll be here all week. You slutty sluts. ---
**Author:** ![Ostrya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/35a633/32.png) [@Ostrya](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ostrya)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 7:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/269 "2013-03-13T19:27:22Z")
She is not worth her own thread, this was enough wasted time - but I thought this should be brought to attention since PlainJain likes to call names and participate in pile-ons. This is an example of the kind of garbage I write when I get loaded. After writing the quote below, to then make fun of myself for what I had done, sent a private message to my friend (SWB) telling her that I needed to quit drinking and this a good example of why - wasting time building someone up who is the kind of person that likes to put people down. Someone who is a phoney. Anyways, here’s what I wrote because I was drunk. Did not want to admit at the time for the reason that the particular thread about giving up booze. What a load of crap! > [@I'm giving up alcohol. What should I expect?](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/im-giving-up-alcohol-what-should-i-expect/636170/36): > > I know I have given you hassles in the past but have come to respect you as the quality poster you are. Kudos to you for staying off the alcohol. I myself quit for 2 yrs but that was a couple yrs ago. I know what it took for me to quit that long, wasn’t easy to be consistent. > > Good luck to you, PlainJain. I had previously hassled Ms. Jain for her bogus pics, did so when she was attempting to pile-on one of my friends. From the context of her posts in that particular thread, felt that she needed to be called out. You may like ms. Plain but she is a phoney. Take a look at these posts below.. > [@On another topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/516920/435): > > You have a picture listed as PlainJain that is stolen from photographer Anna Melnikova. Here is her site with the picture listed: [http://www.flickr.com/photos/courvuasier/3326753380/in/set-72157613378699378/](http://www.flickr.com/photos/courvuasier/3326753380/in/set-72157613378699378/) > [@On another topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/516920/436): > > Maybe **PlainJain** actually is Anna Melnikova? > [@On another topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/516920/437): > > I looked at both. The official photographer’s picture was labeled as being part of what seems to be a picture-a-day project, and was posted last year. **PlainJain** ’s photo is described as having been taken seven or eight years ago. This makes me go :dubious:. > [@On another topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/516920/440): > > No, she’s not. > [@On another topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/516920/443): > > Honestly, I don’t get why people are sending in anything but real photos of themselves. The whole point of this is to be a collection of actual photos of actual members; if you don’t have a photo of yourself you like, what’s so damned hard about just not sending anything? > [@On another topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/516920/480): > > It’s been over a month and the picture is still there. Does Anna need to contact you again to have you remove the copyrighted photo? She said she emailed you once already. > > Ms Plainjain took that from Anna’s Flickr page but I doubt she owns up to it. I looked at her email address on her contact page here and she has her own Flickr account with a picture of another girl she says is her and that is a copyrighted picture too. > > Please remove Anna’s picture from your gallery posthaste. > [@On another topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/516920/485): > > I’ll gladly owe up to it. As a graphic artistic I have thousands of images I have collected for reference etc. I can assure you the pic that was uploaded was done so by mistake. As soon as I was aware of it I wrote **Arnold Winkelried** and asked him to make the change to a photo of myself that I submitted. It never happened. > > I have never knowingly used a pic without permission and I extend my apologies to Anna. The over-reaction to this is quite surprising. The nasty names I have been called in PMs is depressing. I’ve deleted the link I’ve sent to AW so I can take a pic holding a newspaper or something to prove I’m who I am, but sheesh peeps chill a little. Mistakes happen. > [@On another topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/516920/487): > > I’m sorry, but I do not believe you. Your email address on your profile shows your real email address which connects one with your real flicker account. Until today you had a picture that you claimed was you that was also a copyrighted picture. Now that picture has now been conveniently deleted. You said it was emo you and it was of a 20 something girl with a hello kitty doll. It has been used on hundreds of websites. > > I think you wanted people to believe you were Anna so you used her picture. You removed her initials from the picture. If you really saved her picture for some reason and labeled it wrong why would you remove her initials? > [@On another topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/516920/488): > > This is the picture you had on your flickr account and have now deleted. You had it labeled as a picture of you in your emo mood. I found the picture using Bing. > > [http://i982.photobucket.com/albums/ae310/xxpunk666xx/emo-girl1.jpg](http://i982.photobucket.com/albums/ae310/xxpunk666xx/emo-girl1.jpg) > [@On another topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/516920/489): > > Uploading the wrong photo, sure, I can see that. Whoops, accidentally selected Picture0011 instead of Picture0012. You accidentally provided a photo of a girl holding a fancy-looking camera with the caption stating that you took it during your photographer phase, too? Also, you said you have different hair as well, which doesn’t say much, but does at least say that you then, and the girl in the photo that you accidentally uploaded, have hair dissimilar to the way you wear it now. > [@On another topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/516920/490): > > That is your prerogative. And I’m not interested in explaining it to you in any more detail after this post. I did _not_ get that photo from her site. If memory serves me correctly, I got it from a site of collected self-portraits. I can certainly assure you I did not alter it in any way including deleting any names or initials. I have no reason to - pics in my morgue file are for reference only and it’s quite a common practice for graphic artist. I’m sure there are literally thousands of sites where that pic now resides. > > The other pic you speak of was titled “EMO me” where I found it. I sometimes use that Flicker account to point clients to examples of graphics examples for clarity. Calling me a liar without knowing me or how I conduct my personal and professional affairs or without knowing the details of how this happened is bad form. As I explained, this mistake resulted from JPGs with similar file names. > > The email I sent to AW (weeks ago) was the one listed in [his profile](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/sendmessage.php?do=mailmember). > > Jain > [@On another topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/516920/508): > > Why is the stolen picture still up representing **PlainJain**? > [@On another topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/516920/510): > > I’m interested to see what her explanation is, as well. > [@On another topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/516920/514): > > Looking forward to seeing what you look like, **NinetyWt** 🙂 > > [temporary hijack] Concerning the bogus **PlainJain** pic, she has even written a caption to represent the stolen pic. When called out here in this thread, she has denied stealing the pic adamantly and insists that she sent in the wrong pic by mistake. But she can’t explain the caption she wrote because clearly this was no accident > > This is definitely grounds for a pitting. I would do it myself, don’t usually participate in that forum. However, I have no experience at it and I figure by the time I got it organized, Arnold W. will have amended the evidence. > > It’s people like this though who give the internet a bad name, and the SDMB should call out blantant phonies like this whenever they are discovered, we don’t need 'em here. [/thj] PlainJain, one of too many here who get off on pile-ons, had her picture added to the gallery back in December of the previous yr, as can be seen [here](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=11914316&postcount=303) Not only was the picture up for over four months, and strangely enough, she never cked the gallery to see the pic. Does that make sense to anyone? In fact, Jain wasn’t the one to discover her pic was fake, it was someone who discovered our message board, joined the board, exclusively to address the copyrighted pic. Not only that, but the picture of the attractive blonde woman who was not PlainJain, was pointing a camera pointed at a mirror, with the caption that ms. Plain wrote supported the pic, mentioning that the pic was taken during her "photography phase. Also, does it make sense that if someone simply and by accident sent the wrong pic, and upon discovering the mistake, wouldn’t then go ahead and **send the original pic - the one that they intended?** ---
**Author:** ![MsWhatsit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/eb8c5e/32.png) [@MsWhatsit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MsWhatsit)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 7:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/270 "2013-03-13T19:30:29Z")
Interesting strategy to make everyone stop talking about your sock puppetry. Let us know how that works out for you. ---
**Author:** ![wonky](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wonky/32/393_2.png) [@wonky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wonky)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 7:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/271 "2013-03-13T19:31:45Z")
I take it then that the dope is no longer hysterical about socks. I consider that a plus, even if the subject of the largess is an idiot. ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 7:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/272 "2013-03-13T19:34:16Z")
That’s nice and all, lone cashew, and probably worthy of its own Pit thread, but it doesn’t belong here. ---
**Author:** ![GrandWino](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grandwino/32/67_2.png) [@GrandWino](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GrandWino)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 7:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/273 "2013-03-13T19:39:13Z")
> [@the lone cashew](#): > > Also, does it make sense that if someone simply and by accident sent the wrong pic, and upon discovering the mistake, wouldn’t then go ahead and **send the original pic - the one that they intended?** You’re unhinged, Sam. ---
**Author:** ![Inner\_Stickler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inner_stickler/32/318_2.png) [@Inner\_Stickler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inner_Stickler)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 7:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/274 "2013-03-13T19:39:16Z")
Yawn, old drama. Cashew’s still a goatfelcher. (Remember when that used to be a thing? I remember when you couldn’t go two threads in the pit without someone being accused of felching.) ---
**Author:** ![gamerunknown](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/6bbea6/32.png) [@gamerunknown](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gamerunknown)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 7:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/275 "2013-03-13T19:41:43Z")
> [@Troppus](#): > > Shit, the idea that birth control, pregancy, childbirth, and child rearing is tougher on the man is the funniest thing in the thread so far. > [@Troppus](#): > > Is it now? Do share. Here’s what I said earlier: > [@gamerunknown](#): > > The consequences of sleeping with partners with whom these agreements have not been hashed out beforehand are much more severe for men than women though, assuming only one partner in the relationship desires an abortion. Of course, if neither party desire an abortion, the woman is put out (whether the man supports the child or not). Especially in the US, which has pretty lacklustre maternity leave compared to other countries and afaik no scheme for subsidising childcare. If both desire an abortion, the woman is more put out, since she has to undergo a fairly serious medical procedure. However, if the woman wants an abortion and the man doesn’t, there’s essentially nothing the man can do about it. Fair play in that case. If the man desires the woman undergo an abortion and she doesn’t, he has to support the child financially for the next eighteen years. Sure, the actual child rearing is more of a feat, but voluntarily acceded to. Not so in the man’s case. I also feel that the language used mirrors that of opponents of abortion _in toto_ - either have sex with people you can trust or keep an aspirin between your legs. There should be contingencies available for marginal cases, both for men and women. ---
**Author:** ![DiosaBellissima](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a8b319/32.png) [@DiosaBellissima](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DiosaBellissima)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 7:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/276 "2013-03-13T19:55:30Z")
Sooo, is **Cashew** arguing that he’s still loaded? Also, this is funny: > [@the lone cashew](#): > > This is an example of the kind of garbage I write when I get loaded. After writing the quote below, to then make fun of myself for what I had done, sent a private message to my friend (SWB) telling her that I needed to quit drinking and this a good example of why - wasting time building someone up who is the kind of person that likes to put people down. Someone who is a phoney. Why? Because several female Dopers have PM’ed me since this thread started, telling me about how over the years, they’ve received tons of creepy as fuck messages from our nutty friend, with him even offering to fly to come date them. Maybe lay off the PMing chicks, bud. ---
**Author:** ![Inner\_Stickler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inner_stickler/32/318_2.png) [@Inner\_Stickler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inner_Stickler)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 7:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/277 "2013-03-13T19:56:47Z")
Sure. Loaded with bullshit. ---
**Author:** ![wonky](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wonky/32/393_2.png) [@wonky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wonky)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 7:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/278 "2013-03-13T19:59:02Z")
> [@DiosaBellissima](#): > > Sooo, is **Cashew** arguing that he’s still loaded? Five bullets short of a revolver? ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 8:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/279 "2013-03-13T20:00:18Z")
> [@DiosaBellissima](#): > > Sooo, is **Cashew** arguing that he’s still loaded? > > Also, this is funny: > Why? Because several female Dopers have PM’ed me since this thread started, telling me about how over the years, they’ve received tons of creepy as fuck messages from our nutty friend, with him even offering to fly to come date them. Maybe lay off the PMing chicks, bud. What?! I never got a single creepy message from him. I feel totally left out. Why, am I not pretty? ---
**Author:** ![DiosaBellissima](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a8b319/32.png) [@DiosaBellissima](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DiosaBellissima)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2013, 8:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524/280 "2013-03-13T20:01:19Z")
> [@Anaamika](#): > > What?! I never got a single creepy message from him. I feel totally left out. Why, am I not pretty? If he hasn’t PM’ed you with an offer to fly to you to take you out to dinner, the only logical conclusion is that you’re a fugly slut bitch. Sorry to have to be the one to break it to ya. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524.md?page=13) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/solosam-you-are-a-lazy-liar/652524.md?page=15)