# Some good thoughts please.

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share
**Created:** [November 13, 2008, 10:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515 "2008-11-13T10:26:31Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
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### Author: ![irishgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/8edcca/32.png) [@irishgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/irishgirl)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 10:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/1 "2008-11-13T10:26:31Z")

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I’m somewhere between 4+3 and 5 weeks pregnant.  
I’m bleeding a little, and I’m scared.

It’s so early I’ve been trying not to get excited, but I want this to work out.  
I feel sick and tired (which is good) and so far, no pain (which is also good).  
I’m going to the hospital this afternoon.

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### Author: ![Sticks\_and\_Scones](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sticks_and_scones/32/16951_2.png) [@Sticks\_and\_Scones](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sticks_and_Scones)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 10:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/2 "2008-11-13T10:43:19Z")

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{{{ **irishgirl** }}}

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### Author: ![Gyrate](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gyrate/32/3588_2.png) [@Gyrate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gyrate)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 10:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/3 "2008-11-13T10:44:12Z")

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Good thoughts and virtual hugs coming your way.

A little bleeding during pregnancy is not necessarily a sign of something wrong, but it’s always good to get it checked out.

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### Author: ![irishgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/8edcca/32.png) [@irishgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/irishgirl)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 10:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/4 "2008-11-13T10:59:12Z")

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Ok phoned the hospital- they say it sounds like implantation bleeding and just to sit tight- they want to see me next week when there is more chance of seeing a foetal heart.

I’m only to come in if bleeding is heavy or I’m in pain.  
So I suppose that’s reassurring- but waiting is not so fun.

I really hope this one is sticky.

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### Author: ![Gyrate](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gyrate/32/3588_2.png) [@Gyrate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gyrate)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 11:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/5 "2008-11-13T11:06:43Z")

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My wife had a little bleeding early on in her pregnancy and had had a few miscarriages previously. We now have a wonderful three-month-old daughter.

Good luck to you, and think positive thoughts.

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### Author: ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 11:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/6 "2008-11-13T11:29:33Z")

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I know both The Nephew and The Niece involved a bit of bleeding at about one month. He turned 3yo this past October 18, she turned 1mo four days later.

_happy sticky thoughts, happy sticky thoughts_

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### Author: ![Kal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9de053/32.png) [@Kal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kal)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 12:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/7 "2008-11-13T12:10:50Z")

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I’m sending you every good thought I can spare. Good luck.

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### Author: ![Auntbeast](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Auntbeast](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Auntbeast)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 12:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/8 "2008-11-13T12:39:31Z")

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I wish I could link to you my first sonogram. It was taken about the same time you are at now. I had bleeding and we went to check if it was viable.

She is 3 now. I just put her hair up in pigtails and sent her to school.

Is the blood brown or red?

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### Author: ![Rebo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rebo/32/13005_2.png) [@Rebo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rebo)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 12:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/9 "2008-11-13T12:59:18Z")

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{{{ **Irishgirl** }}}  
:: rushing Doper sticky thoughts to you! ::

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### Author: ![Cub\_Mistress](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ea666f/32.png) [@Cub\_Mistress](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cub_Mistress)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 1:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/10 "2008-11-13T13:07:48Z")

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Good thoughts coming your way ~~~~~~~.

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### Author: ![Cazzle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cazzle/32/75_2.png) [@Cazzle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cazzle)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 1:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/11 "2008-11-13T13:32:43Z")

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Sticky thoughts for you!

Just last week I had a visit from gorgeous two month old Miss Molly, who kept us all on the edge of our seats for the first three months of her incubation with regular bleeds, but for all that came our hale and hearty and cute to boot. Our diagnosis: drama queen. We suspect she just liked the attention, and showing off for the ultrasounds.

Hoping you’ve got a sticky little drama queen of your own.

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### Author: ![TroubleAgain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e480ec/32.png) [@TroubleAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TroubleAgain)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 2:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/12 "2008-11-13T14:51:45Z")

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Well, now that beta-chan doesn’t need my sticky thoughts, I’ll send them your way!

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### Author: ![Khadaji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Khadaji](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khadaji)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 3:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/13 "2008-11-13T15:11:56Z")

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Sending supporting thoughts your way! I hope it works out for you.

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### Author: ![C3](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/c3/32/3108_2.png) [@C3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/C3)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 3:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/14 "2008-11-13T15:16:46Z")

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Sticky thoughts headed your way from here, too!

I have lupus and a history of miscarriage (and you gave me great advice and kind words through the last miscarriage and both of my successful pregnancies). I had bleeding early on when I was pregnant with my second son - scared the crap out of me, but it turned out to be nothing. The waiting is really hard, though…take care of yourself and indulge in a little comfort pampering.

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### Author: ![What\_Exit](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/what_exit/32/10652_2.png) [@What\_Exit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/What_Exit)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 3:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/15 "2008-11-13T15:19:07Z")

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Good Luck and Good Wishes **irishgirl**.

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### Author: ![dawson](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac91a4/32.png) [@dawson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dawson)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 3:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/16 "2008-11-13T15:20:33Z")

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Best of luck Irishgirl! My wife is in the same boat and we’re keeping our fingers crossed that we’ll have some news to tell at Christmas dinner this year.

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### Author: ![shantih](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f6c823/32.png) [@shantih](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shantih)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 4:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/17 "2008-11-13T16:18:29Z")

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Good luck to you, **irishgirl**!! Sending sticky thoughts your way – the greatest likelihood is that everything will be just fine, and that this is just a normal part of the early process. Just take care of yourself and do something nice for yourself to take your mind off it all and help yourself relax.

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### Author: ![Shayna](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/shayna/32/17976_2.png) [@Shayna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shayna)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 4:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/18 "2008-11-13T16:27:21Z")

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Sending you sticky thoughts and best wishes!

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### Author: ![overlyverbose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/9dc877/32.png) [@overlyverbose](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/overlyverbose)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 4:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/19 "2008-11-13T16:39:29Z")

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Best wishes to you! Try not to drive yourself nuts thinking about it. I totally know what you’re going through - I also had bleeding with my son at 7 weeks and it turned out to be nothing. They did an internal ultrasound and there he was, a little alien-like tadpole, little arm buds and everything. It still scared the ripe shit out of me, and I couldn’t stop researching it until my husband dragged me out of the house and away from my computer. Good luck!!

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### Author: ![Throatwarbler\_Mangrove](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8c91f0/32.png) [@Throatwarbler\_Mangrove](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Throatwarbler_Mangrove)
#### Post date: [November 13, 2008, 4:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/some-good-thoughts-please/472515/20 "2008-11-13T16:39:31Z")

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Isn’t **irishgirl** actually a doctor?

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