# Something I need to get off my chest about the SD Board **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [September 1, 2002, 12:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497 "2002-09-01T00:06:46Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![lynn73](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ebca7d/32.png) [@lynn73](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lynn73)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 12:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/1 "2002-09-01T00:06:46Z")
I just need to say that I’ve found that there are some very rude, hateful people on this board. At least that’s how they come across to me. I’m a Christian and have no animosity toward these people. All I’ve done is dared to disagree with them. I’ve been called names and accused of lying and who knows what all. There are, however, some nice people who can talk without resorting to these tactics. It seems as this is their turf and heaven help anyone who dares to take an opposing view on anything. Oh yeah, and any source you name is automatically a fraud or the person is lying, whereas if it’s their source then, of course, it must be true. I think they need to learn that not everyone coming to this board is going to agree with their position on various issues, maybe for a variety of reasons. No matter what you tell them, they are right and your are wrong. I share what the Bible says about something, they don’t accept that. I share another source with them who knows what she’s talking about, they don’t accept that. Well, ya know, that’s their privilege. But I’ve got a right to be here too, and voice my opinion and I don’t have to agree with them. People should be able to disagree amicably even if they don’t accept the other person’s reason for disagreeing. Resorting to name calling and hatefulness is childish in my opinion. I don’t know if I picked the right forum for this as I really don’t want to flame anyone. If this is the wrong forum, my apoligies. ---
**Author:** ![dalovindj](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/65b543/32.png) [@dalovindj](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dalovindj)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 12:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/2 "2002-09-01T00:15:43Z")
Cite? ---
**Author:** ![Sparc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/65b543/32.png) [@Sparc](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sparc)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 12:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/3 "2002-09-01T00:29:37Z")
I think you’re in the right forum. I haven’t followed all of what you have been going through in GD so I can’t say for certain that I am right. My impression is however that the flack you are being fired with comes largely from the fact that you are debating with pathos and blatantly refusing to back up what you say. Even religion is treated with a certain erudite intellectualism around here. I must say that I was rather interested at first to follow a reasonable debate about Chick Tracts, which I personally consider absolute hogwash and at times even offensive. Already your first reply in that thread made me cringe. Instead of furnishing the boards with some kind of reasonable input from a fan perspective you have just repeatedly asserted your right to believe in your God in your way. That’s fine I guess, but it won’t get you any respect around here. Some explanation of the tracts and some reasonable arguments towards why they serve a purpose in a Christian belief system might have gotten you further. That being said I think you’ll have to expect to get your chain yanked on the SDMB when your world pivots around literature that is the quintessential opposite of reason, no matter what you say. Your whining about that you have been asked for cites in GD in the newbie thread in IMHO indicates to me that you have no understanding of what this place is about and maybe you would be well served in trying to work out the fundaments of the SDMB as well as the fundaments of debate before you continue to post in GD. So far the fundamental right you have to hold whatever beliefs you want however unreasonable they are in other’s opinion, and a love for strange religious literature seems to be the only fundaments you have. Sparc ---
**Author:** ![stockton](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b5a626/32.png) [@stockton](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/stockton)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 12:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/4 "2002-09-01T00:34:46Z")
Insert obligatory black-bean enchilada recipe here. ---
**Author:** ![Homebrew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/c89c15/32.png) [@Homebrew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Homebrew)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 12:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/5 "2002-09-01T00:41:45Z")
You’ve made a huge tactical error coming into the Pit. ---
**Author:** ![grendel72](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/91b2a8/32.png) [@grendel72](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/grendel72)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 12:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/6 "2002-09-01T00:43:20Z")
Here’s a [link](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?threadid=131615). **His4Ever** , you joined a discussion that had _absolutely nothing_ to do with your particular hate-cult-masquerading-as-Christianity. You did this on a messageboard dedicated to fighting ignorance. You brought nothing to the table but ignorance. Therefore you are being fought. You are being fucking coddled compared to the way other hatemongers are treated here. ---
**Author:** ![Coldfire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/a587f6/32.png) [@Coldfire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Coldfire)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 12:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/7 "2002-09-01T00:50:22Z")
Why? She has a complaint about the behaviour of some posters - this is the right place. ---
**Author:** ![grendel72](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/91b2a8/32.png) [@grendel72](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/grendel72)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 12:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/8 "2002-09-01T00:58:10Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by His4ever \* > **I just need to say that I’ve found that there are some very rude, hateful people on this board. At least that’s how they come across to me.** You have _no idea_ how hateful you come across. > [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by His4ever \* > **Oh yeah, and any source you name is automatically a fraud or the person is lying, whereas if it’s their source then, of course, it must be true. I think they need to learn that not everyone coming to this board is going to agree with their position on various issues, maybe for a variety of reasons. No matter what you tell them, they are right and your are wrong.** When you find a source that _isn’t_ a lying fundie bigot I will accept what they have to say. Your sources **are fucking liars** - it has been explained to you _why_ other sources are more valid than yours but you are **too fucking ignorant** to understand logic and reason. > [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by His4ever \* > \*\*Resorting to name calling and hatefulness is childish in my opinion. I don’t know if I picked the right forum for this as I really don’t want to flame anyone. If this is the wrong forum, my apoligies. \*\* You are the one who started the hateful namecalling. “Abomination”, “unnatural”, these are fucking **hateful** , **evil** things to be calling another human being. ---
**Author:** ![Jack\_Batty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jack_batty/32/3201_2.png) [@Jack\_Batty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jack_Batty)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 1:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/9 "2002-09-01T01:13:45Z")
First of all, buy an enter key for your keyboard, they come in handy. Second of all, stop whining. Your “opinions” are inflamatory to a great many here. If you lurked for more than a few minutes, you’d have figured it out. Not to mention that your arguments of “Hey it’s right there in the Bible” is practically the definition of circular logic. You’d best thicken up the skin, or leave the topic alone. And fer Buddha’s sake, try not to get so upset over shit said on an internet message board. If you can’t take the heat, get out of the tater celler, as they say. ---
**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 1:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/10 "2002-09-01T01:24:30Z")
**His4Ever** -not everyone called you names. However, despite the fact that several people were able to tell you that you were wrong, you refused to gracefully admit to being so. For example-when LDS members of the board told you that was NOT AT ALL what they believed, you ignored that. I think you were more than polite-and no, you didn’t deserve the name calling (And those who did it know who they are). However, you have to accept the fact that some of us are going to find fault with your arguments. NO ONE on this board is immune to this. Trust me. Stop reading Jack Chick, for starters. The man is a complete and utter liar. ---
**Author:** ![Jack\_Batty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jack_batty/32/3201_2.png) [@Jack\_Batty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jack_Batty)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 1:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/11 "2002-09-01T01:34:54Z")
> [@](#): > > _Originally posted by Guinistasia_ > **Stop reading Jack Chick, for starters. The man is a complete and utter liar.** If you need a gradual transition back to main stream comics, may I suggest _Mark Trail_. I’m sure you’ll find the style familiar and comforting. Remember – don’t trust people with sideburns. ---
**Author:** ![grendel72](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/91b2a8/32.png) [@grendel72](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/grendel72)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 1:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/12 "2002-09-01T01:39:45Z")
When you claim, for example, that Mormons believe something, then a Mormon tells you they don’t believe that, only a fucking idiot would ignore the _fact_ that an actual Mormon just said thy _don’t_ believe that. You have pulled this shit with Mormons, Catholics and who knows how many other groups. I think it’s too late for you to learn how to actually think (you get your religious beliefs from _comic books_ for crying out loud) and I am patiently waiting for you to **go away**. If, and this is a huge fucking _if_, you can actually support your arguments logically, you may eventually be a worthwhile member of this board. I’m not holding my breath. ---
**Author:** ![Reeder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c6cbf5/32.png) [@Reeder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Reeder)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 1:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/13 "2002-09-01T01:41:44Z")
Someone enlighten me here. His4ever is spewing hatred for gays and gets hatred back…and s/he/it complains?? That makes sense. To someone I’m sure. ---
**Author:** ![Scylla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a5b964/32.png) [@Scylla](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scylla)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 1:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/14 "2002-09-01T01:43:07Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Jack Batty \* > \*\* > > If you can’t take the heat, get out of the tater celler, as they say. \*\* Ha! Shows what you know! Tater celler’s are cool. In fact that’s where you go when you can’t take the heat in the kitchen. This error of course mirrors your moral and spiritual bankruptcy, devalues you as a human being, and renders you worthy of nothing so much as approbrium scorn and contempt. [sub] stop looking at me like that[/sub] :smack: Oh wait! Crap! Sorry Jack I thought you were **His4ever**. ---
**Author:** ![december](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/838e76/32.png) [@december](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/december)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 1:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/15 "2002-09-01T01:57:56Z")
**His4ever** , my support may not help you much with your critics, but here is is FWIW. I utterly disagree with you about religion and about homosexuality. However, you presented your (completely wrong) views politely and fairly. As you said, some posters were indeed very rude. You did not deserve that. There’s an ugly style of argument that’s popular in some areas, particular on some college campuses. It replaces debate with noise and viciousness. The person on the other side is shouted down and called names like “bigot” and “racist.” No discussion is permitted. Occassionally, newspapers with opposing positions are stolen and destroyed. This sort of thing may be what you have run into here. Some Board members may have been trained in that style of making their point. This board ought to follow the example of Voltaire: **"I do not agree with a word you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it."** ---
**Author:** ![dalovindj](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/65b543/32.png) [@dalovindj](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dalovindj)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 2:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/16 "2002-09-01T02:05:36Z")
> [@](#): > > There’s an ugly style of argument that’s popular in some areas, particular on some college campuses. It replaces debate with noise and viciousness. The person on the other side is shouted down and called names like “bigot” and “racist.” No discussion is permitted. Sometimes a duck _is_ a duck. DaLovin’ Dj ---
**Author:** ![Jonathan\_Chance](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jonathan_chance/32/701_2.png) [@Jonathan\_Chance](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jonathan_Chance)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 2:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/17 "2002-09-01T02:21:07Z")
**grendel** , I don’t care whether your angry about another thread. You’re coming across as a rude ass in this one, buddy. **His4ever** was polite in the OP. It’s my belief that you should remain so. ---
**Author:** ![happyheathen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b5e925/32.png) [@happyheathen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/happyheathen)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 2:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/18 "2002-09-01T02:37:54Z")
H4e - when everyone tells you you’re drunk, lie down. now, go away. thank you. ---
**Author:** ![Derleth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Derleth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Derleth)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 2:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/19 "2002-09-01T02:43:51Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by december \* > \*\*This board ought to follow the example of Voltaire: **“I do not agree with a word you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.”** \*\* I agree with Voltaire completely, but not **december**. Why? Because the doctrine, legal and moral, of Free Speech cuts both ways: If I say something utterly moronic, I can’t whine ‘But it’s my right!’ when someone calls me an utter moron. They have the same right to chastise me as I have to spew bullcrap. If I can’t handle it, I have the obligation to grow a fucking skin or to slink off to someplace that welcomes hateful masturbaters. ---
**Author:** ![grendel72](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/91b2a8/32.png) [@grendel72](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/grendel72)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2002, 2:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497/20 "2002-09-01T02:55:47Z")
**Jonathan Chance** , exactly what part of the OP was polite? The part where she whines about being asked to support her positions in GD? The Part where she calls us rude and hateful? So I’m a “Rude ass” for using some profanity and stating that I hope the OP will go away. The names she has called _everyone_ not belonging to her hate cult are _far worse_ than any four letter words I may have used. I wish her to go away, that is far less offensive than wishing eternal torment on someone. [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/something-i-need-to-get-off-my-chest-about-the-sd-board/126497.md?page=2)