# Songs About Cross-Dressing?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776>\
**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [December 28, 2009, 4:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776 "2009-12-28T04:57:44Z")\
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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 4:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/1 "2009-12-28T04:57:44Z")

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A friend had once given me an mp3 of a weird song. It was sung by a guy and it was about cross-dressing. I’d like to hear it again, but I’m not in talking terms with that guy and Google hasn’t really helped me.

So name a few songs about cross-dressing. 🙂

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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 5:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/2 "2009-12-28T05:03:46Z")

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[Walkin’ Round in Women’s Underwear.](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=foybsDsn5hk)

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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 5:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/3 "2009-12-28T05:06:09Z")

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Cross-dressing is brought up (or heavily implied) in these songs:

“Lola” by the Kinks

“Arnold Layne” by Pink Floyd

“Walk on the Wild Side” by Lou Reed

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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 5:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/4 "2009-12-28T05:11:36Z")

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Van Morrison’s “Madame George”

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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 5:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/5 "2009-12-28T05:15:00Z")

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I’m guessing it was “Walk on the Wild Side”…

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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 5:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/6 "2009-12-28T05:34:53Z")

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“Jane Says” by Jane’s Addiction  
“Where’s the Dress” by Moe Bandy and Joe Stampley

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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 5:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/7 "2009-12-28T05:41:37Z")

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Monty Python’s “The Lumberjack Song”?

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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 6:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/8 "2009-12-28T06:36:36Z")

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Weird Al’s “Truck Driving Song”?

Doesn’t Brad Paisley have a song about wearing lady’s clothes?

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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 6:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/9 "2009-12-28T06:39:55Z")

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“Lola”

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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 8:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/10 "2009-12-28T08:11:14Z")

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> [@Krokodil](#):
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> “Jane Says” by Jane’s Addiction  
> “Where’s the Dress” by Moe Bandy and Joe Stampley

Isn’t “Jane Says” about a heroin addict who used to be Farrell’s roommate?

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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 8:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/11 "2009-12-28T08:18:17Z")

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Might have been [Wig in a Box](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6kySwhkpY4I) from Hedwig and the Angry Inch?

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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 8:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/12 "2009-12-28T08:56:16Z")

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> [@Hazle\_Weatherfield](#):
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> Isn’t “Jane Says” about a heroin addict who used to be Farrell’s roommate?

And a transvestite, yes.

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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 9:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/13 "2009-12-28T09:11:50Z")

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> [@Krokodil](#):
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> And a transvestite, yes.

Nothing I’ve ever read about Jane Bainter indicates she has ever been a transvestite. [Washington Post article](http://www.davenavarro.de/jane_WA.htm) (reprint), [Wikipedia article](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jane_Says), [picture of Jane Bainter](http://www.davenavarro.de/Bio/Bio_Jane.jpeg) then, [picture of Jane Bainter](http://gravitatetowards.blogspot.com/) more recently. IIRC, the wig was worn due to her involvement in the LA club scene.

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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 10:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/14 "2009-12-28T10:07:56Z")

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Dude Looks Like a Lady - Aerosmith

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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 1:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/15 "2009-12-28T13:07:22Z")

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_“I’m Wishing You a Drag Queen Christmas”_

and

_“I Am What I Am”_ from la Cage aux Folles

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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 1:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/16 "2009-12-28T13:28:39Z")

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Isn’t “I’m A Boy” by The Who about forced cross-dressing?

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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 2:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/17 "2009-12-28T14:43:55Z")

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“Out of the Wardrobe” by the Kinks–none of the ambiguity of “Lola” there!  
“Rosie” - Joan Armatrading  
“Woman or a Man?” - Richard Thompson

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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 2:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/18 "2009-12-28T14:59:17Z")

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There’s “Queen of the BBQ” by 80s Austin punk band The Hickoids (“he looks much better in a dress than you”), which is pretty obscure but not too obscure to be on a MySpace page: [!!!](http://www.myspace.com/hickoids)

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**Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 3:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/songs-about-cross-dressing/522776/19 "2009-12-28T15:08:39Z")

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These songs _mention_ cross-dressing or cross-dressers but may not, strictly speaking, be _about_ them:  
_King For a Day_ - Green Day  
_Nancy Boy_ - Placebo  
_Funky Cold Medina_ - Tone Loc  
_Get Back_ - The Beatles  
_Laid_ - James  
_Where I Come From_ - Alan Jackson  
_Rebel Rebel_ - David Bowie

There are lots about women dressing as men to join the army:  
_Sweet Polly Oliver_ (English folk song)  
_The Cruel War_ - Peter, Paul & Mary (among others)

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> [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](#):
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> _Rebel Rebel_ - David Bowie

“You’ve got your mother in a whirl / She’s not sure if you’re a boy or a girl”? I’m not sure it’s about cross-dressing per se, or androgyny, or just a “your folks don’t understand you” kind of thing ([lyrics here](http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/Rebel-Rebel-lyrics-David-Bowie/9A334021EA83F4ED482568A20026656F)). [Lady Stardust](http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/Lady-Stardust-lyrics-David-Bowie/4CE13886A78B73CF482568A2001433B2) is another song toying with gender identity, but not explicitly about cross-dressing.

I _thought_ Bowie’s [Queen Bitch](http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/Queen-Bitch-lyrics-David-Bowie/5DCB746104F9276A482568A20016EAC0) was about cross-dressing, but reviewing the lyrics, I’m not sure. Is the “queen” who pushes “ahead of the dames” a drag queen, or just a pushy broad? When the singer says “I can do better that,” is he saying he could find a better lover than her, or he could dress better than her, or he could please her man better than her? I find it all very confusing.

> [@](#):
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> There are lots about women dressing as men to join the army:  
> _Sweet Polly Oliver_ (English folk song)  
> _The Cruel War_ - Peter, Paul & Mary (among others)

Oh, Bowie’s [She’s Got Medals](http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/She%27s-Got-Medals-lyrics-David-Bowie/B342262412C0CA31482568A2002A8D35)\* fits in that category. No ambiguity there, except for the part about picking up girls. Whatever do you suppose she did with them?

- One of several obscure novelty songs he recorded before “Space Oddity.”

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